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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I can't afford the surgery but I don't want to wait!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a complicated situation. When I was 18, my kidneys failed. I lost 36 pounds, and went from a C-cup breast size to a small B/A cup. It has been 5 years since the incident, and I haven't gained any weight regardless of my many attempts to do so. I've tried birth-control, ... (279 words)

My ex is insulting me! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello Dear-Cupid-Team, I'm having trouble with my ex. When i met him he was a real Mr Right but then he dumped me because of his ex. After that incident he totally cut me of. I found out he cheated on me - what he is doing at the moment with his temporary girlfriend - and was ... (155 words)

I want to move on from the first man I was with, but I feel like I have no desire for anyone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4439 days ago

28 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hii all i am gay and i was kinda relationship with a man but he was just sex freak.so, i just stopped srring him.and now the situation is that i am unable to forget him,i want him badly he was the first man of my life with whom i was having physical relation.i feel like i h... (89 words)

Why did these relationships turn out oddly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - 1. a man was very nice/polite to a woman for the first 2 years. 2. this woman is well liked by their mutual friends. 3. the woman becomes friends with a few other women in the common circle. 4. one of the women she is close with gets along well with her and they always laug... (297 words)

Does it seem like he is just very friendly or flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - so there's this guy ... (typical, I know :P but I really need input, so please bear with me). I started a new job a little while ago and during the first few days I was workin there I met this guy. He didn't have his membership card so I asked him his name (let's say it's ...... (426 words)

Can someone really be ready to marry after only three months?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

28 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - So I posted on here a while ago and the advice was pretty good so I wanted some opinions on something else. Basically I was in a relationship and through no fault of hers I moved away making it an LDR and this put a strain on the relationship to the point she said she couldn't ... (155 words)

Have I given her the message that I'm only looking for something casual?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

28 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey guys, could do with some advice here. Main question - do you think if you sleep with a girl on 2nd date that means you give the impression you're not that interested in a relationship/serious thing, but moreso a casual thing? I met this girl at a party and we got it on... (127 words)

He's more into me than I am into him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey... so... i met this guy about a month ago, and he's super sweet... the kind of guy that would make any teenage girl feel like the luckiest girl in the world! he's sweet, sensitive, he brought me flowers on our third date, introduced me to his mother on our fourth date.... (257 words)

Should I dump this guy and get on with my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive being in a relationship for the last 15 month. He is 7 years older than me not that you would think it as he quite immature for his age. He told me he has being in a relationship and lived with someone and that he got hurt. I have no evidence of this. When i ask him what... (375 words)

I feel like an outsider after our discussion about wills and money!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - HI guys. I have posted questions on here before and had some really good advice so hope you can help. To cut a long story short, I have been with my partner almost four years and we are reasonably happy. It started out long distant but i moved in with him 2 years ago giving... (601 words)

Online dating dilemma!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have recently met a man online. Initially we emailed each other for about three weeks and each time he responded timely and clearly put a lot of effort in his responses. After nearly three weeks of it, I casually suggested that maybe we could chat over a cup of coffee (we ... (410 words)

So what is a good way to meet someone as it seems like I have tried everything?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have been single for years and really need to meet someone soon, I feel overwhelmed with loneliness. I should have no problems meeting someone because I'm attractive, educated, intelligent, and I have my crap together. My problem seems to be that I can't meet anybody. I ... (459 words)

I am gutted that he's only looking forward to seeing me because he thought he was going to get his leg over!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - hello all, well i'm 36 and after a crappy divorce am back with my parents, had one disappointing boyfriend since but have been single for a good while and would like to meet someone now.. well i have and we went for a drink last night, hes 31 and a proper blokes bloke into ... (277 words)

Really like this boy, but don't know if he likes me back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like this boy but I don't know if he likes me back. I only have one lesson with him and at the beginning of the year I sat near him ( there was a seat inbetween us and only one other person on our table) and we talked and the next week he moved his seat next to mine ... (184 words)

Should I try getting back with my ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

28 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Its been a year. After my really bad rebuking mail, we stopped talking; but she still called back once or twice . And then the last one was an apologizing mail a few days back. We were in contact for around six months, but I stopped talking after I learnt she had a new boyfri... (124 words)

How long do relationships last?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Simple. how long does an average relationship last? I don't know much about this and I'm curious. it would also be helpful if you knew when a guy might want to break up? I'm not having trouble at the moment with my current bf or anything but I want to know if there are certain ... (66 words)

My friend and love interest is in an abusive relationship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - im a black 40 year old woman whose in love with my 41 year old best friend whose white we get alone great our time together is so deep she say she have feelins for me and she knows how i feel about her we been friends for about 5 months and i love her so much even though i live ... (242 words)

I have no idea if he likes me or not!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello! I have a question about wether a guy likes me or not. We are in the same grade and have most of our lessons together. He is fairly tall, like me and we are both thin and have several things in common. My friends keep on telling me what a great couple we would make and ... (250 words)

Why does my male friend avoid me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does my male friend avoid me? We are both 21 and final year university students, 2 years ago our friends tried setting us up - (which we objected to)... and ever since then its like our friendship has been destroyed! He can't stand to be near me, when we are with fri... (359 words)

Two years on and things are a lot less physical

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone.. :) Well, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years over. Our relationship are great. He is caring, lovely and responsible. But lately I realise that we have less physic contact, he sure hug and kiss me a lot, but he seldom go further anymore. Before ... (194 words)

Never so much as hugged a girl, and I'd like to change that

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, well basically i’ve got a question regarding myself. It’s a bit embarrassing, but is it normal for a nineteen year old to be a virgin. I’ve never done anything with a girl, never been kissed, never even held hands with anybody. In fact now that I think about it i’ve ... (213 words)

Still grieving over a failed relationship, how do I move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! Any words of wisdom appreciated. I broke up with someone about 3 months ago. He was a friend and former housemate. We always seemed to be more than 'friends' but things were awkward as we lived with another guy who was his friend and who liked me. Anyway, trying to cut a ... (484 words)

He became distant with me once he got engaged, how do I deal with being so upset over our lost friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - To be brief, a couple of years after my marriage, I met him 3 years ago. I instantly felt a strange a bonding and we began to talk. Don't make conclusions there! My marriage is happy, I am truthful and, he is now married happily too! I knew I really liked him and admired ... (288 words)

I think I caught him out with his ex wife, but he wont explain what has been going on! I feel so used....

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear all, please help!! I have been seeing this guy for a year. it has been a rather rocky relastionship, and he had seperated from his wife sometime back - around three years ago. Anyway, I had a funny hunch that things were somehow still 'cosy' for them so to speak. Then he ... (715 words)

I need to stop feeling like a burden

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married almost 15 years and i have been a controlling, nagging, insecure wife for 12. And i also suffer from bi polar and depression in which my husband dose to. He also has what is called "sexual anorexia" yes it sounds strange and yes it is a condition. I... (677 words)

My fiance wont have sex with me, so how do I reduce my sex drive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

28 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 20 year old male and im posting this because i simply do not know what to do with m y fiance. her sex drive is low and mine is pretty high. We have been together for 2 years so far.We started having sex pretty early in the relationship and maybe that why she doesnt seem ... (253 words)

Any tips for getting a date on an online dating site?

This question has 45 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

28 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I am on a dating website, not going to name it here. I have been for about 3 years. I have not had a single date, whether I am not attractive enough or whatever! Anyway, two parts to this question: a) What does one write in a dating profile that is to be successful (I co... (82 words)

Worried by my boyfriend's taste in porn, does he have a problem?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I have a question regarding my boyfriend's taste in porn. We have been together for over three years, and ever since the beginning of the relationship I knew he watched porn, and I didn't have a problem with it whatsoever. He was honest about it, and we didn't see ... (1006 words)

The 'Honeymoon' phase in relationships....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Can I ask for honeymoon period in a relationship, how long does it usually range from? And what are the symptoms that one is still in honeymoon period? Thanks.... (34 words)

We were having a normal conversation and I had a massive urge to tell him I wanted to break up! Has anyone else experienced this? Is this some kind of sign?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 3 years into a relationship with a guy that was, as I thought at first, the "one" but after the rosy glow of new love wore off there were disappointments and at this stage I love him dearly as a person but I don't think I can handle all the problems he has with finances ... (227 words)

We stopped fooling around but to my surprise we still see each other. Does this mean he respects me? Or does it mean he is no longer interested in me sexually?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm in a situation with a guy which first started off as a flirtation. we fooled around a few times (pg rated stuff) but i've pulled away from that and expected him to ignore me since he wasn't getting what he wanted. surprisingly though we still see each other and we just hang ... (112 words)

Problems with my dad.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, I hate to ask this but I have a question about my dad ... I just dont know what to do :/ I am full time uni student who has a lot of time off through the week but this is filled up with my uni work and also i have a part time job where i work during the weekend ... (1224 words)

How do I get my best friend back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4439 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm feeling rather depressed now as my best friend has not been talking to me for 2 months. Basically, this year, we both transferred to a girls' school and I told her that I wanted to make more friends one day when she actually kept getting annoyed at me talking to other ... (144 words)

I don't want sex anymore because we are not trying for a baby and I simply don't feel like it anymore, so should I end the relationship because this is not fair on him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I met each other having both come out of long term relationships 3 years ago, him a marriage with 2 kids and me long term partner no children. We are both 40 years old now. We discussed having children about 1 year into the relationship and he was reluctant and ... (163 words)

Does my former teacher still like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I published a question like this a whole back when I was at college about my teacher.Im 19 and very mature for my age seeing things in a very adult way. The last question I posted was about my teacher and the response I got was that this teacher seemed to like me and also... (433 words)

Afraid of my strict parents!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so afraid of my parents! They've always been strict with me and they always feel like I'm being rebellious. But I don't feel the case. Whenever I'm hanging out with friends I tell them who I'm out with and where I am and what time I would be back. But my parents hate it ... (174 words)

Boyfriend has a wandering eye

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel the pressure to look good because my boyfriend has wandering eyes and constantly look at pretty girls. How do I assure myself that one day when my youth is gone and he'd find someone else??? Is this normal?... (40 words)

How do I stop being his drunken hook up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing a guy but he only ever asks me to meet at the weekends when he has been drinking. I like him so much and I always say to myself I won't meet him again but this is the third time now I have met him. Nothing ever happens, just a kiss and a cuddle. I feel so ... (102 words)

Does my boyfriend see me as a respectable girl after I give blowjobs?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - one time, a close friend of mine and i were discussing sex. i asked him if he was interested in a blowjob and he said if it were coming from a girl he didn't respect, then yes, he would want a bj but if it was from someone he cared about, then absolutely not. that conversation ... (185 words)

B/f wants me to move in with him. Do I have to be the one to make all the changes?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend of 2 years wants us to live together, with me moving into his house and then his idea is we split all the bills 50 - 50, including me paying 1/2 his rent. He feels it is not convenient for him to move in with me because my place is smaller and further away from ... (213 words)

My relationship is boring! any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Been with my girlfriend for 2 years. I just told her that I found us to be boring because frankly everything has been soo plain and a routine. I told her these exact same words and she said "well what are you gonna do" in a way like if she has no plans to change how I feel and ... (158 words)

18 months..how much longer do I have to wait?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So this is a really long and confusing question but here it goes. I have been in a relationship with a guy who is separated but not completely divorced for about a year and a half. When I met him he had already moved out and was not living or sleeping with his wife. He has... (154 words)

OK I get that she once did porn, but why does she feel ok showing to people??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

28 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi Agony Aunts and Agony Uncles, Here's the deal. I met a girl at a party and liked her but then found out she once did porn. She seemed sweet and even innocent and I could hardly believe it. I found out by googling her name. We spoke about it and she said it was a big mi... (261 words)

Married women: what made you cheat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

28 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - A question to all you women out there who are married, to a man who has been faithful to you, and yet you decided to cheat: why did you do it? What lead you to cheat? Was it something you were not getting from your husband? Was it something in you that really has little to ... (132 words)

My wife the party girl, how do I get her attention?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I have an issue that is somewhat hard to articulate. My wife is a very outgoing person, who has the ability to connect with people very quickly. She is excited to joke around with other people, and they with her: so much so that in social settings I sometimes feel like to her ... (275 words)

Isn't there usually a spark when you're dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - A few weeks ago, I started seeing this guy named Alex. He's a good friend of my best friend. She set me up with him. He turned out to be really nice, funny, cute, and we have a lot in common. Even though I had fun with him, there's just not that spark. Not a good amount of c... (215 words)

Is it ok for me to have these romantic thoughts about Transsexuals?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4146 days ago

28 February 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi agony aunts, i want to know if it's normal for me to be interested in transgender people sexually and emotionally. Right now im 18 years old, It all started a little over 2 years ago. I was looking at pornography on the internet and i happened to notice a link that had tr... (133 words)

How do I forget my ex boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

28 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Im an asian (oriental) guy living in Dublin. Theres is this one guy that I like (he was my first gay love and he took my virginity), we used to be friends but he abandoned me nearly two years ago for some reasons and moved to spain. Now that hes back here in Ireland I couldn't ... (211 words)

My Girlfriend is a total nag! help!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My 55 year old girlfriend,who I live with, is a total bitch. She only wants sex 1 time every ten days where I want it every day. Next for 9 months she continuously nags me follows me and tells me to clean this clean that. It's annoying and it tears down my self esteem. Shell ... (92 words)

What is wrong with my ex boyfriend? Does he have a split personality?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I broke up with my exbf September last year because he said he just wanted to have fun with me and he didn't need serious relationship with me because he has too many girlfriends. Afterward, I dated a new guy, and now I have a new bf who really loves me . The thing is I am ... (494 words)

Am I too paranoid? I think I misundestand my friends, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4441 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in trouble of misunderstanding and I feel like my friends are avoiding me. They talk when they have to and avoid important talks with me. I just can't describe what my feelings say. It might be a long story, but I reaaallly need an advice:( We are 4 girls close frie... (935 words)

Does my teacher still have feelings for me even though I left?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4439 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I published a question like this a whole back when I was at college about my teacher.Im 19 and very mature for my age seeing things in a very adult way.The last question I posted was about my teacher and the response I got was that this teacher seemed to like me and also ... (426 words)

I told my best friend that I like him and now he won't talk to me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I told my best guy friend of 6 years that I liked him. He is shy as am I so I told him by txt. His reply was 'really? how long have you felt this way?' I told him about a year and now it has been nearly 3 weeks and he has not called,fb or txt me. I knew it was a b... (258 words)

Why is my boyfriend taking so long to reply to my texts?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend used to text me back instantly after i text him then over time it started taking him longer and longer to reply even after school now it takes him between thirty minutes to an hour to reply to each text it really bugs me because we are in a long distance ... (78 words)

How do I mend my broken heart? I've been having an affair with a married man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4432 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - how do i mend my broken heart? Im a married woman and i have been involved with a married man for the past 5 years, i fell deeply in love with him he said he loved me too. I helped him pay off bills and have been there as much as i could. He is a caring man, he says most of all ... (169 words)

I'm scared that things are going to change when my boyfriend goes to college, or he'll fall for some college girl, or his feelings will change

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I'm now 17, and my boyfriend is 18. As everyone should know, school will be coming to an end soon, and he will go to college. The thing is he will be going to college out of the city, (155mi away). I know it's not a big number, but I don't know how to cope with him being so ... (185 words)

Any advice on how to text dirty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i guess i am having a small problem of texting my boyfriend. when we want to play and flirt on the phone he is really good at sexting and sending dirty texts, but im soo bland and i dont know how to keep the fun up? can anyone give me some advice of a little dirty talk tex... (67 words)

Scared that no one will want me now, and terrified to find out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Aunts/Uncles Im going to try and keep this brief but to the point. Single mother of three, suffer with servere I.B.S for 18 yrs, but now its not too bad. Have had a recent hysterectomy, so cant have any more kids, and obviously now going through the menapause. two... (291 words)

So much love-So little sex

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I been married for 13 years. Both 41, with no children. I do ALL the things every wife wishes for: Flowers, many vacations,, cook dinner, weekend get aways, cards, notes, gifts, hugs, kisses (but told don't get myself excited). In return, I get 175% in "emotional" love (kis... (139 words)