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female
age
26-29,
*bbzndthighz
writes:Okay well here's my story.I went out with this one guy who i really liked but wasn't really that into, he told me he loved me and everything. And about two months or so he broke up with me. As soon as he was gone my whole life crumbled before my eyes. I had no idea how much I loved him...until he was gone..After the break up, him and I became really good friends, but some where deep down inside I knew I still loved him.I would pretend that I loved him like a brother and at one point I started to believe my own lie.Until one evening I could not hold it in anymore, and my best friend(who by the is the Best's friend ever)told him that I was MADLY in love with him. And further on in the evening he asked me if it was a recent love or if I had never stopped and I told him "I'm not gonna lie but I never stopped"After that evening he started telling me that he loves me and that he wants to see me. But the only problem is....he has a girlfriend.About a two weeks or so after that night one of my friends tried to break him and his girlfriend up so she could go out with him and I had to tell his girlfriend that he loves her and no one else and that the other girl was just lying to her.It was probably the hardest thing I'd ever had to do. :( He said to me that he does love me but he loves his girlfriend as well.Yesterday evening though he told me he doesn't know if it's a lot of sibling love or if it's actual love..But I must add that he has wanted to take my virginity..Getting down to the point and the actual question...I don't know if its love I really feel for him or if I'm just using him for affection? Or if he's perhaps just using me to get something out of me? I can't shake the feeling that he is..HOW WILL I KNOW? I'm so confussed!! I don't know how to feel or what to do!!
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reader, petina1  +, writes (14 December 2010):
 In my opinion if two people love each other then no man stands in the way. Two people will be together. The excuse of loving two people is like having his cake and eating it. You are both very young. When we are young we have lots of different boyfriend and girlfriends. Don't lose your virginity to him it won't make him love you more because he already has another girlfriend. He will be flattered by the attention he is getting. Find someone who just wants you and no one else for whatever reason.
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