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Archived questions from: 17 January, 2011 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

I cant choose between the picture-perfect Vince and not-so-perfect Caleb who I love, but...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Help me with my decision! I have been with Caleb for a year and a half. We have had some rough patches. I love him an incredible amount but I want him to do more with his life. Sometimes he seems unmotivated to work and find a job.He lost his ...

He broke up with me because of my behaviour but I want him back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Hey.. So anyway straight to the subject I've been with my boyfriend for two months then i started lying to him and doing things he forbided me from and etc.. and now he found out about everything and he left me..and every time i open the subject...

My ex's words: "it's too much right now, but maybe later in the future". Was it all my fault??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4857 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - My ex and I met through a mutual friend and instantly connected. He was talking to someone and so was I, so we were strictly friends, but the more we talked about things the more we realized how much we had in common with what we wanted out of a ...

I'm cutting him out of my life because I don't want to be used!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend cheated on me and then I dumped him because he was calling me controlling when It was him who was too possessive over me and then he tells me he still loves me so i took him back and i started fighting with his sister and he didnt ...

Should I feel guilty? What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I seem to worry about everything that would make my boyfriend angry, you could say im walking on egg shells. Tonight we finished , i made the decision, im not sure whether it was the right thing but soo after id text my ex just to literally see how ...

I need to know I am doing the right thing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4855 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I have this guy I fell in love with right from the first day I met him. We live in different cities but we talk, even though it's not as often as I want. Nor what am used to. I just take it like that because I think he's the ideal man I want to take ...

No sex, arguments and I think he is planning to leave.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Ok, this may be long but I'm desperate for help. Me and my husband have been together for nearly five years and have two children together. Ever since I had found out I was pregnant with out now 7 month old son he seemed to change a bit. We went ...

I want to move on, how can I stop being clingy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4858 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - i wrote a month ago about my x boyfriend.. now its over.. it all started a month ago when i needed him urgently for a life or death situation and i called him many times.. he finally showed up but then he started distancing himself from me like i ...

Girlfriend rented a uhaul and is moving out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend just broke up two days ago she was at her cousins house for a week I ckecked he email and seen a uhaul conformation I went home and asked y and she said she was tired of all the fighting so it was best to do it this way she says ...

Married Indian in love with an European!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4858 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - Hello, My case is complicated like everyone elses. I am married to a wonderful women since 3 years now, out of these three years we were living in different countries for about 2 years. We had a long distance relationship in the meantime. ...

I am getting divorced and want to marry my friend, but so many things are getting in the way! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I was married for 6 years to a jerk and I am in the process of getting divorced. I was having some sex problems with my husband since we got married. he wanted sex all the time and I can't. he was sexually abusing me. I am indian so I didn't think ...

Break up or work it out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - i really like this guy... since i was 5.. we used to go to the same church, but we fought alot. people always said wen we were older, we'd get married. 11 yrs later we got together, an i was really elated.. within those 11 yrs i had been with oth...

Tired of her lies!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - Ok, so I currently have a girlfriend but she's been telling me lies for awhile, and to make matters worse my ex comes into the picture and tells me that she still likes me and wants to get back together, so this puts me in a tight spot, I still have ...

If I stay with him he's going to remind me of this all my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 4 months already, our relationship is going OK but he is planning to move to panama in the summer. Before we started to seriously go out i had been with someone else that he actually knew, me and that ...

What is important if you are in a relationship? Personality or who the person is?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4858 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - I just want to be open about how I feel about this girl, I honestly loved this girl with all my heart and everything. Now its been over a year and a half since we have broken up, she has had a few relationships in this time we have remained friends ...

How he could beg for me to take him back and yet sleep with four other women meanwhile???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend were dating for three years we have children. he lost his job and started hanging out with friends all the time and he pushed me away from him. when i finally got tiered of it. i asked him to leave. he begged me to let him stay ...

After 5 years I felt more pain than happiness

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4858 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I was in a 5 year relationship when I ended it a few days ago. I love him a lot. I still do. However, it came to a point when I felt more pain than happiness. He began his overseas studies mid-half of last year, and lets just say he's become a ...

I'm pregnant but my BF of 9 years has left to live with his new GF. I feel so vulnerable. What can I do to protect my babies and me from being homeless?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I am 5 months pregnant and have two toddler daughters. My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years and we just bought a house. This is the first year he has made a lot of money since he opened his own business. He recently left the home stat...

Should I pick the man that only physically pleases me (my bf) or pick the one that emotionally satisfies me but not physically (my ex)?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4858 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - my situation is so complicated. Idk what to do. I recently moved in with my bf. Things went really fast. we only knew each other a few months before moving in together. things were great for the first month or so but lately he has been working Alot ...

Despite our Stand-off I love him and want to settle down with him. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4858 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I thought I had met the love of my life. We both have had issues in the past and were badly wounded from other relationships. It was a whirlwind and we quickly moved in together. The pressure really got to us, and i moved out. We agreed to take ...

I know we should break up, but when things are good they are sooo good!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4858 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - Is she acting crazy, or am I turning into a heartless asshole? Well, here it goes. I've been with my girlfriend for about 3 years all together now. We've been broken up for a couple of times during this period (she dumped me), but ended u...