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30-35,
*nsure_of_this
writes:I'm sorry to say this, but I really dislike my boyfriend's sister. She just isn't a nice girl.She is so rude. She is constantly belching and farting, and doesn't even bother to excuse herself. I know everyone burps and farts, but the fact that she is always letting 'em rip is just gross. She is also mean-spirited. A few weeks ago, a bunch of us were at a nature park. Three preppy-looking girls walk by, and she starts harassing them, calling them B*tches. Why? I guess cuz they were dressed nicely? She was acting like they didn't have a right to be there. It was horrible. I was so embarassed to be seen with her.Finally, my biggest reason for disliking her is how passive-aggressive she is to me. She acts friendly, but then makes these snide comments to put me down. Comments that she can pretend are innocent, but are actually malicious. Things such as "I like your purse... [total change of tone here] it must have been $300..."Ugh. I have tried to like her. I have tried to refrain from passing judgement on her. But it's to the point where I really can't stand her anymore... I realize that she is just immature, and probably resentful of anyone who is better off than her. I realize this, and yet, I really don't know how to tolerate her anymore.I don't want to tell my boyfriend I dislike her, because I don't want to cause any drama. I guess I'm just looking for advice on how to deal with her. Any advice on how to be the bigger person here and not let her negativity get to me?Thanks yall
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2009): What I do with this type of person is keep as far away from them as possible and ignore them when you have to be together. Shel''ll bug you about your new stance but you must not lose your resolve to avoid and ignore her ALL THE TIME.
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