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I feel trapped, what do I do?

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Question - (31 October 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 31 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, *ilda writes:

I dont know what to do i have been with my boyfriend for 8 months living together for 3. i do love him but 3 weeks ago an old friend of my late husbands turned up to see how i was and then a few days later he texted me to say he wanted to see me again the text got very flirty and dirty, we met a few days later and it was great it felt so right and we have seen each other agin a few times, i know it will be nothing more then sex with him (he's married) but its made me realise i made a big mistake moving in with my boyfriend.

I am 30, widowed with children. i had my first child at 16 and was married at 18 and didnt really have a life outside the home, life is too shortr and you only live once. it would destroy my boyfriend if he found out but i feel trapped and dont know what to do.

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A female reader, angelblueeyes United Kingdom +, writes (31 October 2007):

angelblueeyes agony auntHi,

If this is not where you want to be then you should leave, its not fair on yourself or your b/f staying there for the fun of it.

Sit down with your b/f and explain how you feeling and whats going on of coarse it will hurt him but he will get over it, like you say lifes to short so go out and have some fun!!

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