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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Did my comments to her bring on an eating disorder?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

12 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I didn't mean to make my best friend have this problem and now I feel terrible, I didn't realise what effect my comment had and what she went through before! Over the last two weeks I made a few comments in very obvious jokes! She was making dinner and I said 'Oh eating again... (430 words)

I love him but he's attention seeking. I want him, but feel trapped!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3647 days ago

12 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all. I would appreciate your views please. I.ve been seeing a man for just over two years. It has been difficult,and volitile. I really love him,but have had to back off,and am seeing him alot less to avoid getting hurt,and trying to slowly remove myself. Anyway,since i.ve ... (207 words)

We haven't even gone out on a first date and he's told me he wants to see me naked and squeeze me! Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

12 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, am a girl of 22 years old and for the past 4months I have met a man double my age. Most of the times we have casual talks only. We meet but not regularly. He says he is single. I like the guy. To my suprise he just told me that he wants to see me naked, squeez me and all ... (123 words)

Which one do I let go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

12 May 2013 (F)

age - I am having to choose between two men and its killing me inside, i was with one for a year, we got engaged after a week, we have both had a lot happen, his mum died, then my dad but before his mum died i found out he had been texting his ex over a period of months, a little ... (593 words)

Is it worth having him as a friend if he can't remember my birthday?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

12 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunts, I have two best friends, and I always tell them everything, but this problem involves one of them. One of them (I'kll call him A) has been wonderful to me, but I don't want to trouble him about my conflicts with the one who has hurt me (I'll call him B). I'm... (479 words)

Had a very positive message from him on the dating site, then nothing. How long do I wait?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

12 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, so this story is a bit a complicated so it requires a little bit of background before I get to my question. So I transferred not long ago to the current university that I am attending. When I transferred I went to an official LGBT meeting where I had spotted this ... (685 words)

I found out my boyfriend was having phone sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

12 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Readers, I am so very confused... I found out my boyfriend of 3 years was having phone sex with a mutual friend of ours for the first 6 months of our relationship. I know they were never physically intimate and what I hate the most is I had to find out from her, s... (186 words)

Why can't a man want to be with me for other than just sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

12 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guyz i like this guy so much he doesnt know and i was happy because i saw the way he looked at me and thought the feeling is mutual until today i got shocked and dissapointed realising that he has a girlfriend i saw them and he introduced her to me and my friend.so now am ... (113 words)

How can I make my ex realize what he lost?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

12 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend a month ago, we were together for 2 years. I've just moved into a new place a few days ago and he is still living with my brother and another friend of his. I had been unhappy for months with him and asked him to come to couples therapy with me and ... (291 words)

Can I text a boy first?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

12 May 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - i really like this boy and we are texting. is it ok to text first or do you have to wait for him to text first?... (26 words)

What does it mean when a Holiday Hookup contacts me after disappearing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4016 days ago

12 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Two weeks ago I spent a few days in Belgium for Holidays and hit it off with this local guy... We got on so well that we saw each other a few days in a row. All this was completely unplanned! Everything seemed so natural and comfortable between us. We had a few "hot" moments ... (286 words)

He hasn't called me back yet. Should I call again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

12 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello I met this guy at a bar. I liked him a lot and he said he liked me too. We sent almost 24 hours together after meeting. We met again a little over a week later and agreed that we were to meet again. That he would call. I told him I usually stay up really late and ... (181 words)

Why do these girls act the way that they do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

12 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - What are these girls problems? Am I overreacting? So I've liked this really sweet and cute guy for a while now. We talk abit and hang out sometimes but we are both so quiet and shy around eachother. Anyway, 2 of his girly friends have staring at me and one of th... (238 words)

13 year old girl, do I masturbate too much?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

12 May 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - im a 13 year old girl, and i masturbate like 5 times a day. is this too much, am i normal?... (21 words)

Why do a lot of guys like easy girls? Will my boyfriend cheat on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

12 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do a lot of guys like and go for really easy and slutty women? The reason I ask this is because even though I'm a woman myself, I've had bad experiences with these types of women. The current situation I'm in is really annoying me. There is this woman, I'll call her A, ... (406 words)

Does a relationship need 'the talk'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

12 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 21 and have been seeing a guy a few years older than me for almost 3 months now. He's the most amazing man, so sweet, considerate, intelligent, funny, handsome etc. We really enjoy each other's company, and see each other at least once a week. It's been quite a stressful ... (314 words)

I'm a virgin but he has quite a past, should I get out before getting too attached?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

12 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, I'm a 24 year old virgin and the guy I'm dating has a pretty 'shady past' he has dated a lot of women probably slept with some of them!he has never been in love..we have not hd sex and he is ok with that,he said he will not force me into something if I don't wa... (116 words)

Co-worker first extremely nice, now seems to avoid me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

12 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - There is this coworker at my office. First he was really nice to me. He talked to me, always stared at me and seemed pretty interested. When we had events and trips with the office, he asked me to drive with him in his car. But suddenly he ignores me. He doesnt even say good ... (103 words)

I found out I'm the other girl and I'm pregnant!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

12 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I went on three dates with a guy(who said he was single)I had just met. We hooked up twice, and now I'm pregnant. We tried to make things work as a couple, but he ended that after less than a day, because he said it felt forced. We both decided to keep the baby and be friends. ... (110 words)

Jealousy is eating away at me about my boyfriend's ex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

12 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are great together, he loves and appreciates me and vice versa and the sex is great. The only problem in our relationship is my jealousy! I often ask questions about one of exes of two and a half years ago. He is very honest about it all with me but he never ... (190 words)

My husband tried to hook up with my sister!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

12 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I have been married for 2 years. We aslo have to kids. Recently I found out that he has been talking to my sister. He told her that he doesnt love me anymore. He loves her. That he wanted to be with her if she would give him a chance he would leave me and go with ... (96 words)

How can I walk away from this relationship without hurting myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

12 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend for already four years. The second year into our relationship he was not working and it aggravated me because it brought alot of problems. Eventually I got so annoyed, I went back to NY (we had moved to California) to just get away from everything. I had ... (223 words)

My baby daddy has a new girlfriend but wont let me live my own life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

12 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have kids with a guy. And he has a new girlfriend but he still sends me flowers. And cards, still texts me he misses me. And I have started dating someone new. I have told my boyfriend and he is mad. I can't stop talking to him or cut him out of my life forever. He calls and ... (129 words)

How can she say she loves me so much and then turn around and tear me apart and break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

12 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - hey guys. thanks for taking the time to read this. i'm really hurting right now and i don't know what to do. i'd been with my gf about six months now and i thought everything was perfect! we had just yesterday been discussing us getting an apartment together (her idea) once ... (620 words)

My boyfriend's behavior has shaken me to my wounded, abandonment-fearing core. Am I the one who needs to work on my issues? Or is his behavior unacceptable?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

12 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Can I trust my boyfriend? I have trust issues stemming from childhood (parental divorce, alcoholic parent, stressed out parent, etc). I've improved in the trust department, but still have a long ways to go. I live with my boyfriend of 2.5 years. He verbally, and with actions... (514 words)

She snuggled me, I kissed her, so what do I do next?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

12 May 2013 (M)

age 22-25 - There is this girl I really like. The last night on the way back to school from a gradventure field trip she called me over on the bus. She asked me if she could fall asleep on me. I told her that I didn't mind. As she was sleeping or at least she appeared to be, I kissed her ... (107 words)

My boyfriend has moved out again, for the fifth time!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

12 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of two years moved out again for the fifth time. He usually calls or comes back by now but not this time. His Family is being very nasty towards me and he didnt just move out he moved 3 hours away. When he left he said he was going to work with his father and get ... (376 words)

I went to an all boys school and consequently feel clueless with women

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

12 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My early education till getting an engineering diploma was basically in an all boys education establishment. I guess that makes me very shy and clueless when it comes to the ladies. So far at my age of 21, I only asked a girl twice and got asked out by a few of my crushes ... (124 words)

Fake profiles on match.com?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

12 May 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I'd like feedback from other guys who have used match.com. I've had a profile up for a week and already I've received quite a few winks from real hotties. I know sites do this to get gulible men to sign up so I expected one or two, but should I write them all off? How prevelent ... (81 words)