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Archived questions from: 24 May, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How to get out of a abusive relationship???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3987 days ago

24 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok how to get out of a abusive relationship??? I gotta take it slow he aint gonna let me leave without a fight. And I need to learn how to pay bills myself and all that and live alone with my peaceful kitties. And I gotta wait til I get money. Hope my lawyer can settle a ... (157 words)

The little death--a man crying after sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3987 days ago

24 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to ask people about something I recently learnt about called "The Little Death" when a guy cries after sex. Why is this? None of my exes did this. Can someone explain this further?... (35 words)

I cannot imagine making myself emotionally vulnerable after everything I have seen and heard

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3988 days ago

24 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I grew up sheltered from the outside world. I believed that no one was having sex in high school(at least at mine), that most people were monogamous and honest in their relationships and that cheating was a very rare occurrence. however, A few years ago the child of a family ... (159 words)

Whenever things go wrong I want to end the relationship! Why does he put up with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

24 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do. I need some serious help/advice for my anger. I'm a 23-year old female and my bf is a 29 year old male. Whenever I get upset about something in the relationship, I immediately move to end it. For eg my boyfriend will say something that I take to b... (425 words)

My supervisor on my new job doesn't like me, talks about me and I'm not happy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3987 days ago

24 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is this woman at work so horrible. I hate her? I just got a new job and I'm not happy at all. First day they couldn't provide me with a uniform so I came in with black smart clothes and I told my manager and she said it was fine. A few hours in my job ... (398 words)

My friend has been dating and now has no time for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3987 days ago

24 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My best friend of 10 years has recently started a new relationship and since then she has pretty much cut all contact with me. She tells me that she can't afford to do anything or she has no time to meet me, yet I see her tagged on Facebook 3/4 times per week with her new ... (193 words)

She has a boyfriend should I tell her how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3983 days ago

24 May 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I have feelings for a woman who has a boyfriend, and I'm contemplating telling her how I feel. Here are the details: About a year ago I made the decision to move to Japan. I have some Japanese friends on facebook, and I was chatting with them to let them know I'm coming, un... (782 words)

Why do I attract older men? Is it a vibe I'm giving off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3987 days ago

24 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I attract older guys, in relationships? Is there a certain vibe I give off or is there a certain look I have that attracts men to cheat? I'm not saying I'm looking for a commitment from anyone. In reality, I don't want a relationship at all right now. But if a guy ... (149 words)

I confronted my friend about never paying when we go out together. Was this the right way to deal with the situation? Please advise?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3986 days ago

24 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend who never pays for her drinks when we go out to bars. She is the one that ussualy drives, so I always buy her first drink, but then she kind of assumes that the whole nite is on me. It happened already so many times, that I finally stopped offering her the... (1186 words)

Is it pathetic if I feel that love is around the corner given that no one has shown interest in me for 3 months?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

24 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay.. So, I broke up with my boyfriend 3 months ago. It was a friendly break up, we realised a long distance relationship wouldn't work and I have absolutely no romantic feelings towards him. But, somehow, after him, literally no one has shown any interest in me. NO ONE. I'm ... (116 words)

I think I may be bi-sexual or gay? How can I stop this

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

24 May 2013 (?) age 26-29 - i dont know if im bi or gay or straight, i get turned on by girls and not by that meany boys, but i have an amazing biyfriend and i think i have a crush on an old best friend, i dont want to be gay on bi, b=how can i stop it ?... (54 words)

Should I pursue something here? Or just let it go and accept that it's not meant to be.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

24 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have known K for a few years before we started talking and hanging out more as friends. He was due to move to another country so we met up for lunch, which ended up in coffee, drinks etc. Over the next few days we hung out a bit.....at a time where we both had some ... (301 words)

I fancy him but he is not really paying attention to me. Should I pursue this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3988 days ago

24 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a guy I see around a lot at university - everywhere from mutual friends' parties to the gym to in lectures (we do some of the same modules). I'd noticed him looking at me a lot (as in, all the time, and every time I caught him doing it he'd glance away really quickly) ... (241 words)

How do I know if he has another girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3987 days ago

24 May 2013 (F) age 30-35 - I'm 22. my guy is is 27 and we've been dating almost 4years. We both see each other we pay each other visit ,call each other on phone and joke but now his attitude towards me change suddenly, i don't seems to get him any longer if i pay him visit now he hide his fone fro... (179 words)

Are there some women that just do not like receiving oral sex?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 3985 days ago

24 May 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi there, I have a question about oral sex on a woman friend (or lack of). Several months ago when we first became intimate, she performed oral on me (with condom)and i politely asked if i could return the favour. The answer to my question was 'No, maybe when i get to know you ... (190 words)

I don't know whether to bring a friend or let the girls bring a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3988 days ago

24 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Going to be going to an amusement park with a girl I'm 90% interested in. It's going to be me, her, one of her best friends (a mutual friend), and a fourth person (whom the girl in question told me to pick from my friends). We're all from different neighboring states so ... (242 words)

I think I did the right thing in breaking up a LDR but I still feel sad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

24 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I broke up with my long distance boyfriend about a week ago. He lives in Boston and I'm in California. We were together almost 4 years and were incredibly in love. He was my first serious boyfriend. We saw each other about 3 times a year and I was very happy. Happ... (162 words)

Is it fair on us to be considering a LDR with her, in view of our past together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

24 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid I m in a tricky situation. my ex and I broke up last November after about 3 years . The relationship wasn't perfect but good. She had trust issues and at times she used to be really angry over the smallest things. We had loads of fights. She was very jealous and ... (462 words)

Should I just break up with him, move on, and wait for someone who will appreciate me and love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

24 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello agony aunts. I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 years 3 days ago. My best friend was leaving the place we shared and i was pretty upset.i cried the whole day.when my bf got to know this he went bonkers. He told me i didn't cry for him when he left the place. thats not... (328 words)

Am I facing a big problem here? Could my boyfriend be interested in this girl who talks really inappropriate sexual stuff with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

24 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone. I'm sorry but this is going to be a long post. I am really upset here and I need some advice. A girl my boyfriend knows (they're not really friends, but know each other) is always trying to talk to my boyfriend about stuff that I feel is very inappropriate. ... (347 words)

Do you think rejection hurts worse than being cheated on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

24 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I understand rejection happens to all of us at some point, but damn I've been rejected twice in the past two months for the first time in my life. I'm trying to reevaluate where I might have messed up, or maybe it's not something I did, it's just me that they don't like, ... (400 words)

Why do I still have such strong feelings for him? Is this love or am I just crazy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

24 May 2013 (F)

age - I fell in love with a guy 26 years ago. It was love at first sight for me. The whole nine yards. To this day all I have to do is think about him and I get butterflies in my stomach. After dating for 7 months we figured out we were first cousins. I was adopted when I was a baby ... (153 words)

How long does it take to move on from your First Love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

24 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My first love was someone who I was deeply in love with for 3 years. We were teenagers when we met. It is now 4 months after our break up. I ended our relationship, for the better of both of us. I do not regret my decision for us to end. If we were meant to be, our paths wi... (278 words)

My wife got pregnant by her lover and had a secret abortion!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

24 May 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - This is difficult but I will just say it. My wife had an affair with a person I considered my friend and got pregnant. She made arrangements with her lover (also married) and had a secret abortion one year ago. We have been married for 6 years and already had two children, the ... (87 words)

I have mislead my friend about my feelings and scared to lose him. Please advise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

24 May 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Well, I've done something stupid. I'm 16 and Gay. I've got quite close to a friend of a friend who told me he knew I was gay. It's been a year since we met online, we've become best friends and tell each other everything. I never viewed our relationship in a romantic way but I ... (258 words)