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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't think I want to go on this date, but I don't know how to tell my friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So my friend is trying to set me up on a date with this guy she's friends with at college. She said we're going to be going on a date with her and her boyfriend too so it isnt that bad and at first I agreed but now i'm having secong thoughts. We've been talking, getting ... (145 words)

Is she just being nice or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4461 days ago

6 February 2012 (M)

age - i have a grilfreind of 6 mths. she is 10 years older than me.we were hot and heavy for each other. then after 4 mths she tells me . she wanted to go back to the way like when we were dating. now she saids that she dose nt want to break up but only see each other 2 times a ... (124 words)

Ages down on my luck, hooked up, dating her but something's not right....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

6 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I spent ages feeling like no girls would date me; I loved my best friend for so long but she liked some other guy -- just my luck. I toned up a lot at my dad's gym and I box quite a lot now. I went out with my mates who have had more girlfriends than I have (I've only had two) ... (170 words)

I'm weak for him but need to let go

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with this guy. We get along great and we always have fun. The thing is, we've had our share of bad times. I tried so hard to stay away from him, but it's like we can't stay away from each other. The other night, after he ended it for the third time, I was back t... (159 words)

I like him but he likes her. How do I change this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - The guy i like is dating someone else and i don't know if he likes me. How do i get him to want to be with me instead of her?... (30 words)

B/f left me on a dark street by myself and he knows how terrified I am of this kind of situation!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4458 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Just a quick question! What would you do if your boyriend left you in the dark on the street by your self? Ill give you a bit more detail, i', having doubts if my boyfriend acctually does love me, he says he does so much and i acctually started to believe him then he ran off ... (230 words)

Should I wait to see how long it takes for him to text me, or just go ahead and try to get something planned?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - A few weeks ago a guy I've been chatting with asked for my number. He texted me shortly after that but since then I always start the texting off and there's about 1-in-2 chance he'll reply (more likely to respond if I ask a question) He's not really that into his phone, it do... (219 words)

Twice my age but interested, curious but nervous

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So to make a long story short, I am 22 and my boyfriend for 3 years and I broke up just before the new year (2012). Shortly there after, one the regular customers at the restaurant I work at, whom I talk to on a daily basis and have gotten to know over the past year shared with ... (303 words)

I'm very insecure about fiance's porn useage!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4456 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have become very insecure about my fiance's porn usage. We have been together for over a year and are very much in love. I am pretty much always up for sex because I have a very high sex drive. I am always trying new things with him, try to emulate some of his fantasies, like ... (286 words)

I feel we are more than 'just friends' but don't want to ruin a friendship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, It really confuses me and I dont know what to do! There's this guy, he's like my best friend, but at the same time we're more than that. We speak everyday, and we flirt a lot too, it gets really confusing though because I never really know what he wants. He tells me he l... (169 words)

I'm always making excuses for my husband because he's obnoxious!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age - I have been married for over 11 years. It is my second marriage and his second marriage. He can be very ignorant and obnoxious to our friends, neighbors and family. He is this way with his family too, not just mine. He often thinks of himself before me, almost like he is still ... (195 words)

How do I deal with him saying things about me behind my back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - This guy and I are just friends but he is acting kind of immature. I Don't like him like that but for some reason he thinks I like him as more. He is saying things about me to his friends behind my back. He is several years younger than me, so No I don't like him. What do I do? ... (78 words)

I'm sneaking out to date because my parents don't approve of a "non college boy'

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - long story but i hope some people are willing to read it and help me. I appreciate it. I met a guy 2 1/2 months ago and we clicked. Everything about him is wonderful and i felt like it was meant to be...Yes i'm only 18 and he's 20 and it just happened. I met him and we ... (308 words)

I've been cheated on by my last 3 girlfriends so how do I take things slow?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

6 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been friends with this girl for about 6 months, and 2 weeks ago we kissed. It wasn't just a friend kiss either, it felt like there was something more there. And it wasn't a one time thing because it happened again a few days later. We've talked everyday since, which is ... (279 words)

Am I brotherly figure or a love interest to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

6 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 18 and have a crush on my 18 year old colleague. Trouble is, I am a really shy guy and don't know how to handle it. I am not sure whether she likes me or not, and would never make a move unless I was pretty sure. We did go on a night out once with her friends, and, be... (226 words)

I love my girlfriend but I am attracted to others!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

6 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I have been in a relationship for the past 5 months with a wonderful girl. She is attractive, works hard, cares about me immensely, and pretty much matches everything I had pictured I wanted in a girl. However recently, I have felt that old excitement begin... (199 words)

I need better skills with girls. Help! Where do I go now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

6 February 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay, I'm going to make this as short as possible. A few weeks ago, I was going to ask a girl out on a date. We've know each other for a while now, and we talk almost every day. We are both very close friends. So when I found her alone by her locker, I figured I woul... (197 words)

Ex contacted me and wants to have coffee. Should I go or keep the NC rule going?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

6 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So ive asked many questions in the past about my first girlfriend who is also my only girlfriend and we were together for 8 years. So i am 22 now so that means we were together since we were 14. we have grown together and i truely belive that we are completely compatible and ... (698 words)

I 'attach' to girls too quickly. My sex and social life sucks. What do I need to know to make things better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

6 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So, despite vowing to drop my obnoxious way of becoming attached to girls based on the slightest sign of interest, I'm back in the same murky waters again and seeking advice yet again. I'm 22 years old, and there's little point in lying: I had practically zero social life... (685 words)

Shall I deny I kissed this other guy? Especially when my guy realizes who the other guy is?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm involved with a guy we'll call him X It's been going on a little over a year now. But I'm sure the end is near. This past weekend his friend Y had a house warming. Y invited my friend who he's been seeing for a few months now. Im not a fan of Y but that's another story. ... (393 words)

He's on line trying to meet new women. His impotence is an issue. Do I break up over his lies?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My Man of 4 years has severe ED. We have only been able to have actual sexual intercourse twice..We've done other things to keep our sexual connection alive. Nothing has been happening at all in this area for a good 8 weeks and today I found out he is viewing porn. Not that... (298 words)

Could I be bi-sexual? I like looking at pictures of women

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - i find clothed and naked girls attractive but think doing sexual things with them is wrong. I'm unsure if this makes me straight or bisexual, just asking what everyone else thinks?... (32 words)

Boyfriend kept all photos/numbers of his ex girlfriends but lied to me about it

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - hi im in a new relationship but had problems already my boyfriend kept all hes exes letters photos and numnbers after telling me he had got rid of them .its only been over a month and i dont want to lose trust .... (44 words)

What is it called when you think of someone obsessively but aren't sexually attracted to them

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'd like to just ask a basic question that nobody I've asked could answer till now. Please read the lines carefully. It is: What is it called when you're obsessively curious about a member of the opposite sex? Like, you want to get to know them better, talk to them, but you... (106 words)

My ex sometimes tries to talk to me, after I tell her NOT to.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

6 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I got dumped by my ex, last year. She immediately offered to keep me as a friend. However, I didn't feel all that satistisfied, as she really meant a lot to me, at that time. Anyways, she very much lied about the reasoning of it. It made no sense, and I didn't buy it. E... (240 words)

This girl really likes me but I am not attracted to her physically even though she's nice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

6 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I feel a girl from work is falling for me. She's been in constant contact with me for past whole month and gets really anxious and uneasy when I accidentally miss or fail to reply her calls or texts; I know this because I have more than five texts and 20 missed calls every ... (327 words)

Was he just scared of things heading towards a relationship? Or did he just use me emotionally and physically?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - M lead me on for approximately 9 months. It started off as a normal friendship, however it quickly became intense with the knowledge of his life partner passing away a couple of years ago. For reasons unbeknown to me, he chose to get close to me in regards to this. I was a ... (507 words)

How am I going to escape this year's Valentines craze without hurting anyone's feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Valentines day. Last year's valentines day found my locker flooded with letters , from both girls and boys. A rain of chocolate from throngs of random girls who squealed as I accepted their chocolate and (as always) just 1 box of chocolate from a single boy whom I don't even ... (151 words)

I took him back after he left me for another woman, but I just cant trust him because he said he'd always love her. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age - my spouse left me for his ex-girlfriend, he's moving in with her she is going through her second marriage. my mom was dx with ca and he left anyway for 6 months. he did not pay taxes he quit his job got her name tatooed and then told me he was gonna divorce me and marry her. he ... (199 words)

Meeting tomorrow with the man I had an affair with a year ago....

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I had an affair a year ago - we were both married and it was found out. It tore our families apart and we are now both seperated. I knew this person for approx 10 years and have had feelings for him for a long time. Our affair only lasted three months but I was flattered and ... (285 words)

Why would he start a relationship with his ex when he still hasn't moved out of my home? Is this just a tactic he is using on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Is this a tactic for a abusive man to regain some control back after i ended our relatonship. I ended a 7 yr relationship recently as me partner was verbally, emotionally and phyiscally abusive to me. We have 2 young kids and he currently still lives in my home, although he is ... (200 words)

My boyfriend has no hygiene and no self esteem! What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for four years. One of the problems I have with our relationship is that over the past couple of years he has turned into an epic slob. He doesn't just leave a disaster wherever he goes-- He does not brush his hair or his teeth on his own, ... (294 words)

I cant last more than a few seconds when having sex! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

6 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - im 24 and ive noticed that i cant last for more than a few seconds in bed. ive been suffering from this premature ejaculation problem since Very long time. ive tried to overcome it but nothings good enough. i cant last for than 4-5 thrusts. if anyone with some knowledge and ... (61 words)

Fooled around with my cousin.....I know it was a mistake, so how do I deal with what I have done?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i made the biggest mistake of my life. when i visited where my parents had lived, i had met all my cousins that i hadn't seen since i was 2. one of my cousins and i got along really well, and i guess we flirted a lot, but thats the type of person i am! i didnt think much of ... (580 words)

Should we get another man involved because I cant get my wife to orgasm any more?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4249 days ago

6 February 2012 (M)

age - My wife and I are seventy still want sex. I can't keep it hard to insert it in the vagina. I have had this problem for about five years, it just will not stay hard long enough, I can have a orgasm my wife uses a strong vibrator,on me and it still does not always stay hard but ... (138 words)

I loaned my friends some money for a film project and I've not heard from them since! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been financially double crossed by friends and I need advice on what to do now. Some background: in september I was apart in a project for a film festival where you make a short film in 2 days and enter it before the deadline ends. The team was led by two friends of m... (530 words)

Do I just give up on the person I love or do I ride it out and try and win his heart by proving that I can be trusted?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4462 days ago

6 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Where to start... I met "B" about 4 months ago when we met he made it very clear he just wanted to be friends and wasn't looking for anything. I made the same clear to him we I was happy to have him as a friend. The problem came when I started to get a mysterious irres... (736 words)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I was just wondering am I wrong to be feeling guilty? I have been in a casual relationship for 11 months now, I have wanted more since we met and I have told him that. he recently told me he still loved his ex even though they split up two years ago. he is not nice with me, ... (165 words)

Does he want my sympathy or is he letting me down gently but I'm not taking the hint?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

6 February 2012 (?) age 41-50 - I was wondering if any of you has an idea of how guys go on about laying a girl down gently. I met this guy 6 months ago online and then he flew in to see me, we went out twice, then he went again on a business tour and will be back in a week or so. During that time, we ... (206 words)

My male partner wants to dress as a woman. Can this result in a happy future for us, as a couple, considering his preference?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4459 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel so confused at the moment and i really do not want to make a mistake, but i just dont have the answers myself nor do i know what the best thing is to do. I will try and make it as brief as possible as there could be lots i could say. Basically i am 33 years of age... (679 words)

What do I need to do to improve my confidence with woman and relationships? So sick of being lonely

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4462 days ago

6 February 2012 (M) age 30-35 - I'm afraid of getting too close with a girl I really like because I know that I will have to leave her. I'm afraid of not being able to keep her interested in me. I'm afraid to touch a girl in respect of her. I think I'm more afraid of her acceptance than the rejection. H... (155 words)

I don't know if he's sick, a liar, cruel, or manipulative. Do I cut contact considering he will not take my advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a bit intense. I had this friend that I used to talk to very often. We stopped talking for a brief while because he started dating girls, and I was getting serious with my current relationship. Needless to say, we haven't been really in contact in the past year. But ... (586 words)

He says he really liks me BUT he misses his ex. What hope is their for our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4462 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hey. okay so i have been dating this guy who dated my brother's ex girlfriend. He is a sweet guy... but there is a problem he told me that they had broken up and she said move on, so we started to date which i realise was a huge mistake!! but i really really have fallen for ... (179 words)

Is it a good idea to send a ''thanks (not) for the memories," to my ex, or should I just leave it alone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to let my ex know that Im finally happy thanks to him. We were together for 4 years but messing around for 5 1/2. He cheated the whole time but I loved him so much I stayed. I finally came to my senses and left even after I left I still went back every now and then... (184 words)

Why do people assume I lack self esteem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been told by many people that I lack confidence or self esteem over the years but I don't even see that in myself. I like who I am, I think I'm a funny, smart person, and am a great catch as a partner. I've appreciated my journey and I appreciate who I've become, ... (275 words)

Was I wrong to inform her of the rumour being spread about us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

6 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Would you quit talking to your friend? This girl and I like to joke around. I like to tease her for fun and enjoy her company. I like her as a friend but several reasons she's not the right person for me to date. She has a boyfriend so I respect their relationship and... (285 words)

A married man continues to pursue me even after I decline

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am working on a divorce. My husband cheated on me with another woman. I'm being honest, it hurts bad. I did meet a friend only to find out he is married too. I am angry and of course we are not together anymore. This stupid married man keeps calling me. I almost want to ... (165 words)

How can I help my boyfriend overcome his resentment toward me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, me and my boyfriend have been together for 17 months. We were living together for 6 months but i just recently moved out because since october, he has been resenting me and has lots of anger towards me. The only times i can think of him being angry at me are during t... (473 words)

My boyfriend doesn't seem to like foreplay

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I get my bf to have more foreplay with me before sex? The way he normally has sex and even goes down on me is kind of "straight to the point" with very little kissing or teasing. Its very hard for me to actually climax during oral because he just starts licking ... (194 words)

I try to do what he says but it's getting on my nerves!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been dating a guy for 3 months now,.... he is very smart, very nice, kind hearted ... loves his family, and friends... he gives me a lot of attention... supposedly loves me... and i feel the same, but since we started dating everything that i do or say is like on a ... (420 words)

Am I being silly because I am worried about him seeing those girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4463 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm meeting this guy tomorrow, we met one night out and now we've arranged to meet again in a club/bar because then it's more of a relaxed environment and we'll be out with our friends making it less awkward and meaning we don't have to stay together the whole time. I'm okay ... (297 words)

Should I tell my mum I caught my dad in an compromising position?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

6 February 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Last night, I was at a festival with my dad, 2 sisters and some friends. everything was going fine apart from having a few stomach cramps but i noticed something. My dad had his arm around a woman other than my mum. I knew the woman to be a nun who has been looking after my ... (508 words)

Guitar solos turn me on? Does anyone else have any strange turn ons?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Oh gosh, this is kinda strange but I've just recently realized that guitar solos really turn me on.. more than porn or anything else. It's so strange.. does this sort of thing happen to anyone else? Not just with guitar solos, but anything? lol I just want to know if what I'm ... (57 words)

This is really 'bugging' me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - A friend of mine stopped over today to help me move a piece of furniture and while he was sitting on my couch he mentioned that he has bed bugs in his apartment. I am horrified and I have been itching ever since. Can bed bugs be spread from a person coming from an infested ... (66 words)

Now that we've broken up my ex is suddenly doing all the things I wanted to do together

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex is planning on doing things that he refused to do with me. It really hurts. We were together 3 and a half years. I really wanted to go on a holiday with him, but he always said some day we will go. So I went on holiday on my own. After I came back we broke up, because I ... (257 words)

Dealing with a boyfriend who acts like a frat boy when he's with his friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

6 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, My b/f and I have been together a little over three years, and we are both in our mid to late twenties. Everything generally goes well except he is sometimes very immature. I am usually very tolerant of his immature humor, and sometimes join in myself. Howe... (300 words)