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writes: I have been with my boyfriend 7 months now and we love each other so much. He even said he wanted to marry me, and I felt the same. But he told me that he slept with another woman last week and he has no excuse for doing it. He doesn't know why he did it. I was really upset at first, but I don't want what we had to end, and he doesn't either. I don't know what to do. Should I forgive him, and give it another go? Or forget about him? Please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, I Dont Lie +, writes (23 September 2005):
 Follow what your heart tells you. Everyone makes mistake. Thats ok. The only thing not ok with it is that he made that mistake in the expense of someone else, you!! So I would say, if you can ever find yourself to forgive him and feel that he is worth fighting for now, do it. But personally, Im a totally different person and I could never ever take someone back if shes cheated on me!! But thats me anyway cause I can never trust that person again. But if you can, I dont see why not if you really still love him and he does you!! Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2005): My personal opinion is he only told you because someone somewhere had seen or found out and he obviously had no choice but wanted to be the one to tell you. Otherwise he wouldn't have. He knows he can't get better than you and probably just tried pushing the boundaries of him being a man and both of your relationship. I know you say you love him, but make sure he does love you too. You can't have a relationship of none trust and wondering what if. Be sure in your mind and heart before making any desision.
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reader, wicky +, writes (22 September 2005):
The man is a player; leave him. I know it's a cliche but a leopard never changes its spots. If he really wanted to marry you so soon after 7 months then he should feel seriously enough about cheating on you. Don't let him fool you darling. The sooner you leave him, the sooner you will get over him!!!
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reader, Starr +, writes (22 September 2005):
Listen, there are a lot of reasons why you would love to stay but open your eyes a little wider from now on.It has only been seven months into the relationship.The two of you are still fresh no one cheats this early in the relationship unless they 1.bore easily 2. have a problem being faithful in their relationships.I know that you love him and may even see a bright future with him by your side but I believe that if you let this slide easily,he won't hesitate to do it again.Please don't get me wrong there are some good men out here in this world and im not telling you to leave him alone but I am telling you to be more observant of you surroundings especially around him.Don't let your gaurd down so quickly.You may feel the need to give him a second chance which is fine but don't be a fool.
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