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writes: Ok... I was out with my best male friend of many years tonight, we went to a place with nice music as we usually do and he had two glasses of wine. I felt I was not in the mood and told him I feel I am boring tonight. He answered me saying that he'd rather be here now with me than being with X (X = a girl he met recently, had freaky times with, and told me he is kinda interested in her). I didn't comment as I didn't think much about it. I said something half an hour later apologizing for not being myself tonight, and told him I am sorry if I am not a good company tonight, when he said: "I swear to God that if I were given the choice between being with Charlize Therone now or here sitting with you, I woul not have to think and would be here already". I felt confused when he said that and said spontaneously that I do not understand why.At the end of the night he dropped me home, and whilst I was just entering my house I received a text message from him, and I have no idea when did he even find time to write it, given that he has JUST dropped me. It said: "I am missing your boring company already :)". Now I am starting to get confused. Is he interested in me or something? I just don't understand, really!
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (12 November 2010):
 Yes, he's into you. The talk of other women is to hopefully show that there are other parties interested in him. Kind of like saying he's a great catch. It could also be to play off how much he likes you so that it's not overly obvious. That way he can gauge your interest.
Based on the follow up, I'd bet on him liking you. I'd even be willing to put my money where my mouth is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2010): Thanks for all the answers. He texted me again VERY EARLY this morning suggesting that we go for a picnic tomorrow morning. Well, the thing is that he was supposed to travel today, but I mentioned last night that we'd go on a picnic together if he were not traveling today, and apparently he postponed his travel!!! He said clearly in the text that the picnic is just worth it.
Something happened a few months ago that I feel like mentioning now; at my 31st birthday he got me 30 white roses and one red rose in the middle, and wrote a short poem about my birthday whereas if you read the first letter of every line vertically it is my name! I thought it was cute at the time, bur now I am suspecting it might have meant more! Or is it all in my head? And if he is into me why does he tell me about other women and once recently told me about a sexual adventure with X?
I am REALLY confused!
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (11 November 2010):
 It does appear that way, though the contribution of alcohol cannot be ignored.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (10 November 2010):
 I agree with Dirtball, what he said was a flirty joke. However, it could be the wine talking if he was rather intoxicated. Give him a day to sober up and text back!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2010): Yup, he is into you :)
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reader, dirtball +, writes (10 November 2010):
Yes. He likes you. His text was an attempt to be cute by making a joke about something you'd been apologizing for all night. The whole time I was reading this I was thinking he's into you.
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