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I find her offer extremely tempting, but I have some concerns about it

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Question - (31 October 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 31 October 2007)
A male Australia age , *yan writes:

Hi

i have been given the come on by a mates wife, he recently had a affair and she found out. now she want to try and see what its like with someone else.

she proposed that we should get together and try it. we have done some kissing and petting but i think it will turn out bad. my wife is unaware of it but my male side want to do it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2007):

one word ... rebound! dont get mixed up in all this, is it really worth losing your best mate over?

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A male reader, Richard_EMids United Kingdom +, writes (31 October 2007):

Richard_EMids agony auntSeems she wants revenge. Chances are she will want her husband to find out - and will make sure he does somehow. She is ready with her justification to her husband. Then when it all blows up and calms down again - it will be your wifes turn to take her revenge on you?

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (31 October 2007):

hlskitten agony auntHi

Start thinking with your top head not the little head.

This is a major risk and can only end in tears.

You're being used by this woman to pay back her cheating hubby. Its not rocket science. And it might sound ideal to you, sex with no commitment, but its not going to end anywhere else but hell. But i dont doubt you know that already.

Just my opinion.

Good luck.

C xxxxx

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A male reader, JustaGuy United Kingdom +, writes (31 October 2007):

Hi,

I think this is a very bad idea! You have a wife, end of story!

Remeber those vows you took at the alter.

You risk losing everything if your wife found out, could you live with the guilt knowing that you had cheated on her? You need to focus your attention on your wife and work on whatever it is making you want to wander.

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