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writes:i'm 19, and the guy i was seeing is 21. we used to be good friends before all this. we started speaking on myspace after not having contact in a while.we sent flirty emails and texts and met up the following week. he came round mine and we kissed. we spend the rest of the evening together. i had a feeling he had a girlfriend but i wanted him to tell me first in which he did.we remained close and he would text me, saying he missed me and so forth. its didn't last for long and he would make up reason not to see me and blow me off with the most lame excuses. i'd get angry and tell him i didn't want to see him again. but he keep ringing me and texting me til i gave in. or he'd tell me bad stuff that happened to him to make me feel guilty bout being mad at him. this constantly kept happening. his friends would warn me bout him, i knew the truth but wouldn't listen to them. this went on for months. my gay mate told me he'd been flirting with her!!! i asked him bout it and he denied it saying 'id never do that to you as i care bout you too much'. we set him up. he went on webcam with her, played with himself and i show my face on the camera. he was gutted! it really upset him and then suddenly i felt bad again! he said we should take a break as he couldn't trust me!!! and there was no way i trusted him. we didn't talk for a while and then i found out he tryed it on with my gay mate again! i was so hurt that i deleted him from msn, sent him a text saying ' you can't trust me understatement! check yourself into the local mental institution'normally he reply back but i havn't heard from him since. he's deeply hurt me and i know i shouldn't have been so foolish to put my faith in him. we were friends before all this and i just want that back and nothing else.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (26 October 2007):
 Bad idea. There's no way you will be able to get back to just being friends at this point, you're too close to the situation that happened, and you're hurting too much for it go back to anything casual. It's unfortunate and sad that he betrayed you. But you can never go home, so to speak. Continue to keep him blocked, chalk it up to a bad experience and move on. He isn't worth keeping as a friend. And in time, you will feel better and stronger at having done this. Good luck.
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (26 October 2007):
 hi.
I believe he had what was coming to him, and i am glad that you showed him up for what he really is, so do not feel bad about that,if he was your friend, he would not have played with you emotions in this way.
You are really better off with out him, i am shaw that you will make better friends and when you do you will wonder what the fuss was all about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): Im really sorry but why would you want to be even friend with such a person. In my opinion, i think you should forget about this guy completly. You were warned about him by his friends, that should give you a clear indictation about the type of person he really is.I really dont think you can be friends with this guy again, as you said he has deeply hurt you and believe me he will do it again if you let him. SO DONT.
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