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writes:Me and my ex have been broken up for almost 4 years now and i have been in another relationship since then, a really serious relationship. it was my choice to leave my ex because we were young and there was a lot of problems going on. so some guy came, swept me off my feet and i took the chance. I guess in a way I wanted my boyfriend at the time to tell me to stay, that we could get past it, not to give up but he didn't. I feel I never got the closure I needed and to this day I still think about him and I feel I cant move forward in my relationship until then. I have questions I feel are unanswered. I don't know what to do...
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reader, absinth +, writes (16 December 2010):
absinth is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks that one helped a lot and is very true.
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reader, HurtandUnsure +, writes (16 December 2010):
 Im trying to find closure every day with my latest ex. Its hard, but sometimes you just need to bite the bullet and seize the day. It can be a text saying hey, can we grab lunch er something. If he replies and says sure, let him know what you want to talk about and set a date. If he doesn't, at least you tried. At least you know that the man in your life now will still be understanding and supportive of you and most likely help you to get past your previous relationship.
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reader, absinth +, writes (16 December 2010):
absinth is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks that does make a lot of sense. the only problem is that i havent spoken to my ex in 2 years. and before that hardly ever.
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reader, HurtandUnsure +, writes (15 December 2010):
If you still talk to your ex, I think you could casually bring up your past relationship and find closure. Let your current know how you're feeling, if he's as good to you as you have stated, he will understand and probably urge you to get over your ex before trying to move on with him. Good luck!
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