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writes:hi I'm 17 and i have a huge crush on my headmaster i want to tell him i like him but I'm afraid of many things happening plus i have panic attacks a lot. i stare at him a lot, can't help it i think he has noticed. every time i see him i smile i think he has noticed that too. i don't want to be in trouble . What can i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010): This is not unusual. I think most school girls during their time at school will have a crush on a teacher or two.If the object of your affection is actually the head master, I suspect he is considerably older, not some younger student or newly qualified teacher. You state you are having panic attacks and having issues with confidence. Without knowing the full details I strongly suggest you talk with someone. Can you talk to your parents, or a school councillor?Don't worry about the Head Teacher, we will know what you are going through and be understanding.Good teachers will always always be very professional about this.Having said that in some circumstances, true love in the class room can and does evolve - I am engaged to my ex science teacher - but I know it is unusual. I posted my story on my relationship with my teacher here : http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-an-author-looking-for-your-stories-about.html
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (19 July 2010):
A girl went out with a teacher at my school. He got fired and jailed, and she got expelled. Why? Because under the age of 18, a teacher cannot legally have anything to do with a student. Plenty of students have crushes, you're not the only one. But they don't work out. So you need to accept that nothing can come of it. He will probably be aware that you have a crush. Best to just enjoy it, make sure nothing comes of it (or you will be in trouble as well as him), and make sure you're out with people your own age just having fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni don't think i will get over it, because i don't want to and I'm more attracted to people older than me. i don't know how old he i think in his 30's. I'm not going to tell him i have a crush but I'm going to keep talking to him. Is there some tips i could use so he doesn't realize i have a crush?
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