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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it really "no big deal" for married women to have crushes on other men?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

22 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I would really be interested in hearing from married women on this one. What does it mean when your wife seems to be very smitten with a husband of a couple we are becoming friends with? Do I have a right to be upset? Or, should I just relax and go with the flow, as I have ... (381 words)

I don't like my boyfriend going out with his friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I need some advice, i feel like im going crazy! I know this sounds bad but i don't really like my boyfriend going out with his friends. We have been together 4 years and i do love him alot, but ive always been really insecure and quite a paranoid person. Im always quest... (214 words)

Should I move back home or stay with my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey :) I moved away from home 4.5 years ago to come to uni. Although i finished uni in 2010, I ended up staying here. I've been with my boyfriend for about a year but we dont live together. I live with a friend, but my boyfriend and I are trying to save for a mortgage. Ive ... (279 words)

Ex-boyfriend or ex-friend? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex boyfriend from two years ago used to be my best friend. All through my last relationship with someone else he was always there for me, we were inseperable and he was my best friend. After me and my last ex boyfriend broke up, me and the boyfriend from two years ago ... (239 words)

I've found out that I'm bi, from talking with this girl ... who has a girlfriend. Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi agony aunts. Well I've recently found out that I'm bi.. Because of this girl. We met via twitter (we've like talked and skyped I know she's real don't worry...) and she only lives in the next state over. First we were friends, but now I really like her. She knows I like her ... (191 words)

Once a month, my feelings change drastically and very specifically, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend. I love him so much but every month, about a week before my period is due I just lose all interest. I start questioning myself, him, our relationship, everything and I hate it because I know as soon as the week is out I'll hate myself for even thinking those ... (114 words)

I am confused, what is really going on with me and my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I knew this guy since high school. He tells me everything about his relationships. He told me that I am his best friend and then ask me question about women and If I know it I would tell him. He calls his self liking me. It nothing but a friend thing. But when I tell him ... (297 words)

How do I get through to my wife that we are over?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

22 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So around 10days ago, i posted a question about myself and my wife, but we have since separated as a result of constant fights over what was so pointless and petty. But, she will not just let me be, i ask her and tell her that things are over, yet she is acting like we a... (121 words)

We're over. Should I try to make things right so there's no tension?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, so I have a small issue. Well, it all started in December. My ex and I were still dating but... We were very distant. We hardly ever got together and I wanted to break up with him, but I didn't know when or how. I never loved him, because I don't like feeling tied ... (317 words)

Why isn't this guy being his whole self with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy that I met back in December and he is amazing. He is so sweet and such a gentleman and really calm around me. When we hang out, it's just us and we'll watch a movie and cuddle. However, I've always felt like there's a side to him that I haven't been ... (167 words)

He's leaving his girlfriend, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been hanging out with a co-worker friend of mine who is a guy 2 months ago. And we've got very attached to eachother, but the thing is that he has a girlfriend and a child with her. His girlfriend is bipolar with a very bad temper. He's told me that he developed ... (364 words)

Why don't men want to talk on the phone?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm finding this so common with men I meet now, they refuse to talk on the phone. I met a great guy, we went out on 2 dates and had a blast together but we only communicate via text. At one point, I gave him a call but he didn't answer. When I heard back from him, it was via ... (224 words)

LDR b/f coming to see me but I've been seeing another guy every night. Should I tell b/f or take break?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I had this guy in my life for 6 years. We always had a little connection, and as we got closer that connection grew deeper. So in December, we hit a new point. We decided to become exclusive and get serious. Anyway, time goes by and we kind of drift apart because we live ... (250 words)

Why does he treat me special one day and the next day act like he doesn't know me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4439 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - So there's this guy I like. We've been texting a lot and he's also shown some signs that he likes me, but lately he hasn't been talking to me. Sometimes he'd treat me like I'm Special one day, then the next day treat me like we've never met. I'm so confused, people have been ... (82 words)

Should I tell him that I slept with someone else while we were broken up

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey so my boyfriend and I had been together for not even a month when he broke up with me. He had broken up with me in the spur of the moment because my friend had gotten mad at him for not giving me the attention a long distance relationship requires. Several days later he ... (328 words)

Why does my girlfriend get the feeling of peeing during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

22 February 2012 (M) age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I like to have sex but sometimes during sex she gets the feeling like she has to pee. She usually tries to hold it back because she doesnt know if its just the "feeling" of peeing. Sometimes she gets numb and tingly when we've done it for a long time and she ... (70 words)

Should I still be sleeping with my ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend and I broke up two months ago, but were still good friends. We hang out regularly and its not awkward at all. He will call me up just to chat, surprise me with dinner and ice cream and even bought me chocolates the other day. We still sometimes sleep ... (275 words)

Sex for the first time, I've never even fingered myself. What should I expect?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 19 years old and me and my boyfriend have been together for ten months. I am a virgin and he is not and we are talking about having sex this weekend and i've never fingered myself or anything. What is the pain like? What should I expect?... (49 words)

I've changed but I don't think boys' views of me have.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm abit fed up, I date boys but then they always seem to get a gf. I'm not saying I dont get boys attention because I do but I think it's the wrong attention. I admit my past isnt the best and I did use to sleep around, iv slept with 65 boys and am shamed of this, ... (127 words)

Should I arrange to see her again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4439 days ago

22 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I met a girl just after christmas. We got on really well and we exchanged numbers. We didnt see each other for a while after that because of commitments we both had but eventually we met up. Unfortunately, one of her friends interrupted us a messed up the evening, just staying ... (150 words)

My boyfriends MOM and BRO - are taking drugs and it's effecting our life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend now for about five years. We handle everything as if we are married, and yes that has been something we have talked over... I have very humble and quiet personality, my boyfriend is the opposite, but I like to think we ground each other...... (538 words)

Is she manipulating? Or possibly bi?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I need to talk about something very confusing for me. First, I'm lesbian. I met this straight girl from my school a year ago and I found her very attractive so I wanted to try something, so I kissed her at a party. I was a little bit drunk but she wasn't. She didn't even ... (867 words)

After 10 months of being together, having sex, bf still hasn't said those 3 little words

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - What if you and your boyfriend have been dating for 10 months then loose your virginity to each other and yet we still didn't say "I love you"? He believes to love someone you have to be with them for the rest of your life,but that was at the beginning of this relashonship,I ... (87 words)

I've broken off contact with a married coworker, but wonder if I should reply to her notes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - we are coworker (college friends) and she is married, i love her truely from the heart still i think about her 24hrs may be she will talk to my like a close good friend (not expected kisses etc) but close friendship as she earlier have with me . sometimes i think she uses m... (308 words)

Should I ask him about his relationship with his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend I am now seeing are planning on getting married in the near future. He moved from alabama to north dakota and thats when I met him. But as I was creeping on his facebook wall and looking at his pictures I noticed that he is still friends with his ex girlfriend ... (226 words)

I keep having dreams of my partner cheating on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (M)

age - i'm in my early 50's divorced almost 9yrs. and can finially say to some that i'm gay. i just started my first relationship 5 months ago, he's 39. i keep having dreams of him cheating and lying to me. prior to this we've were friends the last 4yrs.i don't like the feeling of ... (91 words)

I am jealous about my guy's other children!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - That's a long story but will try and make it plain and easy... I was in a relationship with a guy for 8 years and although I did not plan to have kids to him I always thought that I would end up admitting it was the best thing because that baby would have had a great dad... But ... (147 words)

Do you guys give up if the girl don't kiss u in the first date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I really want Male opinions PLease! ..I met this guy not too long ago, we exchanged numbers and since then we keep txting back and forth...finally we met yesterday for a dinner. He brought me two gifts.. I didnt expect for that! After dinner we were walking around dowmtown and ... (253 words)

Too soon to date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - hi. just need advice on dating after serious relationship! Basically i was with my ex for four years and we have a daughter together. i finished with him 3 and a half months ago, coz i was sick of his drink problem and lies. he is getting help again and moved out etc but im r... (203 words)

Should I wait for him to decide if he wants to become more than just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - How bad an idea is it to wait for a friendship with someone to progress to more than friends? We've known each other a year but a few months ago it seems that a mutual attraction developed between us. You know you have really strong feelings for them and the feelings only co... (380 words)

I ran from my ex girlfriend! Did I do the right thing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

22 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. I had an encounter with my ex, on a city bus. Now, she's the dumper. I'm scared of her, as she lied to me, and such. Anyways, I got off the bus, and, I find out she got off at the same stop. Now, I attend the same school as her (But, thankfully, not in the same program... (198 words)

Label-less relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Kinda long, hope you bear with me... I met a long-time female acquaintance whom I haven't seen for years in a party. We got to talking and updating each other. She's already married, while I was in a long-term lesbian relationship. She is fully aware of this and has even met... (439 words)

Would you be put off a guy who said his son was "just a baby I made"?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm dating a man who is a lot older than me, and he has a son who is a year younger than i am . He hasn't had much contact with his ex wife since they got divorced 23 years ago. He also hasn't seen his son much since his son was three years old. He once said that his son was " ... (235 words)

Why was I bleeding after anal sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My hubby and I have been having anal sex for about 5.5 years and I have never bled as badly as I did last night. A lot of online articles talk about fissures and friction but after anal there was as much blood in the toilet as if I had my period? Not sure if I should visit the ... (76 words)

Whatever happened to amicably breaking up??!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi guys. I have posted on here before recently. I have had a horrible time recently. Me and my bf broke up in December after I had a miscarriage in November. Basically he wasn’t really there for me and I was really going through it and I pretty much had a total mental ... (461 words)

Men and fidelity.....

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - do men always secretly want to have sex with other women when they are in a relationship/married...to be specific when they are in love with their partner. are the faithful men faithful because they are obliged to? is it that men have to control themselves in order to be faith... (152 words)

He ended it because he couldnt cope with other men looking at me, and then in the 7 days we were apart he got a new girlfriend!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Thanks in advance for any advice given! I am in a sad place right now and really could do with some opinions from a mans point of view and also a womans if you have been in the same situation. Up until a couple of weeks ago I was dating a guy 6 years younger than me - w... (750 words)

I love him but I'm not ready for marriage or a baby, how do I tell him this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating an older guy for almost a year now, when it first started it was just two people hooking up in the bedroom. I know that it was wrong but we were both having fun and I never thought it would last long or amount to anything. After a few months we both started ... (245 words)

I don't want to die without trying anal sex, so is it cheating if I hire a prostitute as my wife refuses to do this?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

22 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Just something that I've been thinking about: My wife and I have been together for years. Like any other couple, we have boundaries and red flags in sex. Anal sex is a red flag for her. But I can't get it off of my mind! I don't want to die without trying it. Do you con... (124 words)

I don't want to leave my husband but I feel unhappy and unfulfilled due to my feelings for my friend.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a married mother of one and I'm struggling with my feelings for someone I work with. When he first started at my work, I didn't talk to him much. I thought he was ok looking, kind of my type but I wasnt really interested. I knew he had a girlfriend of 5 years too. Then ... (436 words)

Fiance called off our wedding and there was no warning! Help!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Yesterday, my fiance called off our wedding. I never before believed the people who say 'It came totally out of the blue'. 'Surely', I used to think 'there must have been signs. Arguments, tensions, disagreements, pressure. Things that led up to that moment of decisi... (469 words)

I can't help but think that she is hiding the fact that its all become too much for her and she is struggling to end it

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

22 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Why does she blow hot and cold. She says she loves me but of late is very quick to tears. I can't help but think that she is hiding the fact that its all become too much for her and she is struggling to end it. She is supposed to be moving in with me in a few weeks, now that ... (157 words)

My girlfriend will ruin my life if I leave her. How do I get out of this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is completely obsessed with me. If I leave her she will ruin my life. I think the only way to make her fall out of love with me is to tell her that im convinced that im seriousely gay even though im not. What can I do that will make sure she doesent retaliate ... (57 words)

Boyfriend's comment about my short hair is she gay, or does she like men and women ? has left me feeling really bad!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm hurt by a comment that my boyfriend's friend made. When my boyfriend showed him my photo, he said " is she gay, or does she like men and women ? ". He said that just because i have very short hair!. It's a pixie style hair cut.I feel really self conscious now. I dont have ... (113 words)

Did my g/f perform oral on me just to make me feel better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone I have a question about what has happened earlier in the day. She came over to my house and well things got heated and I was performing oral on her which I love to do but she likes to finish off herself which I don't like. Anyways while she was climaxing ... (163 words)

My friend finally knows I love her but she doesn't feel the same. Now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4441 days ago

22 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I've liked this girl for a long time, we dated a like a year ago in school, but it didn't work out cause of school. We've been friends since, I've tried to rekindle dating but she's either always seeing some jerk or she tells me she only sees me as a friend. She recen... (660 words)

He texts me with smiley faces. Does he want to pursue a relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

22 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So I met this guy who's really nice and very similar to me. I have known him for a few months prior. We both bluntly state that we are extremely attracted to one another. We had a really nice night talking and had some fun with making out and stuff...but obviously thinking back ... (183 words)

How can I calm my girlfriend down without stirring up her temper?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone I've been having a lot of rough times with my girlfriend and one main problem seems to reoccur a lot is the fact when it comes to us arguing it never stops. She says it's because I'm an idiot I have no idea how to do anything right and she does all things ... (341 words)

Please help me, I don't know how to silence my irrational trust issues!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya! I am currently in what is by all means the best relationship ever. Not one thing could possible make me happier. He has never once done anything wrong, and I would never think that he would. Here's the problem. Prior to him, I was in two horrible emotionally abusive... (374 words)

How can my husband say he cares but he wants someone else?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - This is long but I need help! I have been married for almost 10 years with 3 kids. I know all relationships have ups n downs. Here's my story! We have had many great times and also are down times. He plays in a band, works full time his own business, we have rentals. I work f... (276 words)

I had sex with an old friend and now he's avoiding me. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently had sex with an old friend, and now he is avoiding me. We've been circling each other for years, had periodic make outs, and are always very touchy feely with each other, but we've never made the big move before. We're both with other people, but neither in a lon... (198 words)

I don't know if I can deal with a guy being so messy and home stinking that way so I told him and now he hasn't contacted me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this guy which he is very nice and good looking. I like him a lot. We have dated several and I enjoyed his company. We even spend the weekend at the coast nothing happen since we both brought our kids to enjoyed ourself. We have alot of things in common. The only ... (320 words)

Should I break up with him on his birthday?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) age 26-29 - Should I break up with my boyfriend? A little background on me: I'm 16. I dated a really sweet guy for a year, then we broke up, I started dating my current boyfriend, who is also a very sweet guy. We've been dating for 10 months now. The thing is, although he's the... (240 words)

After only 2 months my girlfriend cheated on me. Do I end things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So I found out yesterday that my girlfriend cheated on me! I took her virginity but still she slept with another guy only 2 months after I took it. I know she was a virgin because she's inexperienced and she bleed the first time we had sex. Also, it took about a week for me to ... (110 words)

I can not talk about how I feel about him to him, he does not want to hear about it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - The father of my baby says we are only friends, but everyone arounds us says we are more than friends. I do not know if he really interested or if he is trying to take it slow funny cause I am pregnant I know; by him . In the beginning he told me he would never leave me alone, ... (354 words)

18 & never had a boyfriend or been kissed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Answering honestly and not sugarcoating anything, is it a little odd for a 18 year old girl to be so inexperienced? No bf, no kiss and of course no sex. Especially since most girls around 18 have had boyfriends, kisses and even sex, so they have experience. A little stran... (74 words)

Why hasn't he called after he kept asking for my phone number, email?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I hit it off with this guy. We spent a large majority of time talking, and everything was great. Although a weird thing that came up before things got a bit heated, was that he mentioned he might have an STD, that he got tested, but hasn't heard of any results in weeks. Rega... (745 words)

What sort of Mom says these things to her own daughter! Advice, please!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm a 21 year old woman who still lives with her parents. I've always had horrible self-esteem. I very rarely see myself as beautiful, and it feels like calling myself pretty is pushing it a little. I always get compliments on my hair, my own mother saying it's beau... (444 words)

He took his ex gf girlfriend back and will not speak to me anymore. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so hurt right now. Im new here and was looking for some advice and someone to make me feel a little better too. Well ok so I was ''talking'' to this guy for about 3 months we wasn't serious but I like him so much. Well today I learned he took an ex back and he didn't even ... (133 words)

What is the deal with this girl? Are things still fine between us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

22 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I met a girl back in November. We went out a few times and slept together then I didn't see her for two months but we stayed in require contact with one another. I asked her a few times in that space of time if we were finished but she told me to stop worrying and that ... (534 words)

Inexperienced! Hand jobs...oral...how do I do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this great guy I know he's really sweet and cute.I've always liked him and I never thought he could possibly like me back.The other night our group went out to a nightclub and we got left alone together.He asked me to look at him and finally we kissed.I could not ... (477 words)

As a young couple, how can we start our sex life in a good way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4440 days ago

22 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, I'm 24 and my girlfriend Is 20, we've been togueter about 2 month now, and we have a great , fun and sincere relationship. the problem Is , neither of us Is experienced with sex, I've only had one previous experience and she had one too. But she's a little less "kn... (359 words)