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writes:Okay, so I'm in love with a nineteen year old.. I'm 15.. he is the best thing that has ever happened to me and my mother completely disapproves.. I can't go on with her prodding me to break up with him. He is very nice, and smart, and absolutley perfect. He is very well mannered and funny but she still hates the age gap. How can I convince her to let us be? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2010): There's not much you can do about your mum not likeing the age gap but you can trying and talk to her over dinner with him there or something but dont brake up with him over this if you truely like him , im sick of hearing people say that its wrong because its illigal becuase if you honestly like someone age shouldnt matter and if it was a 20 year old going out with a 24 year old , just becuase its illigal dont mean you should stop the relationship aslong as you dont have sex which he wont if he trully likes you back x
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 July 2010):
You know why your mum says all this? Because she's right. Sure, you're a teenager and you can make mature decisions? Or so you think. As teenagers we all like to think that. Then our parents say something and we don't listen to it. And then we get hurt. I was there. You are there now. you're turning good advice down. Think about this logically. You are 15. He is 19. that means that he's dating someone under the legal age of consent. That means he's warped. No wonder your mother is worried. You're lining yourself up for a lot of pain here. Listen to your mother this time. She's right.
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