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writes:My Girlfriend and I have been dating for two years now. In september she started college. When she first started she always told me we could hang out the next night becuase seh was to busy with "things" this night, but the next night never came for a week. I always got the same reply of I am to busy. Now, when i ask her if she wants to get together or hang out she says i need to do my homework first, then she does not do her homework and just goes out with her friends, Which are all guys (about 20 no girls besides her). Now she lies to me and says we will hang out soon but we never do. Do you think these are signs that she is cheating on me or could be thinking about it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): I think she's growing up, some people drift apart once they get older and experince new relationships. Maybe its time to move on?
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reader, RNaunt  +, writes (26 October 2007):
Hi,Well, when i started reading ur question i thought about my first year at uni and thought about how excited/terrified i was about it. she's probably just trying to make new friends and fit in and adjust to the uni lifestyle.on the other hand, the fact that she's lying to you and outrightly ditches you shows that she doesn't respect you the way you deserve it. either confront her about ur concerns or consider that maybe you guys were great up until now but that your paths split at this point... good luck and take care!
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