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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Feel lost and confused. Was I in the wrong to address the issue? I miss him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

4 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I’d like some advice please. 5 months ago, I met this amazing guy and we hit if. Purely for the reason we had a lot in common. He explained to me he came out of a very messy relationship that lasted for 5 years, was not ready for a relationship. I thought fair enough, as I al... (410 words)

We don't have much in common nor much to talk about. If breaking up seems too difficult what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

4 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm really confused with how I'm feeling. I've been with my boyfriend about 9 months. He seems to be crazy about me, like he's always said I'm his soulmate an that he would move in with me right away if I asked him and that he wants to be with me forever. I care about h... (357 words)

What changes could help to make my relationship with my BF less boring? Don't want to breakup.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4007 days ago

4 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, my boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly a year now and I'm starting to get bored with our relationship and I've stopped wanting to have any physical contact with him. He's always working and I can only see him at night for like an hour. I love him but don'... (72 words)

How do I make my mates understand that my work has to come first right now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4008 days ago

4 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I need advice on how to make my mates at university understand that my work has to come first for these last 3 weeks and nights/days out for me is out the question at the moment. I love my nights out and anytime with the lads is banter, but I have too much work and it's mo... (302 words)

My wife doesn't know that I found out she's considering leaving me. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

4 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My wife doesn't know that I saw her messages to her friend from a forum she always on but I saw how she said I dont have ambition anymore. she's always talking down about my family. I also read that she talked to her father and how she was thinking about leaving me because she ... (72 words)

A complete halt to affection. Help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4005 days ago

4 May 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey Aunts, I'd like to give you a little back-story about my relationship. We have been going out for nearly 3 years now (it'll be 3 in June). This past year we went off for our freshman year of college, both in the same school (because of the engineering program it offers and ... (345 words)

How do you see someone for who they are? Is being friends after a breakup ideal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4008 days ago

4 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Two months ago my ex broke up with me out of nowhere. We were "that" couple, the one that got along so well, had so much fun together, could party and have fun, or have romantic evenings together. We had just started having our first fight, and I could feel him pulling away. We ... (687 words)

How do I tell my mom more about the guy I like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4008 days ago

4 May 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Hey so a lot of people at school got their yearbooks last week. I signed a lot and I sighed this on boys yearbook and he wanted my number and I forgot mine and I gave him my moms number ha :). So today he called my mon and was asking for me and she was at the store and stuff. ... (140 words)

I'm with a much better guy now but it still doesn't feel the same as it did with my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4008 days ago

4 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a boyfriend who I loved so much, he was honestly the love of my life. I was with him for five years and he was so sweet and very caring I just loved him so much. I choice to give him my virginity and I was very happy with him. I dream of having children with him, we ... (346 words)

I'm afraid she'll reject me when she finds out how hairy I really am

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

4 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Im in a relationship with a girl for the past three years and we share everything but there's one last secret i didnt tell her and the secret is dat i am too hairy all over the hands and legs available in every place possible even a lot in the Ass and crotch area and all this ... (163 words)

He lost interest in me ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

4 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and this guy been friends for 5 months now. And I wanted to be more then that. I found out that he liked me but then got over me. He found out I had a thing for him. I went to his volleyball game and his friend told me i creeped him out by coming. But he's known for making ... (116 words)

How do I break off an affair with a married co-worker?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

4 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I've just turned 21 and have been working at my job for about 18 months now. It started at last years work staff party. Everyone was dancing, drinking and partying, because i dont drink or smoke, i kept myself one side and chatted to anyone who sat at the our table. So i w... (637 words)

I feel like I'm OLD and time is running out.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

4 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - All of my friends have found significant others and have been married for a while. I was in a long term relationship that didn't work out. He left me after 7 years together for a 25 year old. I find myself single, 36, no prospects. I'm in college and surrounded by people i... (109 words)

Where can a guy find a no strings attached friend with benefits?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

4 May 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a separated guy who wants a friend for a sexual relationship without the relationship. I'm having a very hard time finding a decent woman who like me wants a friend for sex but not a relationship. Sadly I've had offers from a few married friends to have affairs on the side, ... (151 words)

I know he isn't good enough but I can't imagine life without him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

4 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I met him when I was 16. We had an instant attraction. We were friends though, for a few years until we shared our first kiss. After that, whether either of us had an other, we would be together when we got the chance. Finally we took a step towards a relationship. I was in a ... (482 words)

We've been together for three years but now it seems we have gone back to stage one.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

4 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend three years. He has been in the uk fir 7 years and revently applied for uk residency which he has now obtained. He has supported me through a serious illness and has helped me with my two kids when i need help. He lives in shared accomodat... (545 words)

I always catch married man looking at me. I don't encourage him and don't want involvement. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

4 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I work in an office and there's this man. Let's call him... Joe. So Joe is very high up the chain - senior level and about 10 years older. I still think I'm imagining this because I'm a skinny muslim girl who looks about 19. I don't know why but I've caught him looking ... (232 words)

B/f broke up with me saying I'm boring. I have no where to go!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

4 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid My bf of 3 years dumped me saying he is bored with me, im the worlds most boring person and he cannot stand to spend even 5 mins with me in a day and im being petite (my hright is 5'0) is not working out for him. Did i happen to mention that i did almost everyt... (143 words)

Could I get pregnant still if he didn't ejaculate inside me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

4 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - We had sex before one week but he didn't entered me as he was rubbing my vagina with his penis and ejaculated outside my vagina. Can it cause pregnancy?... (29 words)

I like him but he's moving away, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

4 May 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - ok soo ive always liked a guy named mike but our parents would kill eachother. he lives with me and my best friend grace. but hes moving to jetsy to be with his mom who has cancer. i told him smile and he said you havent made me yet. my heart shattered i dont know how long ... (109 words)

He takes too long to respond to my texts!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4008 days ago

4 May 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - I have this friend whom I've known for years. We go to the same school but we don't have any classes together this year. We used to talk all the time. But we got drifted apart. However, just recently, he asked me for my number again, saying how he lost all his contacts when ... (130 words)

Why didn't he tell me he was single again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4008 days ago

4 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, Exactly a year ago,thru my best friend I met this guy nd honest to god for me he was the most good looking guy I'd seen till date,he was stunning and I was attracted to him,it was driving me crazy!now from what I herd this guy had a long distance girlfrie... (268 words)

He says he wants to see me, but when I agree to meet up he flakes out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4001 days ago

4 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Help me ! Im beyond confused about him. Does he like me? Does he just wanna hook-up? Or does he just see me as a friend? Soo I have this guy friend.I like our friendship we can talk to each other about anything and we have great chemistry. We use to like each other when we were ... (532 words)

I try to respect his need for space but what about my emotional needs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4008 days ago

4 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is an extrovert, and I'm used to being around people. We have discussed this before and come to a compromise that I feel works nicely, he gets a minimum of two nights to himself a week, although recently it's been three. We also don't spend full days together, I ... (386 words)

Is it possible for women to get out of the dreaded friend zone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

4 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Just a general to-the-point question. Do girls/women ever come out of the friend zone? I hear from some that girls are never put into the friend zone completely - which to me is nonsense because it happens all the time to me. I recently realized I fell in love with a friend. ... (205 words)

Why would my girlfriend tell a friend that she's not interested in me and we're dating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

4 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - i am really, really confused... i've been going out with my g/f for over 2 years. we've had our moments like any couple does but we've always pulled through and lately i've felt like we're doing better than ever together. we spend plenty of time together, share common int... (636 words)

How to make a tough decision when you're pregnant and it's unplanned?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4008 days ago

4 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 26 and been with my boyfriend for a year. It's been stressful lately and I got laid off from my job (company downsizing/ folding). I hate not working and get depressed. Ive been sick and my boyfriend took me to the doctor. He told me I'm pregnant. I cried so much. My ... (120 words)

I don't want to do it but I don't want to lose him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

4 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been In a great relationship with my boyfriend for the past two years. But now wants to spice up our sex life with anal intercourse. I cant stand it and I told him that. He just told me get lubed up and ready for action or else. What do I do? What I read it can be ... (73 words)

What is the simplest way to tell her I love her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4009 days ago

4 May 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - She is the only girl that i loved for the last 4 years and now its my 12 and last opportunity to say that i love her but how please tell the simplest method oh god i love her tooo much ..... (42 words)

Is it reasonable for my boyfriend to disappear without me knowing where he is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

4 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i are going through a bad patch. Im going through a custody battle with my ex and its taken its toll on our telationship. I admit I get upset but most people would. Well anyway im now up at 3.30 am not knowing where on earth he is. A few times hes just gone out ... (125 words)

How does a self-employed introvert make friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

4 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - It's always been very tough for me to make friends and get to know people because no one seems to like me, at least not when they first meet me. Any friendships I've had were usually made in some type of setting (like school and clubs at school) where I saw the same people ... (313 words)

The relationship was great when it was long distance, and completely fell apart when we lived together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4008 days ago

4 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid My relationship with my bf was perfect when i was staying in different city (away from him) for work. I came back 4 months back and thats when all the troubles started. 1. He wont even talk to me for days, we stay together but no talking, he'll be busy with his f... (341 words)

Advice for online dating and dating sites?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

4 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - What are your tips when it comes to online dating/chatting? Pros and cons of online dating? I've tried two dating sites so far. Eharmony began with a long personality questionaire. After finishing it, you're presented with your best matches based on personality. You can... (262 words)

Should my boyfriend stand up to his tactless family for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

4 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I really dont like my boyfriends family for so many reasons. I find them tactless and kinda low class. I was willing to look past that and always did (Im not really a judgmental person), furthermore I liked HIM, nobodys family is perfect, but it all really started to annoy me ... (480 words)

I need some advice on how to approach a guy I have a crush on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

4 May 2013 (?) age 22-25 - I have a crush on this guy. I don't have him for any classes but I always see him during breakfast and when I walk my friend to his 6th period lunch I always see him there too. I have French while he has Spanish which is next door and after French I have math and he ... (199 words)

My boyfriend is angry about something he saw on my Facebook wall, but he hasn't gotten back to me to discuss it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

4 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - 4 nights ago, when I got home I had a Facebook message from my 29yo boyfriend, which said (and I quote): "Just saw something on your Facebook wall that I really didn't like. We need to talk ASAP" I left him a message saying that, the day after, I'd be home ALL day and nigh... (295 words)