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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

B/f hasn't mentioned anything about Valentine's day, is this a sign?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - so its Valentines day... and neither me nor my bf has mentioned anything about it yet. kinda wondering if I should bring it up... cuz I know im going to be hurt if he doesnt do anything, doesnt matter to me if he buys somthing... just say something lol. Or should I wai... (81 words)

Juggling 2 guys, neither knows about the other. What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4453 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have know this guy for 13 years and we both know we are ment to be but I had to move away when I was young....he comes to visit me and we talk all the time we are best friends....the thing is I am dating someone and he wants to buy me a house and move to the state I live in. ... (101 words)

Even though I've told the guy I like that it would never work, I can't stop thinking about him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4453 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Agony aunts. I have some trouble with a guy I really like. He likes me, and I like him too, but we have some communication issues. This is really not much of a problem though. The problem is however, that I'm scared that a relationship between us wouldn't last. I just ... (144 words)

Husband is obsessed with coworker who is not interested

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age - I am certain my husband has been going through a mid life crisis for the last three year. He had fallen in love with a married coworker who had rejected him very early on. Now three years later he is still "in love with her" and "obsessed" about her. Even though he acts like ... (174 words)

I said I'd go out with him but I only like him as a friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, Hi today I was asked out by my ex from the begining of freshman year, but my friend) that i kinda liked. I said yes because i kinda liked him, my friends said I'd look cute with him, and feel bad if i didn't say yes(mostly because it's valentines day!) He was so h... (100 words)

I'm devastated by the break up and want him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - hi i have been down in the dumps for the last couple of days im young and wait il start from the start i was friends with this boy for year or 2 and i told him that i like him and it turns out he liked me to so we went on a few dates well lots and he eventually asked me out so ... (243 words)

Am I being a snob by feeling slightly offended for having to share a guy with someone like her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy and I are in the "talking" stage and he is also talking to another girl. This doesn't bother me as we both agreed in the beginning that we just want something casual and fun, since I will be leaving to go to graduate school out of the country in August, or I should say ... (196 words)

Partner's 38 year old son lives with him and isnt happy about us dating

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age - I have been divorced for 6 years and my partner widowed for 15 months. We have been friends for about 30 years and are very much in love. He has taken me to meet his siblings and I have done the same.They are all so happy for us. My sons think he is great. We care and look ... (135 words)

I know he just sees me as a friend so how do I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I been having the biggest crush on this guy who might be so perfect for me. But the problem is I have done the chasing all this time always text him first, invite him out tried getting to know him. I see this going no where I see no sign of hope. I really felt for him ... (86 words)

Why doesn't anyone ever like me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so valentines this year has me thinking. I never had a boyfriend ever. The guys I always like never like me they always see me as their bestfriend. I am a smart girl, I'm chubby but I look good, I sing,have a nice personality,nice style I'm always looking good. I am ... (74 words)

Risk it all and ask him out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Cupids EVery day for the last 5 months, I have wanted to tell my best friend of 4 years that I like him more than an friend. However, he is so shy when it comes to dating and love. I have felt strongly towards him for a while, but I don’t know how to tell him, i cannot d... (355 words)

Why could my husband last longer sexually with other women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I were married for over 11years went through a divorce and have been remarried for about 7 months now. During sex together he only last a few min and it has always been this away, never bothered me cause he pleases me with foreplay as well. However it really ... (92 words)

He's still hiding behind work. Should I tell him I still care?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age - iam middle aged 18months ago a friend said he love me and was going to do something about it his job stopped him at the time he didit want me to care at the time but i did so prtented not to so giv ehim time still not made a move hiding behind work should i tell him i care/... (60 words)

What can I do to take some control in our progression and help him feel pleasure without going all the way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4453 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together six months. We are both virgins, though before each other we've each had some sexual experiences. The past few months things have heated up, going from just making out to clothes off (though underwear stays on), dry humping, and fingering ... (290 words)

He says we can't date because of distance. Do I keep him as a friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I started talking to this guy who I met on a dating site back in September. It was very casual and after a month of going back and forth with texts we finally met up for dinner. I almost did not go because we both kept canceling previous dates and I figured that we probably ... (711 words)

The ex texted me and now I'm really confused

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex texted me for the first time in weeks!! It didnt end well since my ex's sister broke the news that he found someone else to me. I'd cried for him for days and had started councilling because was so upset. Today he sent me a silly valentine rhyme in a text and i wasnt sur ... (157 words)

How can I draw my ex LDR boyfriend to me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4452 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello cupids :) So this is long, because i want to make the situation to everyone as clear as possible, but i'll try and shorten it as much as possible... I had a boyfriend, we were LDR, it would have been 2 years on May 1st this year, but we met in Oct 2009. He broke ... (835 words)

Engaged guy texting obscene messages to me. Should I tell his fiance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) age 30-35 - Here's my situation. Long story short, there's this guy I met and talked to maybe 3 times. He seemed really friendly, and nice so I added him on facebook. He got a job somewhere else, got engaged. (I'm also engaged)and he hasn't really spoken to me since. I saw on fb it was h... (309 words)

Did I do/tell him the right thing or did I scare him away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4453 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was dating a guy I really liked, we both had the same family values, had similar upbringing, had a lot of things in common and always had so much fun when we were together. I haven't liked someone so much in such a long time. Only thing I did not like about him was that we ... (398 words)

I feel it's too late for him, but I don't want to hurt him either

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, hi everyone! :)...... Hope you can all give me some good advice, as I'm in a very confusing situation atm. I'v been with my boyfriend 3 years. We've had lots of ups and downs. Mainly downs. He can be very difficult. Jealous and controlling. But I love him and througho... (599 words)

I think of him as cuddly, but I don't want to insult him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I hope I dont insult ppl in the process of asking if I'm being insulting XD To the overweight community: (ja im sure ive already insulted everyone) All my life ive been really tiny... high metabolism or w/e but ive been kinda skinny... And I was wondering, has anyone over... (109 words)

Girlfriend told me I act weird when I receive blow jobs

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

14 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend of 6 months is 12 years younger than I am, but very much more sexually experienced than I me. I got married young and I have only been with two women in my life while she is very adventurous and loves sex. She is also blessed with being a beautiful blonde, ... (424 words)

Does she fancy me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

14 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I like this woman at work who works in the coffee shop while I'm the stores janitor. One day I was collecting the rubbish we accidently touched fingers which made her smile, just before New Year's she asked what I was doing on on New Year's Eve then she told me she was also doi... (95 words)

Should I start a relationship with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everybody, Good day. I need some good advise from you guys here. As I have never have a relationship before and came to know this guy who is a Myanmar (30 yrs old) while I am a Chinese (34 years old) We known each other through online dating And I have only met hi... (150 words)

I rejected him because I was I wasn't sure what sort of relationship I wanted with him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear agony aunts, it's valentine's day today and I gave a valentine to the guy that I rejected a few months back but really liked a lot(the thing is, I don't know what kind of way I like him!) . And he was astoundingly cold to me, as though I was close to nothing. It really ... (145 words)

He said me breaking up with him was the best Valentines gift ever! I know he doesn't want me, but I still feel like I made a mistake by breaking up with him....

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid i am in love with a guy for 2 years. He knows that and we are in fwb. He is not seeing anyone and im not either. But he never introduced me as his gf. I am his friend, thats all he wanted from me, but i want more. I told him today i want to take this to next lev... (148 words)

Should I tell him I miss the way we used to be? Or leave it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm kinda seeing this guy on and off for a year. We're not official thagether, but it feels like we are. Recently though we've started to drift apart. We've had a lot of fights this past year, and I think it has something to do with that. But a few weeks ago he text me and said ... (125 words)

I think she has a problem with me being a Christian, is she a bad friend and should I stop hanging out with her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a Christian. I'm not a bible thumper, and I love the gays, and I swear, and you wouldn't know I was a Christian if I never told you. Last summer I got a job teaching kids art at an art school, and there I met a girl my age that was really nice and we became super clo... (444 words)

Does romantic sex appeal to men ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - we women mostly (at least in my case) want slow sensual sex that lasts un hour or more with steady rythm and cuddling ,kissing ,sweet words and mutual participation but my experience showed me that men want the opposite , has i always chosen the wrong man? ... (62 words)

Love him or leave him? Or would FWB work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - What should I do about my new lover? I met him at Christmas time through my sisters boyfriend and although I wasn't sure at first, we ended up being lovers. As he lives in my home town (he has a four year old son who he sees as much as possible there) and I live in the capi... (820 words)

Is he addicted to porn? And is this the reason why we don't have sex anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - hi this is really difficult to write about but i hope someone can give me some advice on how to deal with my bf of two years. After a long time of wondering about our sex life, I've realised that my bf is addicted to porn. We get on really well and can laugh together, enj... (403 words)

Should I leave my boyfriend for a guy who I still have feelings for but it never worked out in the past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello:) I'm having trouble with relationships. I was going out with this guy a few years ago, lets call him 'Mat' then I started hanging round with a new friendship group and pretty much fell in love with someone in the group. I didn't do anything about it, until he told ... (358 words)

Is he more than just friends with his flatmate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4453 days ago

14 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So I am facing a major dilemma. I am a gay male, but that shouldn't really matter as that has nothing to do with it. I can use the opinion and advice of anyone. So around August, I met this wonderful man on a social internet site (not facebook.) We both seemed to share many ... (543 words)

How can I be normal around him and control my urge to laugh all the time?

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14 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have this weird thing going on and I can't figure out how I can change it.There is this guy in my class that seems to have made a habit out of teasing me.He sits right behind me and quite often playfully pinches me usually a bit above the waist line.He startled me the first ... (281 words)

I said yes to going out with him but it doesn't feel right! Have I made the right choice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - My good friend asked me out today and I said yes, but it doesnt feel right. He's like my brother, and its just too awkward. Have I made the right choice? Im 13. I dont actually feel anything. Should I just see where it goes?... (45 words)

do I really need to pretend to be incompetent to make a guy stick around?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 26 year old single mother of two. I work a full time job, and am a full time mom. I live on my own with my kids, their dad lives over 1000 miles away. I pay all my own bills, etc... In other words, I'm completely independent. My kids dad and I broke up four years ago, ... (409 words)

Its been 6 months and I'm still not over my 1st boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi :) In December of 2010, the boy I liked asked me out. He wasn't my first boyfriend but he was in a way. My first boyfriend was in 5th grade and we dated for 5 hours. My second boyfriend was also in 5th grade but we only dated for 2 days. And my 3rd boyfriend was in 6th grad... (311 words)

My boyfriend wants me to put my life on hold for a while is that right of him to ask?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - A couple of weeks ago I got a call from a former navy recruiter, and he told me of a new opportunity that would let me enlist in the military, but it is only valid for the next two months. I was very happy about it since i have been wanting to do this for a while, but my ... (181 words)

The designated unattractive fat friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

14 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a attractive female friend. She surrounds her self with less attractive female friends. My friend says that attractive girls with "fat ugly friends" have no personality!!!!! it is true, that she has little to no personality!! Is this a fluke or is there some science ... (51 words)

Should I tell this mean girl off or just keep my mouth shut?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4447 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello :) This girl and I use to be friends since 7th grade and now we are in 9th. We are not friends anymore because we fight constantly and she causes so much drama. I've been waiting for her to be mad at me for I can tell her we will never be friends again and this is why. ... (736 words)

Should I go out with this guy even though everyone thinks he's weird?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I just moved to a new school and i like this guy and he likes me too. Everyone says hes really weird but i don't see it and everything they say is bad about him it doesn't bother me. I know your probably saying just to go out with him and see where it goes. But what if it ... (146 words)

What does it mean to "use" someone?

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

14 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I recently recalled an argument I had with a woman some time ago. She slept with men for money. She tried to keep it secret, but once I found out, I was very troubled by it. One reason was that she did not really need the money--it was not like she was in a desperate situation. ... (405 words)

I messed around with a jock at a party 4 days ago, and haven't heard from him since. I have feeling for him, but am afraid he was just playing with me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend asked me to go to a party with her.. I went. I met this guy. He was really cute. A real stud.. graduated and was a popular football player. We did a lot of stuff together and he seemed like he cared. Which i'm stupid to think he would, because we have a 5 year age ... (100 words)

How can I help my boyfriend, who has gone through life suffering due to a botched operation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need any help from anyone who may know a bit about Norwegian or Scandanvian rights / law. My boyfriend is Norwegian, and when he was a baby he received a botched inhumane surgery (no anesthetics were used) that left him with bad scarring. His mother was a teenager a... (315 words)

She said yes! Now what should we do for the date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

14 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Thank you to all the help I've received here on dearcupid! I posted this question on Sunday, http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-i-suggest-our-st-valentines-day-outing.html#provide_answer The lady in question accepted! Now I need to know what to do, 3rd date, i was... (140 words)

I am 29, she is 18! But we each like each other very much. Should I continue this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

14 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey Everyone.....! Please help! I’m a 29 year old man and I’m in love with an 18 years old girl! She is 11 years younger than me!!!!! It was she that liked me at first and always very nice with me. She used to say, "Everything to do for you is a pleasure of my life" At firs... (221 words)

My mother is conservative and against ANYTHING before marriage. I'm 18, but I still have to deal with her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - To make a long story short, recently I've come to find out a lot more about political parties, and what exactly my mom believes in, now that I'm older. We are almost completely opposite, she's ultra conservative, and I guess you could call me a liberal. She doesn't eve... (335 words)

I'm usually shy, but with her I feel just fine. Should I go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

14 February 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Alright guys, so I'm a freshman at my school, and I was at a cross country meet, I'm not the fastest but oh well. Anyways, The fastest girl in my school saw the place I got and was being nice and this happened a couple of times. Then I started to notice her in the hall... (141 words)

Man is 13 years my senior and shows a bit impatience to meet again. Is this cause for doubt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm Irish moved to Germany 2 years ago , and i'm 29 . I met this guy in a pub a German over here in Germany. He is a lovely guy-- very, very nice guy . Have a small few issues. Met him two weeks ago. Then last weekend i met him for beer and i'm meant to be meeting him tomorr... (239 words)

We broke up because he didn't "feel right" about our relationship. What do I do now!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

14 February 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I'm a gay male teenager, this is the first serious break up I've been through and I don't know what to do now. We're aged 16/17, just a few months apart. So we sort of started something about 7/8 months ago now, but it didn't really feel like a serious or actua... (643 words)

I am becoming an angry person around my husband. What can I do to change this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I have been married for 3 yrs. I'm at home and even though I don't work I do everthing and I take care of our baby. He goes to school Monday and wed all day and I don't see him till 9ish. I miss him a lot and find that I'm lonely but every time he is off we just fight ov... (205 words)

How can I know my ex is ok?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

14 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated a guy for 5 months in the time I got to know him he put himself down a lot. He would say things like "nobody really crares about me" He was very clingy and afton asked what he could do to seem more attractive to me. He has admited to thinking about suicide but he said ... (214 words)