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writes:Ok, this is kind of a strange situation. I know this guy who is friends with my uncle, and this guy is married to my uncle's ex. Lately, my uncle has been said that this guy has been asking him to ask me to come along when they go out for a drink. I haven't seen him for a long time though, and i've only seen him a few times. My uncle told me that he likes me. Apparently, he used to like my mum though too !. He is 13 years older than me, and he is 12 years younger than my mum , so its funny that he liked her since she is older than him. I also find it strange that he has liked my uncle's ex, his sister and his niece !. It was a long time ago when he liked my mum, before he got married. I did see him smile at me a couple of times when i bumped into him, but i didnt think anything of it. I thought he was just being friendly.Anyway, i'm not sure if i should go out with them both or not ?. Me and my uncle are close, but really, i'm surprised he didn't say he thought it was bad that his friend has kept asking for me to go out with them. What do you think about it ?. Reply to this Question
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (20 July 2010):
 Possibly - but that's not saying too much in his favor! He's had crushes on your Mother, your Uncle's ex-wife and niece. AND this man is married.
I still say stay the heck away from him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010): do you think he does have a crush on me ? i just assume he does because my uncle told me that he has kept asking me to go out with them, and my uncle even said " i can't force her to come out " to him , because i haven't been out with them yet. so it seems like he might have said something to my uncle, and my uncle did say that he likes me,although, could he not have misinterpreted it ?. i have seen him smile at me sometimes, but i didnt really think anything of it.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (19 July 2010):
I think you'd be well-advised to NOT go for a drink with them! And your uncle should have told his friend that it was a very bad idea.
Look: this man is MARRIED. It doesn't speak well of him that he had crushes on various other women in your family, either! No, steer well clear of him, now and for the foreseeable future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2010): Darling i highly sugest DO NOT go out with him he might only want to have sex with you and then im guessing after he guets tired he will simply DUMP YOU!!
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