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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

How do I deal with my nervousness affecting my sexual abilities?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 556 days ago

2 November 2006 (M) - I have a friend with benefits, who I have been hooking up with for a short while. However, we have been very close friends for almost a year now. We are both very comfortable with each other, but I am extremely uncomfortable when we are doing anything sexual, but I don't want ... (179 words)

I'm skinny and want to impress this girl. Is it possible to get "six pack' abs in 5 days?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

2 November 2006 (?) - i'm 16. i have a close female friend who is also 16. we go to the same school. i have recently joined the gym as i am tryin to keep fit and help me gain weight. well i have a guest pass and i asked her to come. she accepted and told me she is free all week. than just after i ... (189 words)

My exes mate told me my ex still loves me but I have another BF now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - I have been with my bf for about 5 months now and im pretty happy although im still crazy over my ex bf we split up nearly 7 months ago and things have been tense ever since i started dating my new bf. Now last night i was in town and ended up hanging out with my ex and his ... (192 words)

This guy is in a gang and is hot and cold for me! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 556 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - I met a guy a while back now in the local pub and got on really well. We met up a few times mostly whilst out while drinking, but few times popped round 2 my house and stayed over. I went out one nite with my sister and he actually asked me out. He stayed the nite but then we ... (293 words)

He says he likes me but I know all he wants is sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - Im 15 years old and like an 17 year old he iss soo awsomee. he is just plain amazing. but im so confused he is saying he likes me but I know him to well to know im not good enough for him and all he wants is sex. I totally want to have sex with him but, then theres all my fr... (70 words)

I took a pill which stopped my period while I was on holiday, now I'm in pain!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 556 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - Hiya.. Whilst I was on holiday I took the 'Utovlan' pill which stopped my periods so I could go in the pool and basically enjoy it. Although, after I took the pill my periods are starting to hurt a lot more than usual where as before I went on holiday I sailed through them ... (71 words)

Is it realistic the think a guy is attracted to you if he nervously avoids you in public, but is warm and close in private??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - Is it realistic the think a guy is attracted to you if he nervously avoids you in public, but is warm and close in private. Avoids being seen with you outside to the point that he almost falls over himself backwards, yet lingers with you if he is on his own. We are both at the ... (301 words)

My BF doesn't want to be intimate with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - I have a boyfriend who is 35. We have been together for 8 and a half months. I like to be intimite quite a bit but he doesnt, he says its because his tired or that i pressure him too much. He is also very insecure and blames me alot for cheating when i know that i would never ... (96 words)

Been married for 18 years but we only have sex 1 or 2 times per year!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 556 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 18 years and he is truly my best friend. The problem is that he has no desire for sex. I've tried everything, and keep being turned down. He says he's just tired and doesn't have the energy. We have sex 1 or 2 times per year and it's ... (132 words)

I really want to ask him out but I've never gone out with anyone before!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - hey everyone.....i really fancy this lad. I want to ask him to meet me (kiss using the tongue) but im kinda nervous as ive never gone out with anyone or met anyone before. Should i ask him?... (37 words)

He said yes to me then got back with his ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - I had a crush on this guy in my school and i told my friend about it and at lunch she asked the guy out and he said yes. But not for two weeks cause he just got out of a relationship with his ex and needed some time to get over her. Now, halfway through the first week, he gets ... (95 words)

My BF's family thinks I am abusive to him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 483 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I got in a fight a few days ago. His parents tried to keep him busy so he couldn't call me or answer any of my calls. His sister said she thought I was violent and would 'abuse' him. I slapped him once when he basically said he liked asian girls more than he ... (137 words)

I get absolutely no attention from guys! What kind of woman do men really prefer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 479 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - What kind of woman do men really prefer? I get absoluty no attention from guys except for the occasional goofy guy who comes up to make me smile. They will stare at me, but never a single word. My bf gets load of attention after we decided to reinvent his look.I'm so happy for ... (281 words)

My BF doesn't spend much time with me - is it time to move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - hey hey Do i need to get a different boyfriend as the 1 i've got as he dont spend much tme with me! I love him loads but he just doesnt get alot of time 2 c me! ... (43 words)

My four friends had the same dream as me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - Hi i keep on having this dream about me and my ex boyfriend having a baby boy. Now my lucky number is 7. I had this dream 8 times already. My other four friends also had the same exact dream on the same night and they described the child it was the one i had and they saw my ... (73 words)

I told my BF a big secret - was it a mistake?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - In a relationship 5 yr only 20 now. I kept a secret for 2 years from my boyfriend and I couldnt keep it any longer so I told him. It was not my fault what happened I never wanted it to happen, it involved another lad nothing like it has ever happened again. Was I doing the ... (78 words)

My best friend flipped out because I danced with this guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 556 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - If I danced with a guy who asked me then why did my best friend flip out? Right after our dance was over she said "don't tell me u like him." Why wouldn't she let me decide on my own? He really likes another girl but that girl likes another guy so they wont be going out. I just ... (64 words)

I think about wanting an older man - is it just wanting what I never had?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 556 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together since we were 16, now soon to be 19. He's my best and only true friend. We've been through so much and are the same age(he's slightly younger). He's also been my only real relationship. He's helped me more then any friend and hurt ... (358 words)

Is this guy too hung up on his ex to love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - If someone says to you ‘I’m not sure if I am in love with you or not’ at the beginning of a relationship, do you stay in the relationship hoping that one day they will or do you break up? I have been fighting back tears for most of today because I don’t know what to do about ... (900 words)

I have HSV 1 - would people want to date me if they knew?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 556 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - Question: would people still date a person if they knew they had HSV 1? I have HSV 1, and am in a relationship, but i wonder if i break up w. my bf and start dating other guys, will they ever want to kiss me because i could give it to them? Thanks... (54 words)

I'm not a cheater buy my GF thinks I am after she saw I talk to my friends online!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 556 days ago

2 November 2006 (M) - Hello I have relationship about 4 years and before 30 min i broke up because my girlfriend found my messinger online with all my friends. There are some girls but nothing special. I love my girl but she is so jealous she thinks that im a cheater pls help me what to do ... im n... (71 words)

We broke up and he got a gf... Now he wants me back but I don't want him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - hey, one of my ex wants me back and i do not want to be with him, he broke up with me and soon found someone new and now he says he wants me back and it was a big mistake to break up with me in the first place. the thing is he really broke my heart when he ended it but we have ... (88 words)

I get homesick very easily. What can be done about this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - im 15 and when i stay out i get homesick its so embarassing what can i do to put an end 2 this ive tried ringin my parents at night and a photo but it just makes me worse or doesnt change it at all... (45 words)

He slept with my sister in the past - I don't think I can get over it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 553 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - I went to college and became friends with this guy, will call him Jim. I started dating this other guy, Phil. I talked to Jim about everything and he knew my relationship with Phil was not all that great. I used to stay over at Jim's and we'd talk all night. He had a crush ... (271 words)

I dumped her and now she wants to meet up! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (M) - i had a girlfriend for about 8 months and she was great. i really loved and we were really head over heels for ages. then after the whole absolutely crazy in love thing past it was still great but i realized she rarely had anything interesting or intelligent to say. i stayed ... (179 words)

I might be pregnant but I've been drunk in the past month! Will this affect the baby?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 553 days ago

2 November 2006 (F)

- Hello. I'm wondering how long or how much alcohol it takes to affect a fetus. I'm on the pill and I am late with my period now by two weeks. Last month was my birthday (I got drunk at my party - I'm in my mid-20's) and occasionally I have a few drinks after work (maybe 1 or... (208 words)

He turned sweet, then became bad again! I want him back but is it worth it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 556 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - I fell for this guy because he was a heartless bastard, a complete badboy and a bit of a womanizer. I like a challenge! He also had something that drew me to him. We went out for a month, and throughout that time he said he loved me and i was naive enough to believe him, even ... (260 words)

Why did she call us for her son instead of her son??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (F)

- my partners ex wife ring my partner to see where there 18 year old son were as he dident go home after work he stoped with us ... she said she had been up all night worrying about him but why didnt she ring her sons phone as it were swiched on and to me if you were that worryed ... (112 words)

I think my penis is too small and my erection may be abnormal - thoughts?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

2 November 2006 (M) - I am a 16 year old male, nearly 17 and my voice has broken and i have a small amount of hair on my body. But i think that my penis is too small and my foreskin doesn't retract when i get an erection. Is this normal?... (47 words)

I cheated, we split - now he's cheating on his pregnant gf with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 556 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - hi me and my ex were together 2 1/2 years and we have a 1 year old son but we recently split up as i cheated on him it was the biggest mistake of my life and i live with the regrets everyday but my ex has a new girl who is having his baby but recently he has just started coming ... (111 words)

What is the best way to try to win someone back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (M) - Hi All, rightly or wrongly i have decided to try and win my ex g/f back who dumped me. I have decided a cut off date to stop trying. What is the best way to try to win someone back? a) Total non contact so they see what life is like without you Or b) non contact no... (119 words)

I like this guy in college. Is it ok for a girl to ask a guy out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - theres a guy i like on my college course who is several months older than me. I do not want to rush into anything with him, I want to get to know him better first, but I want to do it without making myself look desperare. I like him a lot but i dont wana rush things. is it ok... (84 words)

He says he doesn't fancy men, but wants a mmf threesome and checks out guys! How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - Recently my boyfriend told me he wants a threesome - me, and another man. I told him no, and that it would bring out negative emotions in the relationship, but he insisted it was for the best. I asked him why he liked threesomes, and he said they're OK. I think he only... (161 words)

How can I help my bf with his smoking habits?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - I'm 21, and my boyfriend's 22. We've been together for 18 months now. Recently my boyfriend admitted to me "he smokes too much because he's stressed and he's stressed because he worries about smoking too much!" He says he has no idea what to do about his situation - how ... (60 words)

We made out and went out a few times - now she just wants to be friends! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (M) - Hello, Well, this is my situation. I have known a girl very distantly for around two years, we were previously both in very long term relationships, but I always admired her from afar, and had a very platonic email correspondence with her. Anyway, recently I split from ... (536 words)

She had anal sex with him, but won't with me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (M)

- Anal Sex my girlfriend had anal sex before i was with her she said it hurt so much never again but now i'm kinding of thinking well if she tried it with him why not with me am i being mean to think that? ... (49 words)

He made me get an abortion - now he's gotten another girl pregnant and she's keeping the baby!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - I am confused! My fiance and i have been together for 2 years i got pregnant a year in to our relationship i was excited about it,however when i told him he was not so happy ,he wanted to get married before we had any children.He told me it wouldnt be the right time for a ... (218 words)

Saw a text telling another woman he loves her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - My boyfreind and i have been together for 2 years a couple of weeks a go i went into hi9s phone and saw a text telling another woman that he loves her. I know he loves me, but sometimes when i say to him I LOVE YOU he doesnt even answer me,he looks at me and doesnt even repl... (112 words)

Why do I always need to make the first move? What does it mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 556 days ago

2 November 2006 (M)

- What does it mean when your partner is interested in sex but doesn't give any indication of it - just lays there waiting for you to make the first move!? I am starting to find it really taxing - it is like I have to be a mindreader to know when and when isn't the right time -... (80 words)

Ladies, I want to try anal sex but tell me...does it hurt??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 501 days ago

2 November 2006 (F)

- Girls,Just wanted to know whether anal sex hurts because i wanna try it with my new man!! Does it hurt more than having sex as a virgin?? thanx ... (29 words)

Don't think he noticed I was a virgin but should I tell him the truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 538 days ago

2 November 2006 (F)

- right, i was seeing this guy (i was his bootycall) when we first met i was a virgin. He asked me whether i was a virgin and i said no. The thing is i just wanted to have sex with him coz i liked him a lot and i knew sex would be painful and i wanted it done over with. Is i... (117 words)

What can a girl do to make her breasts grow bigger?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - what should a girl do for her tits to grow bigger?... (11 words)

He loves me and we have sex. But he says he's not ready for a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - pls help me. my bf of 1 yr broke up with me more than 2 months ago. he gave me many reasons, like he was busy with his studies in uni, i was too demanding etc. after breaking up he would still call me 4 times a wk and we would bump into each other or talk personally 3 days a ... (243 words)

Engaged but still in love with my ex!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (M) - Hi All, I am currently engaged with an NRI and have broke up with the girl i really love, we have been together for close to 2 years, she has been my best friend,my mom,my sister,my baby all times. She has started seeing other guys now and i have done a terrible thing b... (110 words)

Am I over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - If I really wanted my ex back, would I be missing him? This sounds strange, but we've been on and off since last December, he's given me the best times of my life, and I think I still love him, and know I want him back. But I don't ever look back on what we had and think 'I ... (64 words)

Is it true that even if you are no longer interested in your ex, you become jealous of their new partners?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - Is it true that even if you are no longer interested in your ex you become jealous of their new partners?... (21 words)

Am I misreading his signals?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - I was convinced that my ex still loved me (and so were people on this site) as there were so many signs that pointed that way, but I've found out he's broken up with his girlfriend now. Why has he not got in contact with me? I know he's been thinking about me throughout their ... (106 words)

Does this guy like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - i cant tell if this guy likes me. these are the signs that people say he does, but i cant be sure. he says he thinks about me during the day randomly and tries to stop but he cant, that he wants to know everything about me, that we are a good "combo" bc we're both a little ... (163 words)

Does time heal all wounds?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 556 days ago

2 November 2006 (M) - Dear Cupid, I'm in a tough situation. My ex gf broke up with me 1 and a 1/2 years ago after a short 6 month relationship(I became an alcholic, and a different person) and for the next six months we were "friends" (but always fighting, I was drinking and lying about it etc). I... (558 words)

Why does my boyfriend choose the worst possible times to propose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - Wedding Talk Weirdness! My BF of 8 years has brought up the subject of marriage a few times now. He often picks the wrong times to bring it up. Most often when I am in a bad mood and then I just clam up! I don't mean to do this it just happens! He picks the most unromant... (90 words)

How can I make it work with my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 558 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - Please help me, I really don't know what to do... My boyfriend and I were together for two years, we lived together, traveled together, planned a future together, but I couldn't deal with his anger issues and asked him to move out. He still wanted to work things out but I ... (721 words)

Why doesn't he want to commit?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 558 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - okay i'm giving up on this guy. We've been together for about 3 weeks now and we were closed to having sex. I would love to have sex with him but when I asked him about being boyfriend and girlfriend he said yeah,someday, I hope. I can't get turned on anymore when we hook up ... (165 words)

I'm 14 - how do I actually be a girlfriend to someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 558 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - I just realised that i dont really know how to be a a girlfriend! How do u be a gf? What do you do to make you be a gf? What kinds of things do you do to show your bf that? I'd anything! everything! i really want to be a good gf! (im 14)... (70 words)

Are very long distance relationships possible? I'd like to hear some success stories from people!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - Just wondering, how many people here have success stories regarding HUGE distances (like different countries)? Is it even possible?... (22 words)

How do I tell him I will want to spend more time together as newlyweds without him getting angry at me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 558 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - My fiancee has recently decided to take on two new jobs, on top of his daily 9-5 job he currently has. He has decided to open up a new business with a former coworker, as well as a new job as a promoter for monthly music events. Combined the jobs will take up the majority of ... (180 words)

I've fallen for someone 7 years older than me - I'm afraid of what people might say about him! Please help!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 539 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - When I was 16, my aunt introduced me to a guy who was 23. We hung out for the night and hit it off really well (not romantically). He's cute, funny, so sweet, and we had fun together. That was two years ago. Over the past two years we've become even closer friends. We have... (378 words)

My abusive ex may have changed and told my daughter he's getting married! Was I wrong to move on and to think he didn't change??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - ok here goes....I posted a few months ago on how my abusive ex had a new gf and they were soooo in love. Now he has asked our daughter if it's ok if they get married. I am just a mess!!! I am feeling like I missed out cus maybe he did change after all. It's been only about ... (91 words)

How can I open up to this girl and tell her I like her? I'm going to see her again soon!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (?) - i have been invited toa evenin out wid my mates. im 16. i fancy her cousin who is 14 n is also comin. da gurl i fancy i only met on my mates bday 4 bout 3hours n i say hi or smile 2her wen she walks by in skul.we will be bowlin n eatin. i really want her numba. how can i open ... (119 words)

I like this girl and she seems to like me - but she wants to get over her ex! What can be done??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (M) - well here it is a girl that i like /love is strugling to get over her x boy friends that she went out with 2 years ago. i know she reli likes me cuz she has told me this and we spent the other night at a friends and ended up getting with eachother and touching eachother in all ... (254 words)

My boyfriend has been ignorning me for a week! He emailed me and said he needs time to himself. What's going on?!?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - PLS I NEED HELP RIGHT NOW!!! backround: me and my bf have been going out for almost a month, and weve been really close untill last thusday or friday. all a sudden, he stops talking to me in school, stoping hanging out with me in school, ive felt like i dont even exist ... (228 words)