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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why is it that girls seem more attracted to older men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

9 November 2006 (M)

- Why is it that girls seem more attracted to older men even when they're in their 20's? Ok i'll admit i'm 19 and fancy girls who are 16, 17 but not 20 or 21.... (34 words)

Out of the blue, he tells me he is leaving! I feel totally deserted..what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

9 November 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for four and a half years and we have a daughter who will turn two in december. Today out of the blue he told me that he's leaving me and doesn't think he's in love with me anymore. We've been arguing alot over the past couple of months regarding his ... (136 words)

I feel he doesn't want me and it hurts so bad! How do you stop loving someone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6374 days ago

9 November 2006 (F) - Hello, I posted a while ago about my ex boyfriend who had ignored me at the end of the relationship which hurt me a lot. He got back in contact, and we have been seeing each other again for 4 months, but not regularly due to work/study commitments. I wrote him a letter a... (243 words)

My ex bf wants to be just a good friend but I really want him back! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

9 November 2006 (F)

- Hey everybody. I was wondering if anybody could help me on the update of the ex-boyfriend situation! My Ex recently started talking to me again, to which I did not object, and when he asked why I had been ignoring him, my reply was "I needed time." The big worry is, we w... (162 words)

Husband left me and has a gf! He claims nothing happened before he left me..what do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

9 November 2006 (F) - just would like some peoples opinions on this one my husband left me a couple of months ago and has just told me this evening that he is in love with someone else but nothing happened before he left me would you say it is still an affair adultry even if they did not do ... (60 words)

I am newly married but have feelings for another man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

9 November 2006 (F) - Hi, i am newly married, for about 4months, but i had doubts beforehand. The main reason for this being that i really connected with the older man i worked with prior to my marriage, but put all this down to nerves and fears of not knowing what to expect. But nothing has chan... (130 words)

My BF isn't very well endowed...what sexual position is best?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

9 November 2006 (F) - Hi i am wondering what is the best sexual position for my boyfriend who isnt that much endowed.. he's got a small penis. I get more aroused by his hands.. at times id prefer a vibrator but i dont want to hurt his feelings as he is the sensitive type..... (51 words)

I cant come inside my girlfriend...why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

9 November 2006 (M) - iam 30, and masturbate almost daily for past 16yrs. problem is dat i find it very difficult to cum in my girl. been dating her for 4yrs. she disvirgined me. she has to suck my nipple while i make luv to her b4 i may cum. why? i need your help. tee jay... (54 words)

coming of age

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

9 November 2006 (F) - im 10 years old and want to know when ill get my periods and need infomason about it who can give me some?? ... (25 words)

A couple of months and hes gone cold ..why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6376 days ago

9 November 2006 (F) - I really like a guy I have been seeing for the last few months, a lot. Things were great until a couple of weeks ago. He has contacted me, but by text only and that was four days ago. He seems to not be so keen as he once was. I did bring up the issue of us - even though w... (108 words)

My ex will be there !

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6376 days ago

9 November 2006 (M) - My ex girlfriend is going along to the same stag/hen party that i have also been invited to, I am un sure if i should go as i will feel uneasy with her being there, she asked me if i was going and said that would have a inpact on if she would take her new bloke. I get the ... (91 words)

Can i prevent bleeding on our romantic night ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

9 November 2006 (F) - Is there anyway of enducing your period by sexual pleasure or fingering? im supposed to be due 'on' very soon and im supposed to be having a romantic evening at my boyfriend's house. is there anyway i can bleed during this night from the sexual play we'll have? write back ... (55 words)

I love my fiance but does she now love me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

9 November 2006 (M) - Me and my girlfriend of the past 4 and a half years have been having some issues lately. We were to have gotten married in may 2007, but we gotten into several arguments the past several weeks about buying my moms house. Her and my mother have had some rocky times, so after ... (524 words)

I was a virgin when I married... And I'm still a virgin two years later!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6274 days ago

9 November 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am 30yrs old and have been married for two yrs. I was a virgin when I married and remain one now. I had not had sex before marriage because I considered it a sin and have been brought up in a loving religious family.I had many opportunities to indulge in sex b... (246 words)

How can you make an orgasm last longer

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

9 November 2006 (F)

- How can you make an orgasm longer ?? ... (8 words)

I love him soooo much! But he dumped me and I feel guilty..how can I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

9 November 2006 (F)

- I love my ex boyfriend SOOOOOOO much , everyone has told me that he loves me , and the only reason he dumped me was cos he thought i didnt love him ! =S .. its been a couple of months now ... i feel so guilty ,, and annoyed at myself cos i love him Sooo much ! ... i want to ... (97 words)

I don't want to lose her but I suspect she goes out a lot behind my back! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6378 days ago

9 November 2006 (M) - i met a girl in the summer ,she is from poland and she left her boyfriend of 4 years for me which was a suprise for me now she is gone back to finish her final college year and is begging for me to go over,she sends me letters all the time and i love her but i cant get ... (113 words)

I got caught shaving "down there" by my grandad and I'm 14.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6376 days ago

9 November 2006 (F)

- Well erm where to start...i am suppozed to be meeting this lad today but i needed to shave. me and ma mum are moving house so my grandad keeps coming to help us pack and things. anyway my mum and grandad were upstairs packin so i thought id chance it in da kitchen. My grandad ... (112 words)

How do I get my bf back and stop pushing him away? ANy advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

9 November 2006 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years it would have been five years next month but lately he has been really different and distant then on one sunday we got into a little fight and i hung up on him but then i called him the next day and he said that he did'nt want to ... (216 words)

He's dumped me but still wants to be friends... what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

9 November 2006 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years and yesterday we agreed to split up because he was saying he doesnt love me like he should and that it doesnt feel like a relationship anymore, he said he loves me like a friend and our relationship has gone down hill for the ... (73 words)

Things are getting heated with my driving instructor!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

9 November 2006 (F) - I think my driving instructors coming on 2 me but im not sure.. i told him about me having fone sex and he told me about his blowjobs his had. He was making comments 2 me after i told him i like older men. Well i love it that his flirting with me but i dont want 2 be his f**k ... (97 words)

Can't get over my 'sex buddy'! Can anyone help me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

9 November 2006 (F)

- I posted a question a while ago about my 'sex buddy' dumping me. So yeah he treated me like crap he never returned my calls, never called me I always had to call him and when I did call 3/4 of the time he wouldn't pick up, he would never answer my texts. I chased him and I ... (302 words)

How can I stop cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

9 November 2006 (F) - I have a bf. We are together 2 years. we have a kid. we are much in love but sometimes i feel like i hate him and then i wil go out and cheat on him. He loves me soo much, but wen i get angry i will go out and cheat on him. Sometimes i even dont feel a shamed of it, but i love ... (100 words)

Does horny goat weed actually have an effect?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6378 days ago

9 November 2006 (M) - hi everyone, does horny goat weed really have an effect during sex? if so, how?... (15 words)

I feel like my long distance lover is cheating again. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

9 November 2006 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship and have been so for a number of years. It has been quite stormy and we've had our ups and downs. I love him dearly, but the final straw was when he cheated on me and I found out. We had a break for a number of months, even though I didn't ... (272 words)

Is it illegal for a 17 year old male to have sex with a 15 year old female in Ireland?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

9 November 2006 (M) - Is it illegal for a 17 year old male to have sex with a 15 year old female in Ireland? I read that it is at least I think so. A girl I know did this and lost her virginity this way and he basically just used her and treated her awfully. Can she do something about it legally, ... (75 words)

My friend's wife had a nervous breakdown. How can I make sure my gf doesn't have the same problem? I plan to propose.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

9 November 2006 (M)

- A friend of mine has been married to his wife now for 13 years and last month I found out she had a nervous breakdown. I've been seeing my gf for 5 years now so how do I make sure that the women I love (i'm proposing to her on her birthday next month) doesn't have the same ... (59 words)

I need help to get him to notice me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

9 November 2006 (F) - ok im totally in love with this guy hes so hot and sweet and im crushing really badly hes in some of my classes and talking to him makes me happy the whole day. yea, i know, ive got it bad. but im pretty sure he doesnt think of me the same way. hes good frends with gorg... (88 words)

How can I feel better about myself? I am so unhappy, yet he walks around all smug.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6374 days ago

9 November 2006 (F) - please help me.. im losing it. Im sat at my desk at my office crying and dont know who else to turn to. I was seeing a guy at work for about a year but we have now split up. He has a girlfriend who he has been with for 3 years. i know it was awful that we werecheating on her, ... (398 words)

Is he interested in me, or my friend? I am so confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6378 days ago

9 November 2006 (F) - Sorry, this will be a little long....There's this guy that i like and i tried to show him that i'm interested but in an indirect way but he responded and we took eachothers numbers but he never calls, i always initiate and call him and sometimes he doesn't answer and calls a ... (308 words)

Everything was perfect until the death of his father. Everything has changed - what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

9 November 2006 (F) - I've been seeing a man for 4 months, for the first time in about 10 years i have met someone who has truly made me happy. From day one there were no games, just open fun communication, clicking and getting on well. He has done nothing to make me doubt our relationship. At the ... (301 words)

We both cheated in the past but should we put it behind us and get together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6378 days ago

9 November 2006 (M) - i am 18 she is 17 and save me form being stuped i bin going out with a gf for 4 1/2 months,we live 2 hour apart and see every week or so and more when it was summer we stay over each over for 2 days.but two night ago we broke up as we love each over but over the ditance... (308 words)

My hubby of 13 yrs cheated on me with my sisters. Is it happening again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

9 November 2006 (F) - My husband and i have been married for 13 yrs. We were good then it got bad. He cheated on me with not one sister but two.. we split up. Now we are back together. again we were happy. Latly it seems that we are starting to go back down that road of cheating. I forgave him.. I ... (170 words)

he said I'm a geek and need to be more chavy. How much should I change about myself?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6374 days ago

9 November 2006 (F)

- right im not sure weather this is a relationship question or a fashion question lol. anyway i was talking to this lad and we were arranging to meet..he said "this wolud b easier if you were ma g/f but no offence bt ur such a geek...chav it up a bit and ou might av a chance" i ... (107 words)

She was with someone else in our "break". It keeps going over in my head. Whaty do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 November 2006 (M)

- My question is regarding my "cheating" girlfriend. Ill try and make this long story as short as possible. Started relationship with girl about a year ago. After we hooked up we dated and "dealt" for a couple months. During these couple months she went out and partied, and was... (478 words)

Things seem over with my guy but what do you think he is thinking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

9 November 2006 (F) - He was the one that chased me and got my number. He wooed me and made me feel very special and desired, even though we live in different cities. about 3 months ago, i started asking him whats happening with the relationship. He gave me answers like, lets take it slow, lets se... (432 words)

It's been going on years and I've never told him how I really feel. Is now the time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6376 days ago

9 November 2006 (F) - I Just need some advice..33 Im 17 and last year i met this guy..He was 27 at the time and we just clicked..We just got eachother straight away..He was the most amazing person i had ever met. I fell in love and i think he did too but he never said anything and neither did i =[... (397 words)

I'm finding my breakup difficult but I'm trying. Why has he contacted me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 November 2006 (F) - hi, im 27 years old, female, loved my guy truly, long distance relationship for 4 n 1/2 yrs, broke up recently, no emails, calls, sms or anything..simply put forward, i still do luv abt and care abt him, but i cannot forgive him just yet , all these years he made me wait , only ... (144 words)

Making love during my period. Can I get pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

9 November 2006 (F) - hi, i would like to know if someone can get pregnant making love while in your period. my boyfriend and i made love when i was in my period, i told him i was in my period but you know men, i thought he was going to use a condom, coz i hear its harmful making love in your period ... (102 words)

Doggy Style sex is causing air in my vagina! What can I do about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

9 November 2006 (F) - My bf and I enjoys doggy style position but i am having problems,air is entering my vagina and it is bothering me so much what would i do please...... (29 words)

Did my lengthy email cause him to think badly of me? He hasn't responded!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

9 November 2006 (F) - The guy that i have been talking to and flirting with and intimate with, lives in another city. We started our relationship 7 months ago and have been texting and calling each other every day. I've done all the visiting, he has come to see me yet. I started to feel that he ... (264 words)

Been together 4 years and we have never had sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

9 November 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend's sex life is non existant, we have been going out for 4 yrs. we have had problems with this ever since the start of our relationship, we were/are both virgins, and he and i werent very knowledgable as to what to do and he had problems with penetration... (601 words)

I didn't know my BF of 4 years was looking at naked girls, he said he would stop but he hasn't!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

9 November 2006 (F) - hi i am looking for some advice. I've been with my boyf for 4 years, lived together for 1 year. When i noticed that he was going into our bathroom for an hour with magazines, at first i thought it was just normal mags, but then one day i seen that it was a mag with ... (815 words)