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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (13 November 2006):
 I cant believe anyone would want to be a chav in the first place. Dont go down that road, they are a fashion no-no. I class them the same as clown's and i dont like those either. Its not big and its not clever X
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2006): Chavs are scum. Notice how they can't even type in English. Don't even bother with them love, find a guy with intelligence and who is sincere. You will be much better off for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): OMG! you shouldnt change! if he cant take who you are right now then he isnt worth it ! anyways Geeks are veryyyyy awsome, how dare he say you should change?!?!?!?!?! your proberly perfect the way you are! never change for a boy! .... Love Some1
P.s ....sorry if i offended you i didnt mean o i only wanna help xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): Hah!
He's The Geek! Why Should You Change For Him?(Sorry I'm Probably About To Write The Same As Evryone Up There But I Havent Read Them)
Right So First Of All Chavs SUCK! Don't Be A Chav!
Second Of All Don't Change For Anyone, If He Can't Already See How Amazing You Are There's No Point!
Think About It This Way In 15 Years Time When You Are A Chav (This Is If U Did Change Not That You Will Be A Chav Or Anything!) You'll Be Slaving Behind The Counter Of Macdonalds Wishing You Hadn't Changed And This Boy Will Be Long Gone.
So Put Up With The Names From Him- They're Not Gonna Last Forever And DON'T CHANGE FOR ANYONE WHO ISN'T WILLING TO CHANGE FOR YOU!
Xx Peace Out!
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (10 November 2006):
 I hate chavs.
Never change for a guy, especially when it's a change for the worse. He sounds like a right balloon. Forget him and find someone who likes you for you. You deserve better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): Wow, this is no joke! But I'm laughing cuz it's so typical of a general teenager - at least tell me u are. However, enough of the belittling and to the 'advice'...
Without having a picture of yourself here, it would be difficult to say what you should do to change yourself, but geez, if you must change yourself to look like everyone else, then I guess all you have to do is look at everyone else who take on the trend of Chavs right? [wink]
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reader, ogga +, writes (9 November 2006):
dear god do not become more chavvy, the last thing the UK needs is more chavs,
your country needs you! ...to be less chavvy!
oh and also you shouldnt change because some guy (and a chav guy at that) says you should do... especially if he tells you to becoome a chav too lol
+ chavs reallly arent at all attractive
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reader, Dani :) +, writes (9 November 2006):
I totally agree with Yos, chav's are not attractive at all, and why change to be with some lad who is only tryin to mould you?? and think of this... when your older and lookin through photo's of you now, would you rather have an individual look, or that ASBO many people strive to have these days in tracksuits and heavy gold jewellery? its not attractive and you'll probably be embarased when your older. sorry if ive went off the subject, just don't change to please a boy, hes not worth it!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2006): no guy is worth changing for. if he is not intrested in the way you are now than he is not worth it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2006): Hey.
This guy wants you to change for him and if you want to then that's up to you. But do you really want to go out with a guy who has basically said 'I'll go out with you when you change to suit my girlfriend type more'.
Think about it, do you want to go out with a guy that wants you to change for him? If he's like that now chances are he'd be dominant in a relationship, not good.
It's not a choice I would make, there's other fish in the sea and you're beautiful the way you are Hun XxXxX
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2006): Don't change for some guy who you'll probably go out with for a few weeks then dump. Find someone else who will like you for you, not the style you have.
Chavs are ugly anyway x
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reader, katzkitten +, writes (9 November 2006):
katzkitten is verified as being by the original poster of the question im not s geek btw ppl
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2006): Don't change nothing, absolutely nothing.Love who you are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2006): Tell him to get lost!!!! Be yourself, don't change because of someone. Have a backbone, stand your ground and only change things if and when you want. Take care xx
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reader, pica +, writes (9 November 2006):
Simple answer is never change to make someone like you. He doesn't want you for you, he wants you if you fits a certain image. What happens when he changes his mind again? Forget him. Meet some geek guys ;)
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reader, Yos  +, writes (9 November 2006):
 Oh no! Geek girls are 100 times more sexy than Chavs. Really. Don't do something silly like that because some guy (probably clueless) tells you what to do.
Geek = individualistic, smart, interesting, good conversation, bright future
Chav = ummm... juvenile detention centre?
Besides, any guy who says you need to change in order for him to date you isn't worth it. Find a guy who likes you for who you are. Don't compromise on that, it's a slippery slope at the end of which you'll find yourself living your life how other people want you to live... which is miserable (trust me).
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reader, helix +, writes (9 November 2006):
dont change anything about urself 4 a guy. if he doesnt like u the way u are hes not good enough 4 u.
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