New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244966 questions, 1084314 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Worried that the webcam session might have been recorded?

Tagged as: Online dating<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (30 May 2012) 5 Answers - (Newest, 1 June 2012)
A male Germany age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hello,

Could use some advice.....

I engaged in a webcam chat on msn. Met the girl in a chatbox.

The girl was in lingerie. Was fun so I stripped to my boxers.

But when I refused to pull my boxers down she ended the chat and went offline. Maybe it wasn't her on cam but a recorded video?

But now I am so scared that it was recorded....

What can I do?

I was not naked or wanking, just my boxers.

Thanx....

View related questions: engaged, msn

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2012):

Well,

There is a chance that you got recorded.

Did you show your face? If not don't worry!

If you did: there are plenty of vids online of guys in their boxers....

But mostly webcam quality is not very good. So maybe you can't be recognized.

Try not to worry about it.

If you are not a celebrity or did freaky things I doubt that it will draw much attention online.

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2012):

If you werent showing off any more of your body than you would on a family beach, you have nothing to worry about. Well done for having some common sense and restraint and not being tempted to take your underwear off. You never know who these people are or what might happen to any images of you in a state of undress or worse! Always be very aware of the risks involved in getting too intimate with strangers.

You have nothing to worry about in this case. Clearly her plan/instructions/dare/bet or whatever, involved getting men naked as quickly as possible. Once you refused, she had failed and so she took off. Highly suspicious but I doubt you will find yourself featuring on Youtube or Rudetube because she failed in what she was trying to achieve. As someone has already said, you dodged that bullet.

Just be very aware in the future and dont be tempted to do anything online that you wouldnt want published on the front page of your local newspaper. That way you will never have anything to worry.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, Ciar Canada + , writes (30 May 2012):

Ciar agony auntIt doubt it was recorded. There is nothing here that would suggest to me it was.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, unknown2u United States +, writes (30 May 2012):

The fact that you didn't do anything all that interesting means that, even if it was recorded, it's almost certainly not going to be posted. You've most likely dodged this bullet.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (30 May 2012):

aunt honesty agony auntI guess there is nothing that you can do about this now. This is the dangers off engaging in on line activities like this. You never know who it is that is watching it. So allow it to be a lesson learnt. I highly doubt that it was recorded so I would stop worrying about it. Just be thankful that you never stripped off completely or done anything x-rated. You will feel better about this soon, all you can do now is put it down to experience and be thankful you never done anything on the web cam.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "Worried that the webcam session might have been recorded?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0313116000033915!