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Friend's boyfriend consuming my thoughts!

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Question - (10 November 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 November 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I cant stop thinking about one of my friends boyfriend! i think of him all the time.. going to bed waking up he is always on my mind! I know i could never act upon this and never would but its so hard trying to get him out my head!

We talk all the time and are just friends but i cant help gettin the feeling we both what something to happen! like things he says and things he does! he always trys to get us on our own n talks about leaving his girlfriend which is wrong!

How can i get him out my head?

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A female reader, Aly9723 United States +, writes (11 November 2010):

I agree with the chick. It's against the girl code. I mean my best friend has a boyfriend nd me nd him never start talking and trust me he's tried sayin some things. But if you want to possibly ruin your friend ship then go ahead. But remember, guys always have a chance at stabbing u in the back, but frnds are always there to help pull it out

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A male reader, Myke United States +, writes (10 November 2010):

Look, no one is married or engaged here, right? How serious are they? How long have they been dating? Maybe they aren't that serious? How strong/ long is your friendship? Odds are, you're going to have to let one of these people go. Unless your friend dumps him, maybe. The way I see it is that you don't choose where or how you meet the people you fall in love with, so you have to consider that. Just avoid wading into it and creating some messy cheating triangle. Put it on the table and be bold.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2010):

I would stay away if you value your friendship with his girlfriend. She would be extremely hurt and may never forgive you. There are tons of guys out there, stay away from this one. If you were to start something with this guy and he left your friend for you, the chance it would work out with you 2 would be minimal! He would likely do the same thing to you with someone else. Doesn't seem like a good guy to me.

Good Luck

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