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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can you tell if a guy likes you or is playing with your feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

26 November 2006 (F)

- how do you no if a guy likes you or playing with your feelings... (14 words)

Just started dating...how long to wait before having sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

26 November 2006 (F)

- How long should you wait to have sex with a guy that you just started dating... (16 words)

My friend told him I like him...what do I do? Wait for him or act on it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6351 days ago

26 November 2006 (?) - Okay, so i'm 15 and the guy i like is 16 (Jared). (i had a previous post concerning him and what to do). Well my friend told Jared that i like him. Now i don't know who's supposed to make the next move? Am i supposed to? and if so what should i do? or should i wait for him to ... (72 words)

She's 19 and a bit shy--I like her a lot and am wondering how she feels about me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6353 days ago

26 November 2006 (M) - hey, not really used to this but here goes, maybe someone can help! really, just wanted some advice, i'm 21 and there's a girl i like and have kind of been after for some time, i don't work with her or see her that often, but she lives near me and so i used to bump into her ... (336 words)

She wrote that she liked me back - now this older boy says she's his gf! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

26 November 2006 (M) - I'm 15 and I recently decided to email a girl in my year at school to tell her I fancied her and had done for a while, she email me back telling me that she quite liked me too, we kept sending each other emails until one day I got a email from a older boy claming to be her ... (107 words)

I want to travel but he wants to stay put - plus I now think he's cheating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6352 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - I have been with my bfriend for 2 years and dont know if there is any hope for our relationship as i wish to travel next year but he wants to get a flat and is not willing to wait. Should i put off travelling also i think he may be cheating any ideas on a good way to find out ... (78 words)

When do you stop giving a bj?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6353 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - Ok, just something I need to know about guys orgasms and cumming. Once they've cum is that it? I gave this guy a blow job the other day, and I'd been playing mind games and teasing him for like, 20 minutes beforehand and when I finally got around to blowing him he only lasted ... (75 words)

We have a long distance relationship - he hasn't called back in a week now! What happened?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - What happened to our relationship? I have been talking to this guy for a couple of months (long distance relationship). We see each other every other week -- either I fly there, or he flies here. We talk on the phone couple of times per day, everyday. This last time ... (149 words)

We're trying for a baby, but his sperm flows back out! Why is this happening?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - After sex with my boyfriend his sprem seems to just flow stright back out of me. It is really upseting him as we are trying for a baby. why does this happen? As it has never happened before with anyone else i have slept with.... (45 words)

We think his ex is faking that she has cancer! I fear he's trapped into that relationship out of guilt - help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6351 days ago

26 November 2006 (M) - Someone I know is being emotionally blackmailed online. He is split up with his wife and lives alone now. She is married, lives in the USA and he is in the UK. She says she has cancer and 'just wants to be friends' with him but to be honest we are not sure she does because ... (283 words)

A 15 y/o girl won't stop texting my 28 y/o boyfriend - and he won't stop replying! Could he be a pervert??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend is 28 and has been texting the 15 year old school girl who did work experience in his office. He says that her messages amuse him. He knows she has a crush on him and is flattered. Her messages have become more flirty. He wont stop replying as he says he doesn't ... (72 words)

Ooops! Sent my married friend, an email professing my love for him! I think I messed up badly-he has not responded!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - Five months ago, I met a man who was also my doctor. I'm not his patient now but we are still in touch via email. A few days ago, he called me to call off a formal engagement. He sounded cool on the phone, probably because his wife was nearby. We didn't have an afair or ... (183 words)

I over analyze everything! How can I stop doing this-it drives me insane!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

26 November 2006 (F)

- Okay, I have this problem where I over-analyse every situation. I just think too much. Like theres this guy I've fallen in love with were not together though and I'm pretty sure he likes me too well I say i'm pretty sure what I really mean is I KNOW he does. Both of us are too ... (165 words)

I'm 15 and my family called the police because I'm dating a 25 year old!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - Lets start off with the fact that i'm 15. the guy i like is 25... and if thats not a big enough deal, he's my cousin's ex-husband. Jis brother is dating my sister, so we started hanging out alot. and before we knew it, we fell for eachother. the rest of my family found out, and ... (151 words)

Am I in the minority because I've only dated one girl as a teenager?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

26 November 2006 (M)

- I read on here that dating at high school is the normality of life as a teenager. I am 18 and have only dated one girl and that wasn't even a proper relationship. Does that mean I'm not normal?... (39 words)

My partner of 5 years wants to repair things but still doesn't want kids!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - I previously posted when my partner of 5 years told me he wanted to end things as he loved me, but wasn't "in love" anymore. Since then, we have had a few difficult and emotional conversations - something I know he finds very hard and he has said he is suprised how much he has ... (230 words)

He only went 'half' in - does that mean I'm still a virgin?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6328 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - Yesterday me and my boyfriend of one year and 4 months have kinda had semi sex. But I'm not sure if I'm still a virgin. He didnt go all the way in, just a bit, so he didnt break my virginity. I bled a little, but I'm pretty sure he didn't break it. And he didn't cum in me. So ... (99 words)

Will my family disregard him because he's a muslim?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

26 November 2006 (F)

- I am in a li situation here! Need some advice! I have been kinda seeing a lad for a while, who is such a nice guy, he's kind, caring and recently told me he loved me (I didn't say it back as I dont feel that way) Only one problem... I come from a family where we kinda '... (185 words)

I like someone 39 years older than me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5854 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - I am 17 years old an i have very strong feelings for someone a lot lot older than me. I love him to death, the only trouble is, he is 39 years older than me. When we are together we have so much fun and he makes me feel safe and happy. Other people think this relationship is ... (74 words)

My long distance GF told me she was tempted to cheat on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

26 November 2006 (M)

- My long distance gf told me that she was tempted to cheat at a nightclub. She never actually cheated, but would have pretended it was me. We see each other once a month if we are lucky. She loves kisses and cuddles and always wants to feel me close. I am glad she was honest a... (118 words)

I'm dating someone else-but I cuddled up to him on the bus!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - It all started on the school trip. Me and this lad spent the whole day together. And on the way back on the bus coach, I cuddled up to him, we talked and he played with my hair and did all these things that made me smile! And i lay there realising i had totaly fell for him! The ... (112 words)

My ex bf broke it off but is mad/jealous when I am hanging around other guys! What's up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6347 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I recently broke up. He broke up with me and last night my friends and I went up to a popular bar. I went w/my best friend and her boyfriend(which is the ex's best friend) and my older sister and her friends, and we played pool for a few hours. Well, this guy ... (226 words)

My ex and my friend are dating! Should I confront him with my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

26 November 2006 (M) - My ex of like 9 months ended it with me!! she said she just didnt feel the same way anymore n how she loved me but not in love with me etc etc etc, the usual stuff. but now my like best mate n her r getting too friendly for my liking, surely they wudnt do anything. and they ... (135 words)

I have a great bf, but should I go back to my ex for the sake of our daughter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - I split up with my husband of 2 years, 2 years ago. I met another man who I had dated previously before i got married. we were and always had been in love so it seemed natural to continue. My problem is that I miss my husband (we have a young daughter together)and I know ... (96 words)

My friend is 13 and she's dating a 19 year old....is this okay?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - is it ok for my 13 year old friend to date a 19 year old?... (15 words)

I' m so confused by his behaviours! Are we friends or are we dating?? How does he feel towards me, now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6353 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - i just broke up with my boyfriend.he says he is not fit to be my boyfriend.he says that i m a good gf but he is not a gd bf.i try to convince him that he not a bad bf but then later on,i slowly accepted the fact.he say he does not want to call this break n hope to remain as ... (179 words)

I don't do well with women..I need to know how to date! Any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

26 November 2006 (M)

- I need help. I don't seem to do well when it comes to women. Fair enough I'm 18 and I've only dated one girl but I was fairly embarassing to be with, e.g. bad eating manners, the fact I'm a geek etc. but it was bad that she broke up with me by text and was leading me on the w... (86 words)

How can I make him trust me? Any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - how can i make him trust me? i met this guy on holiday this summer i've been seeing him snce then, but he doesn't want to get into a relationship because he doesn't trustme because of an incident that occured with one of his friends when we came back.i dont know what to do be... (111 words)

What does it mean..when he winks at you, for no apparent reason?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - ok this may sound like a really stupid and naive question but what does it mean if your been talked to by a man and suddenly for no apparent reason he winks at you (and its a really OTT wink to boot). is it some kind of joke i'm missing i really don't know. because this happens ... (70 words)

His time is near, he needs my comfort and love but he's gone distant. How do I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6353 days ago

26 November 2006 (M) - My b/f and I have been together about 20 months and we have been living together for the past year. When we first started dating he informed me about his medical condition and he has about 2 yrs left. I told him I would not walk away I rather love and lose him instead of not ... (215 words)

We met on a dating site, but his behaviour confuses me. Should I step back a bit?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6353 days ago

26 November 2006 (F)

- I need some help with a guy I recently met via a dating site. He contacted me on the site; we quickly got onto having very long phone conversations. I suggested we meet, and he suggested the next night but I wasn't feeling well. So he suggested the night after that (but ... (592 words)

Seeing my family and friends without him..makes him act strange. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6352 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - Any opinions out there? I have been dating my bf for 4 years. It's been an on off relationship, we split a few times and dated others then decided to get back together. It's also a long distance relationship but we get to meet up at least twice a month. I have noticed that when ... (170 words)

I know my gf likes to get her own way..I just didn't think she was this spoiled! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6353 days ago

26 November 2006 (M) - I know that my girlfriend is quite spoilt and likes to get her own way but i never knew she was that bad. As Xmas is approaching all she talks about is presents that she is buying people and its non-stop. It's okay if she talks about it occasionally but its every time we speak ... (237 words)

She's gay so am I awkward around her because of her sexuality?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - My partner left me back in august and i put an advert in my local classifieds for a female friend to go shopping with etc. Paulines reply came a week and a half later and we hit it off straight away. The thing is she told me in the first week that she was gay, i said i wasn't ... (192 words)

I can remember a time as children me and my brother kissed!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - I can remember a time when me and my brother french kissed he was 6 and i was 13, i feel really embarrassed when i remember this and am now 10 years older, i know this was wrong, and nothing has ever been mentioned between us and, not even a thought has occured since that day, ... (70 words)

I'm 15 he's 27 and my boss, he's shown an interest in me but I don't know what to do!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

26 November 2006 (F)

- hi! well...ive only been wking at my new job for about 2 months now and i got along with my boss...the problem is im 15 and hes 27...at the age of 15 it is not legal but i think that wen i turn 16 he may want to pursue a relationship... i may seem confident in saying that b... (304 words)

I'm cheating on my husband and don't know how to stop!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

26 November 2006 (F)

- i am cheating on my husband with one of our friends... it has been going on for the past three years. but we never had slept. we only kiss. but i dont know how to stop. it's like i am addicted to him... (43 words)

I am curious to know why he acted like he did!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6353 days ago

26 November 2006 (F)

- hi , does anyone know the answer to this one. have split with my boyfriend now, nut when i was with him, he used to get really trembly and nervy (not all the time , just sometimes) before we had sex, is this normal , part of the split was due to a guilt trip on his part (lo... (73 words)

First guy I like doesn't want us to do anything right now but the second one does, I don't know what to do!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6351 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - like *james* lives up my street but goes to a different school from me. Over the summer we got so close.I finally told him that i liked him and he said that he felt the same so i was like so should we start going out and he said not right at the moment because he couldnt see ... (175 words)

My girlfriend talks about her ex's almost daily, I'm not sure it's completely over!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

26 November 2006 (M) - Hi there, My girlfriend and I have had a wonderful steady relationship for 9 months now. I have noticed on and off that she talks about her ex-boyfriends/sex partners quite frequently (almost daily). To be honest it is starting to bother me. She says she is over them, but I... (64 words)

I met this sweet guy while I was on holiday and we still talk everyday, I don't know what to do!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6353 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - I went abroad this summer in Germany and hooked up with the sweetest boy. I thought I could let it go as a fling but it's been five months and we're still talking everyday (NYC to Stuttgart) and I've fallen for him but don't know what he thinks of it. I'm going to France this ... (99 words)

We used to talk everyday, now nothing!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6353 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - we used to talk everyday. now he is ignoring me! what happen?... (12 words)

I can't enjoy sex but I can when it's just me and porn!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - i am 44 years old and asking if is it natural for my age that i cant be happy having sex,but i can be more happi when i do masturbation while watching some porn video,do you think this is no back affects?hope to hear your adivce... (46 words)

He's left the country and I can't afford to call all the time, what do we do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - my bf left the country, its extrenmely difficult to communicate wth him callin is too expensive i have tried all ways, nth works.he is terribly upset wth it what will we do?... (32 words)

He doesn't seem happy in the relationship and seems to work round avoiding her so why stay with her??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - I have a good friend(male) who I have feelings for and him for me. But he has a girlfriend who is quite a bit older than him and who he lives with, so we have not allowed anything to happen, It wouldnt be right. I am keeping a bit of distance between us, I think it has upset ... (156 words)

I really like this guy but it seems once i got contact from him I don't hear nothing again for ages!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6352 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - hey guys, Im 17 and Iv had a crush on this guy (18) for a bit over a year now. Iv never had a bf before and im really inexpireinced on this stuff. problem is we are both REALLY shy! But once we get talking its fine! I only see him like once a month (at sporting type of... (204 words)

Should I date guys, I'm not really interested in? Am I a 'user' if I dump them after giving it a whirl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - I have recently got back on the dating scene but am finding it difficult. I always seemed to get dumped by the guys i really like and the ones i don't like as much are really interested in me.. Does this often happen or am i just unlucky? Also should i carry on seeing the one ... (84 words)

My bf treats me badly, so I met a nice guy in a chat room...should I meet him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

26 November 2006 (F)

- help me. I feel so terrible, I've done a terrible thing. My boyfriend and me have had our share of problems.. I feel like he ignores me and tries to control me. I have posted questions about our relationship on this website before. Last weekend, I was on holiday.... (192 words)

Need advice on how to make friends...people think I'm an idiot because I hardly talk! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

26 November 2006 (M)

- I have a problem. I'm 19 an I don't know how to make friends I'm taking a year out and I thought to myself it would be good for me as a person, socially and personally. The problem is that people at one of my jobs think I'm an idiot because I hardly talk and when I do it's jus... (80 words)

Caught my GF wanting to cheat on me by using a fake online profile! Now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

26 November 2006 (M) - Caught my GF wanting to cheat on me by using a fake online profile! Now what? I have the same situation but I am a guy. She is in South America but we are thinking about getting married and stuff and I made a fake profile and I seduced her and she accepted to go out for a dat... (142 words)

I wanna ask her out...I need some good dating tips! Help..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6351 days ago

26 November 2006 (?) - i'm 16. i fancy this 14 girl. we dont really talk, have her msn. we are all goin out next week to cinema and resturant all us mate's and she will be there too. i want to get her number. i also want to ask her out when i get to know her more in a few weeks. any ideas? i want to ... (95 words)

Attractive married boss flirts but I will never do anything with him! But I had a sexual dream about him..is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6316 days ago

26 November 2006 (F)

- Good looking attractive married boss with children I've caught him looking at me in a flirty way and make me feel stange as I would never do anything to split a family or have a go but I keep remembering it and had a sexual dream the other day, orgasm included any tips???... (54 words)