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writes:Okay! Im 14 years old. My cousin is 21 and married to this guy who is 23. They have a 4 month old baby together. I went to there house for a week to hang out and babysit. It was a blast. i drove around with her husband all the time he is still like a kid so into his car and makes teenage jokes and stuff like that. When i left he had my number in hiz phone just incase there was a baby emergency... so i got home and he started texing me first off just saying "hey whats up, miss us yet" things like that. then a week later of texting casual things he talked his wife into coming up to my house for a day to see the family and stuff.. then when they left the next day he was askign when i was coming back and stuff. he seemed a little to friendly maybe trying to fit in with the family better.. i dont know! then he started asking me to send him pictures first it started out once a day so i sent a couple, not naked or sexual! then he started asking personal questions about me and my boyfriends sexual life.. so i ignored them then he would like text me over and over... then he wanted like 10 pictures a day and i would make up excuses why i could not send them like phone battery too low or im bust things like that and he would say "PWEASE!!! :( :( :(" and i would ignore him.. he has been texting me so much that i blocked his number and told my mom. she wanted to tell my cousin but i dont want to be the cause of there divorce. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (1 September 2009):
 Honey, YOU did nothing wrong. In the future don't send guys photos unless YOU want to send that person some, ok? Never let people like that tell you what to do.
You wouldn't be the reason for their divorce. That is all on him. HE is the one behaving improper and wrong.
Let your mom tell her if you don't want to be in the drama, but I think you owe her the truth of what a jackass her husband is.
For a 23 year old guy to flirt with a 14 year old.. FAMILY MEMBER is just sick. He should be put down.
PS. GOOD JOB on blocking him on your phone!
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reader, Tilly818  +, writes (1 September 2009):
 hes a rat tell your cousin...... wat if he is doin the same with another girl and she found out u knew and didn't tell her..... Wat if she cum across on of the pix then it would both of you in trouble coz you responded to the requests..At the end of the day it was not nessesary to send him pictures nor answer his text wen there weren't about the child you were minding and the reason you gave him your cell no.... Tell you cousin she will eventually thank you for it bt dont jst tell her make sure you ave proof [show her the texts]i was in a simular situation with my best friend [who i lived with] and her boyfriend he chatted me up infront of her wen she was drunk and he started txin me like your cousins husband. i deleted the messages and ignored him. i told my friend who didn't believe appartently i was jealous of her and wen she ask my to provide the text messages i couldn't.. so you need to beware about yr proof and how you and your mum approch her xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2009): this is a serious situation. hes a over age man. you are a young lady. you are doing the rite thing.:)
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