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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My girlfriend only wants to have sex when she is drunk

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3984 days ago

28 May 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend of 5 years only wants to have sex when she is drunk, also she always want me to come fast and don't touch her again till next time. I been working a lot on fore play, getting down on her, learning about what makes her feel better, romance, cooking for her, ... (124 words)

Why is my brother so LAZY?!?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3983 days ago

28 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So, like my previous posts, this is again about my brother. My brother has Asperger's syndrome. I've learned to accept that he is and probably forever will be socially awkward. But I can't come to accept how lazy he is. As the older sister, you would expect me to have the most ... (364 words)

She didn't value our friendship enough to let this happen!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3985 days ago

28 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone! I am a long time lurker of this website. anyway, my question is- a few months ago, my friend M started inviting me to hang out wiht a group of people who she si good friends with - they are from our school but i am not as close with them as she is. one of the g... (1097 words)

Do I stay longer to see or do I leave now with my heart still intact relatively??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3985 days ago

28 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy for a year and a half now and we recently had the talk of where it going. He said he not an emotional guy and doesn't form attachments easily. Has had relationships in the past of few years long and was still not emotional involved. He says fact he ... (160 words)

Torn between fiance and ex boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3985 days ago

28 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in relationship with H since past 6 years, our relationship is good, as I remember a lot of happy times and yes a few bad ones but that's how life is. I have had 3 relationships before H which all lasted less then 1 year. My last boyfriend Z was a good frie... (557 words)

How do I get out of this awkward dating thing with this guy I met through a dating website? I'm just not good at saying no or bringing up these things. Help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3985 days ago

28 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey All! So I met this guy through a dating website but Frankly meeting someone through a dating website is not a ideal thing for me and I just did it because my friend forced me to join it. I have quit it now because I don't think it works for me. This guy is sweet but ... (235 words)

Is my recent ex dating already?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3984 days ago

28 May 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Dated ex gf for year and half. She broke up with me 5 months ago. A few weeks ago she contacts me and says still in love with me, misses me, and wanted to spend all kinds of time together. It was great because I still loved her. She then says she wanted to keep it "open" t... (233 words)

Help!!! Am I being irrational?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3985 days ago

28 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello:) Recently I've been having some problems in my relationship. It started when I started to feel a bit taken for granted, all me and my boyfriend did was sit in at mine or his, and then go out with friends, which I love doing... But sometimes it's nice to feel special!... (455 words)

Could we have moved too fast jumping together and is there any way to reconcile this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3985 days ago

28 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and I have been together almost 3 months now we met at a prison that I work at. In the beginning he went behind my back and was texting his ex girlfriend knowing that it was not cool with me.so we moved passed it and have had minor issues since then. A problem ... (259 words)

Am I being foolish by holding out for Mr Right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3986 days ago

28 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I grew up in an abusive family and as a consequence I've always been incredibly cautious about romantic relationships. So much so that I've never had a boyfriend or even gone out on a date. Quite a few guys have asked me out, but I've never been sure that they really liked me ... (310 words)

I feel confused as to what he is thinking!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3986 days ago

28 May 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I need help my new relationship confuses the hell out of me! I have been seeing someone for four months and I don't get my relationship!. I've been divorced twice have three kids. I started seeing my little boys friends Dad in January he split with his Partner a year ago. At ... (849 words)

Ex sent a facebook request, is there a hidden agenda or is he trying to make me more miserable?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3985 days ago

28 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid My ex-bf broke up with me a month ago. As soon as dumped me he blocked me in facebook, messager, phone..... He was verbally and emotionally very abusive towards the end of the relationship i.e. for past 6 months. He called me worst names while breaking up wi... (128 words)

I've fallen for him but he's said he wants to remain single, I don't think he knows my feelings about having children. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3986 days ago

28 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been friends with a widower for about 3 years, before he became a widower actually. His wife passed away very suddenly about 2 years ago, they were very close. We started off as just friends, I was trying to re-engage him, his health was poor and he wasn't interested in ... (306 words)

I'm willing to do whatever it takes to get her back but I don't know where to start! Help?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3978 days ago

28 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - okay , it is been along time now but i'm back ...and i have a question ..i really need help with it because i have no idea what to do . if you hurt your friend how many time do you say i'm sorry and what do you do when she just doesn't want to listen anymore ? what happene... (268 words)

Why does he keep trying to communicate with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3986 days ago

28 May 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend broke up with me 3mths ago. I get to find out he had another woman beside me, and when it became public cause he and I works the same place and the lady comes to him and will be in his vehicle. That's when I realize that our relationship is over. Since then we ... (633 words)

Why do I miss my abusive ex boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3986 days ago

28 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dealing with a personal and confusing issue with my now ex-boyfriend, and have no idea what to do. We started dating a year ago. It was a very high and low relationship. Many fights. He did not want me to be friends with any male individual. He went through my ... (365 words)

I'm afraid of the pain he caused me, should I call him back or wait for him to call again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3983 days ago

28 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello good people So I have been writing about my unplanned pregnancy with a gut that I barely know and denied the pregnancy and left me. Well he hasn't come back yet but I'm delighted to inform you that scary as it was I am HIV negetive I'm so happy and I feel I have ... (237 words)

Is marriage a deal breaker?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3984 days ago

28 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my partner for 3 1/2 yrs now and we still don't live together because of both our situations. He going through a divorce and almost at the end and me because 'im not working. I love him very much and he loves me too, i would really love to get married but he d... (201 words)

do I let her go again or be a friend from afar?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3984 days ago

28 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I bumped to my best friend in high school, I used to like her so much but we stopped talking because I started having a girlfriend and she didn't like the fact that I had feelings for her. I never asked my best friend how I truly felt about her and that was when I was 14 so I ... (297 words)

I feel like I will never find anyone like my ex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3986 days ago

28 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i dated this guy for 3 years on and off and inbetween the break ups he had 3 kids and got married well recently i sent him a friend request its been 3 years since i seen him and i messaged him sayin hi . Well lately it seems like i cant stop thinking bout him i knw we r ... (100 words)

How do I stop being a burden to my family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3986 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) age 30-35 - Ok so I started college this semester, 3 hours away from my hometown. I've transfered schools twice already and I'm 24. I still depend on my parents and I hate it. I love my mother but at 24, been my third attempt in college, I feel guilty and like a failure. I'm pretty much a ... (354 words)

My wife misses her mom who lives in another state

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3986 days ago

28 May 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have been married almost 21 years. We met in California, which is where we have chosen to live. However, my wife's mom is from the South. Her mom lived in other places during our marriage including Alaska, Washington, and California, but when she retired she deci... (321 words)

Is I t wrong to watch each other having sex on camera?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3976 days ago

28 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering, i have been dating my boyfriend for a while, but we live far apart (about 5 hours. And well the other day he asked me if id watch him masturbate, cause that would really turn him on. So I did and i also took my top off. I was kinda turned on is that wrong of ... (116 words)

I'm unable to see my friends as more than friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3986 days ago

28 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it possible to not be able to bypass the stage of friendship with pretty much all your friends? I know some people can become lovers after friendship, especially after a long one, but I can never seem to find myself more attracted to someone who I’ve always known as a ... (97 words)

Should I have phone sex when I don't think we'll ever meet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3986 days ago

28 May 2013 (F)

age - I met a guy online who appears to like me, but only wants to have phone sex with me and although we live in different states, I don't think we'll ever meet. What are the chances of our ever getting together?... (42 words)

Cross dressing boyfriend...help!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3983 days ago

28 May 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I was with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years and about 1 yr ago I found erotic pictures of him on the computer cross dressed. I was so upset and freaked out! He said he didn't need to do it. Well, I kept finding new clothing. When he started crossdressing he stopped having sex with ... (195 words)

Attracted to a married man. He is making me feel guilty because I pulled away.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3986 days ago

28 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a falling out with this man I work with. He is married. I am single. We have been friends all along but there is an attraction between us which changes the friendship aspect of the relationship into something more and potentially something more dangerous. He has been my ... (455 words)

I have a question for men or women, whether you have cheated, or cheat, or never cheated

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3984 days ago

28 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question for men or women, whether you have cheated, or cheat, or never cheated: I am not sure if I want to be in love. I mean, I enjoy being loved and to love, but it seems that every man I was with had a tendency to cheat or lie, or even some girl friends of mine ... (604 words)

He asked me for a FWB relationship and I don't know how to proceed from here

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3985 days ago

28 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a guy friend, let's call him A, whom I've known for around an year. He's nice, funny, very intelligent, respectful - basically, he's a nice catch. A month ago I started hanging out with him and a bunch of friends, all male - I'm the only female in the group and I'm ba... (590 words)

Is it even worth it to have my mother in my life?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3986 days ago

28 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm at breaking point in my relationship with my mother. We've never had the best of relationships anyway but I'm seriously considering cutting her out of my life. My mother has never liked or loved me as a person. I certainly have never felt it or adored as children should be. ... (469 words)

I'm hurt that he didn't wish me well or say he was sorry for how things turned out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3986 days ago

28 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I was seeing someone on/off for 3 years. He got divorced about 10 months ago. Seemed interested at first, but then we had a disagreement. He then back tracked ever since. Which was 7 months ago. He insisted he didn't want to be in a relationship. Despite this I continued to see ... (270 words)

There's a part of me that wants to go back to my ex but I know its not a good idea!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3987 days ago

28 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Im new to this so please bare with me. My bf and I broke up after alot of bullshit between the both of us.we were both emotionally cheating.we decided to take a break. But I felt like during this break he was blaming everything on me.i felt I was being used.he would co... (415 words)

What does he mean by "ok cool"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3985 days ago

28 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Need some advice have this Guy friend I got my eyes on:)) but confused Idk if he likes me likes me.but we always hangout,play fight,cuddle, ect. okay so I really really like my Guy bestfriend alot so one day I just decided to tell him because couldn't hold it in nomore.so I ... (69 words)

Risk our friendship by stating I still love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3986 days ago

28 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I dated this guy for a few months. He graduated last year and I'm a sophomore in high school. Please don't start saying he's too old for me because my mother is okay with it and so are both of his parents. Well, we broke up a year ago because he was moving away to a few towns ... (162 words)

How do I get my husband to focus on me in bed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3985 days ago

28 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys. My hubby and I have a good sex life. But I was wondering how I can get him to focus on me in bed? He doesnt give oral- so thats out of the question. When we are intimate, I think I initiate a bit more, Ill kiss him rub his body, give him a short massage, usually ... (151 words)