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male
age
30-35,
*ovingnerd
writes:I feel a girl from work is falling for me. She's been in constant contact with me for past whole month and gets really anxious and uneasy when I accidentally miss or fail to reply her calls or texts; I know this because I have more than five texts and 20 missed calls every time. It gives me the feeling like she craves to talk to me or meet me. I left the workplace for my college and that's made her more upset than anything else (it might also be because almost all of our other group members have left too).Her parents are planning to take her to their native place for planning marriage the next week, but she says she wants to stay to meet me on the valentine's day. This came out of nowhere.The most beautiful thing is, she's a girl of more pure character than I've ever seen. She is truthful and really kind hearted. I, on the other hand am very shy and a real introvert. I'm also regarded good (or rather best at work) in the domain we're into (i.e computers).I wonder if she really likes me. And even if she does, I didn't had such feelings for her. She has a lovely personality and I completely acknowledge it. But in this world where folks really give so much attention to beauty and stuff,.. I dont know.Now the worst part of it is, I am not attracted to her visual appearance so much. I know this is really bad and I am really ashamed of it. I really, truly want to change this.I am here for some boost. I'm meeting her this valentine's day for sure and if she's okay, I'd want to marry her too.Please post in your views.Thanks.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker  +, writes (7 February 2012):
 If you don't love her why would you want to marry her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2012): if your not attracted to her you need to be honest and not lead her on, by going to meet her on valentines day means she thinks you like her in a romantic way and by what you wrote you obviously think shes a nice person but you dont want her in a romantic way, theres many lovely people out there doesnt mean youll be with them
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