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Archived questions from: 14 December, 2010 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

Can't put closure on my ex until I have some questions answered...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - Me and my ex have been broken up for almost 4 years now and i have been in another relationship since then, a really serious relationship. it was my choice to leave my ex because we were young and there was a lot of problems going on. so some guy ...

Can I get him back by being with him as a friend (without benefits)???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - My bf broke up with me a month back. Now he is sugessting friends with benefits with me. I said 'NO' since i still have feelings for him and i dont want to get hurt. But i am wondering can I get him back by being with him as a friend (without ...

8 year relationship over. Cant stop thinking about her!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

14 December 2010 (M) - My girlfriend of 8 years told me on Thanksgiving that she is unhappy and wants to take a break. She has been my girlfriend for 8 years and fiancé for almost 3. We own a home together. This is so hard on me seeing her everyday and not knowing what ...

Broken-hearted girl!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - heey i am a 14 year old girl who has been split up from her ex boyfriend for about 8 months now i was with him for about 8 months and i just cant get over him he treats me like crap all the time says he loves me then says he dont then has a go at me ...

I'm falling for my ex's best friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - My ex and I broke up Sept 2009, and hes been with someone else for over a year. I still love him and want him back, and we talk a lot, but obviously hes with someone else. Over the past several months I've started talking and becoming close to...

She left me after years of my asking her if she'd ever cheated on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

14 December 2010 (M) - i need help. ive been with my woman for ten yrs and have 2 kids. ive cheated on her numerous times because i thought she cheated in the first few years of our realationship, mainly because we had sex the first nite. she used to leave me and go out ...

Everything was going so perfect, why did he do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - hey agony aunts. ok so ill get straight to the point. i broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago, i was with him for 9 months, he was my first serious boyfriend. he wasnt right for me, i knew it and so did everyone else, he constantly questioned ...

Why does the break up still hurt so much, after all this time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4888 days ago

14 December 2010 (M) - My question is simple, Why Does it hurt so much when my ex says she is sorry for what she has done to me? I thought I would feel better but it just hurts and brings back all these emotions. Like to keep things quick and short, we broke up over a ...

How do I tell my teen son about my new girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

14 December 2010 (M) - I'm recently divorced from a long, unhappy marriage, and with a new partner whom I admittedly was involved with while my marriage was failing. I have a young teen son who has been pretty OK with the divorce, but he knows nothing about my partner. ...

Is it possible to love each other after such a bad breakup?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

14 December 2010 (M) - I met this girl online while playing an online game. We kind of hit it off, and were surprised that we used to come from the same place, but due to our character (being highly unagreeable, we like standing by our own views and being a little ...

Confused about my love for him and his love for her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4888 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - Okay well here's my story. I went out with this one guy who i really liked but wasn't really that into, he told me he loved me and everything. And about two months or so he broke up with me. As soon as he was gone my whole life crumbled before m...

Can I send a card after a breakup, hoping it might make a difference?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

14 December 2010 (M) - Should I send a xmas card to a woman that broke up with me in an email, "I think we should just leave things well enough alone..." It is killing me and embarrassing at my age (47) but I am still in love with her three months after our (email) ...

Should I ask for a second chance or leave things as they are?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4888 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - hi, i was in a long distance relationship for near two months and i decided to finish it with him. it is 5 weeks on and i feel i made the wrong decision. I have been unhappy and constantly thinking about this guy.I regret my decision to break up.. ...

I have left her twice, and only been back together for a short time but now I find myself emotionally cheating! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

14 December 2010 (M) - First things first, I'm 24. Now, about 5 years ago I was with this girl for about 6 months, she turned crazy and left me and all of her friends no longer talk to her and they are STILL TO THIS DAY friends with me. The day that girl and I broke...

I don't want to be with him but he wont accept the breakup! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - i want to break up with my boyfriend. I told him on phone because he is too much agreessive. After hearing on phone first he shown his agression till 40 mins after that i disconnected the call. Then after some time he started begging to give him one ...

Once trust has gone, will it ever come back?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

14 December 2010 (M) - once a womans trust is gone is that it? game over? how can trust be regained. how can you show a woman you mean what you say even though she doesnt believe a word you say. how can you show a woman youve changed if she wont even see you....

She cant confirm if we are really over, but wont let me back in her life! What can I do?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

14 December 2010 (M) - my lifes just spinning out of control. 8 months ago i had everything, although it wasnt all good on the relationship front and hadnt been since sept 09 really when our 2nd son was born. basically we fell in love and left out partners nearly 7 years ...

I want to leave but I really love our little girl, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

14 December 2010 (M) - I am a American living in Thailand. I don't speak Thai and my lady partner does not speak english. Been together 7 yrs. We took in a 4 yr. old little girl that 10 yr. old now. her parents threw her away. I can't stand her continuously yelling ...

Whats wrong with me and the guys I attract?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - So this kinda goes with my last ?. But here goes. The relationship that i am in is a bad 1. We fight all the tme and its always about something dumb. He yelled at me over lettuce we had to buy in the middle of the street.how humiliating for me. And ...

He broke up with me because he wanted to go out with other women

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - Just when I think love can't any worse it does! I'm so livid right now I feel like all of my blood vessels are about to pop! Maybe I am in the wrong but I don't think so. My boyfriend turned up at my job and of all places three weeks ago to tell me ...

He came on so strong and then kept breaking things off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - I met a guy who came on really, really strong at first. Talking about falling in love with me, etc. I was a bit hesitant at first. Then, I sort of started to believe him, and started to go along with what he said. He mentioned waking up with m...

My abusive boyfriend is controlling my life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4888 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - I have an abusive boyfriend who doesnt want to break up. i dont love him anymore because i have fallen inlove with someone else. He has bit me, swore at me n even posted me half naked on facebook, the truth is i cant stand him anymore but the ...