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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm cheating on my bf with a married man who left his "then' pregnant wife for me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6310 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - I don't know what to do, have been cheating on my bf for a year. I love my bf of 6 yrs to bits but he is so cold and unloving towards me. We moved in together a year and a half ago and were happy but he is away alot with work. The guy I am cheating on him with is married and ... (136 words)

I only tell him my true feelings when I drink..and this upsets him a lot!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - i am madly in love with *rich. rich has told me that he loves me too... but when i get drunk i start phoning him telling him that i want him so much... i can only tell my feelings properly when ive had a drink!! i never knew this upset him, until his brother *davey told me..... (73 words)

We flirt..have sex occasionally..we talk on the phone for hours. Is this a normal friendship between ex lovers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - Don't know what the status between me and my ex is! Are we just friends? We know each other inside out because of our long-term relationship, we do flirt a lot and occasionally end up doing sexual stuff, but we don't take anything we do very seriously. We're not very close in ... (83 words)

I pushed him away before he could hurt me. Now I can't stop thinking about him..advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - I finished with someone after a couple of months but I can’t stop thinking about him. Ever insecure, I pushed him away before he could hurt me. Although he asked to remain friends he hasn’t replied to texts, picked up calls or responded to my letter. He doesn’t owe me anything ... (573 words)

I'm a virgin and hes experienced so will this lad go off me if I slept with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - will this lad go off me if i slept with him? im a virgin and hes experianced? iv been seeing him on and off for a year and i know how he feels, but im scared he wil go off me cause im so unexperianced? x... (46 words)

Hooked up my brother's friend and now..my family is upset and my brother wants to beat him up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - I accidentally hooked up with one of my brother's friends this past weekend (we are 3 years apart in age, 2 grades apart in school) and it became a huge ordeal. My parents found out about it and so then my brother found out and got really upset with me. He told me next time he ... (153 words)

Do I suck at giving blow jobs? Literally? I can't get it right and the gag reflex sure doesn't help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - I have given a few people a bj now and have not been able to successfully get any of them off fully. They always have to intervene themselves and help out a little bit and then I finish it off--it just takes forever and I am doing all of the things people say to do etc. but it ... (82 words)

I've grown up around women who were cheated on...is this why I can't trust my bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - Hi, I am a bit confused with myself as i keep thinking that my boyfriend is cheating on me in my head (but in my heart i dont believe he would)! I have grown up around women being cheated on and i dont know how to handle this as sometimes my mind runs wild and i cant stop ... (149 words)

I like him but he's moving away in December! Should I still go for it and pursue him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6351 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - I have really liked this boy from college for quite a while. Im quite shy do I havent actually talked to him but we've had eye contact a lot and i think he likes me to. I decided to tell my friend about him and she said she also knows him and that her friend also likes him. She ... (109 words)

I love a lad who says he doesn't like me and I don't know what to do! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (F)

- theres a boy who i really like and we was together once but then it ended but we still liked each other after it but then when i gave him what he wanted he decided to say he didnt like me and he was sayin he used me and he hated me.. and when we became friends i did it agen cos ... (123 words)

Need advice on how to tell my gf, my real feelings for her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6351 days ago

27 November 2006 (M) - Dear cupid i am in my teens and me and my girlfriend have been going out for a couple of months. we both have feelings for each other but i dont think she has the same feelings as i have. how can i get her to now my real feelings for her and to make our relationship bet... (72 words)

I want him back but he has an online gf! Should I ask him if he's serious about her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6351 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - Hello, I am new to this. Currently my ex-boyfriend is infatuated with another in Washington, D.C. He lives in Ohio (same as I do). Our history is extensive, and he has been known to be fickle about everything, including women. He broke up with me a few months ago, claiming he... (332 words)

He calls me and says he loves me but he lies so much! How do I get over this pain?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - Can you please help! I was in a relationship for 3 years and he kept cheating and telling all these people he met that he was single and wasn't with anyone. Then I found out that he was having an emotional relationship with this woman in Florida and also told her that we ... (147 words)

Is dating guys from the internet a good idea?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

27 November 2006 (F)

- Is it a good idea to date guys on the internet if you find difficult to meet new people?... (19 words)

My bf is seeking attention by being dramatic about his health! How do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - I've been dating someone exclusively for 5 months and I have noticed that he is very dramatic about his health. At first, I was worried because he claimed to have severe headaches. He said doctors couldn't find anything wrong with him. However, now it's clear to me that he is ... (137 words)

My ex keeps the rose gave me for our first month anniversary on his dresser - why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - My ex bf brought me a rose dipped in real gold in our first month of our relationship. Well we broke up like a month ago and and i gave him back the rose that he brought me the night we broke up. (man it was so hard giving that up it was so pretty) Well his roomate and... (348 words)

My ex is dating a coworker when she said she doesn't want me to date anyone from work!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (M) - I and my ex mutually decided to split after 18 months in march, but we were still intimate up until the end of august. it was still like we were together we called each other more than 4 times a day every day and met up went out all the time she was still telling up until the ... (338 words)

She's not told anyone about our relationship - can someone really value their privacy that much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

27 November 2006 (M) - Does anyone else see something odd/wrong with this ... My girlfriend (long distance) hasn't outright told her sisters/brother that she has a boyfriend. Even when I went down to visit her. At the time, she told me that she valued her privacy ... but ... even to her ... (173 words)

My ex and I started over, but she cheated on me! I don't know what to do. Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6274 days ago

27 November 2006 (M) - Hi, I've never posted to something like this, but I find myself at a loss. I have been in a relationship for the last 3 years with a woman I love very much. For the first 2 years, things were quite good. About 6 months ago, we broke up...it was on her terms, however I... (817 words)

How can I stop myself throwing myself at men? I feel so ashamed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - How can I stop myself throwing myself at men? Everytime Im out I become a different person. I have to be the centre of attention with all men and I push myself onto them, kissing, cuddling and just not leaving them alone. Im not getting myself a reputation for being desperate ... (174 words)

I'm 40 and have yet to fall in love! Has anyone else felt like this??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - Hi, im a 40 yr old woman, have had a few long term relationships, and am in one at present for the last 2 yrs, but i never feel completely settled, i feel we're more friends than lovers. I have liked the guys and the guy im going out with now but have never experience the ... (116 words)

My brother's best friend likes me but doesn't want to date b/c it'd be awkward for him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - I have liked a particular boy for sometime and he finally admitted to liking me. However he won't go out with me because I am his best friends sister. He says he would have to juggle my brother and me and thinks it might be awkward. What do I do to prove it won't be awkward ... (71 words)

I like her but she doesn't really know me - what should I do?

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27 November 2006 (M) - i have had a crush on this girl at my school and i really like her but she hardly knows who i am and what do you think i should do ... (33 words)

My bf's friend accused him of being with me for sex! Now I'm worried I'm being used!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - Hi, My new boyfriend (of 4 months now) told me at the weekend that he had fallen out with one of his best mates. Apparently when they were out last week his mate was saying that he is only going out with me cos im the only person who wants him and will sleep with him. And tha... (243 words)

I texted another girl, but wasn't being flirty at all - my gf found out and now she won't talk to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (M) - Ok, so me and my girlfriend are after breaking up after 2 years together. Everything was fine until I went out one night 3 weeks ago and met a girl I know pretty well. She was pretty drunk and we were talking for ages and then I went to get a cab home. She got into the taxi ... (204 words)

I exposed everything and more about my ex-husband to his new gf! Will they break up now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - hi i was on to u all before about my husband leving me for a girl 15 years younger than him.well i think i done a foolish thing yesterday . i was on the phone to him knowing he was down the country with her house hunting .oh yes thay got a house and are moving into it ... (431 words)

He liked me, found out I liked him, and is now avoiding me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (F)

- hey all cupids, i don't know if any of you will remember but im the girl that put a post on here a few weeks ago about the boy that was being nasty to me then nice . you lot told me that he liked me which i later found out he did. he recently found out that i liked him to but ... (82 words)

He came in me, but I think I got it out. Can I still get pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - I am 22 years old and me and my boyfriend had sex last night. When he stopped he told me that he did come inside me but it was just a little bit. I got right up and went to the bathroom. I may have gotten it out. But would I still get pregnant?... (54 words)

Anyone have experiences with golden showers?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and i like to watch porn, while in the sex shop recently he bought one on golden shower porn, he mentioned he would like to try this out on me as it is one of his fantasies. We always talk about what we would like to do to each other but is this strange?? Anyo... (71 words)

I tried comfortin him after his sister's death but he says I made it worse! Now we're living apart - please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - my boyfriends sister died 2 months ago although i was there for him thru everything he says i made things worse a few weeks ago he started drinking two nights the weekend and just leaving me at home coming in at all hours im 7 months pregnant and we are now living apart he says ... (81 words)

He was holding her at a club - I went mental and now we might break up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - Hi everyone, I need help and quick! My partner was in a club last night holding hands with a girl and holding her, but he claims they are just mates. I saw this and went mental and now we're on the verge of splitting up! I want him back but i don't want his friend getting in ... (113 words)

I don't know if our relationship is over for good. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend about 2 weeks ago told me that he wasn't sure what he wanted anymore and that he needed time. He is 30. I am giving him this time. But, I am so confused. He told a friend of his that he wants me to be more independent. I totally understand that and am totally ... (93 words)

He has been ignoring me for a couple days - I think he thinks I'm cheating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - ok so iv been with my boyfriend for three weeks n i do admit i love him but for the last couple of days he hasnt said a word to me he wont even go near me i was ment to be going to the local shopping centre with him and a few friends but i went before he came for me so i think ... (114 words)

Is it too soon to live together? We need to decide this week!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - Hello people, I was wondering if anyone could give some advice on moving in with their partner? I have been seeing my boyfriend for around 4 months and just before we started seeing each other, he had put in an offer on a flat. I have also just moved into my own house two ... (222 words)

What are some good pet names for guys?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - anyone got any suggestions as to what to call a guy? he calls me sweet, hot stuff, gorjus! but i dnt like 2 call him hun or babe, cus they sound too girly! i quite like tiger... but other suggestions would b gr8! thanx... (51 words)

How can I get my bf to be more open?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - I really don't know what to do. I think my bf is sly behind my back. I'm up front and honest and yet it takes him ages to tell me stuff, which i consider to be important. Recently he mentioned a conversation he had with his ex over one week ago, yet we spent most of that ... (208 words)

She cheated on me at uni and says not to worry about it happening again - but I'm still going mad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (M) - I have been with my gf, lets call her 'X' for a year and a half - we are both 19!! Shes recently went to uni, where within the first 3 weeks she kissed another guy, then waited two weeks until she came home for my birthday to tell me. I admit that we had been having our ups and ... (182 words)

They stop being my friend when I don't want to be their girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - many guys come around me for relationships but i don't give them a listening ear. but anytime a boyfriend of mine ask for a relationship,i fight with them and that would be the end of the friendship. what should i do?... (43 words)

My friends all have relationships..but not me! I feel humiliated..what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - all my friends are in a relationship except me and when i'm in their midst,i feel humiliated and i have always have that dream of having my own guy when i'm about finishing my course in school.what should i do... (40 words)

Ex fiancee left me for a friend and both of them still play with my emotions. Why are they doing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (M)

- Dear Cupid, My ex fiancee recently split from me after almost 5 years and jumped straight into a new sexual relationship with someone i thought was a friend. It hurt but im moving on however they feel the need to play mind games and toy with my emotions knoing how much ... (158 words)

Married with two kids and no libido due to lack of energy! Can you help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - HI, i'm a married 23year old with two kids. Ever since i had my kids i can't seem to orgasm or get excited with my husband. I love making love with my hubby but i just don't get aroused, also sex seems a little boring and by the time we go to bed for the evening i can't be ... (78 words)

Travel anxieties..never been away from home before-any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (F)

- Ok, not totally about relationship probs buit hopefully some of you guys can help I wanna go away for a night this week I have never really been away from home before and i feel really nervous about the whole thing It will be the furthurest iv ever been from home before and ... (114 words)

A very close friend says she treasures me more than her bf! what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (M) - I have a friend whom I have become very close to.We are very close that we some times find ourselves kissing and fondling!The problem is that she has a boyfriend who thinks we are moving out. I really want them to be happy together but I sometimes feel jealous of them.Worse ... (79 words)

We broke up-he said he didn't love me. So why is it..I feel he still loves me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - You know how people say that you will know when your in love and when someone loves you........?! Well my bf and i just broke up and he told me that he dont love me and that he just wants to be friends for right now why is it that i feel that he loves me? The thing ... (268 words)

Am i still depressed even though I take medications? What's going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - I sleep in most of the day I find my life as nothing that i want to do. I'v gained some weight and i don't even like it but before i was to skinny. When i was pmsing i was upset more than usual. Am i still depressed even though I take medications or is it the medications? Tell ... (66 words)

He made a statement that has me confused...read it and tell me what you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - What does a guy's statement like this mean....... " i dont think that i could ever love her as much as she loves me" im so confused ... (33 words)

Now he has been thinking and wasn't sure he liked me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - Ok so I like this guy and according to his friends he liked me too. We hung out a lot and he even put his arm around me and held my hand while we watched a movie with a bunch of his friends. Yet two days later I went to his school's hockey game with him and a bunch of our ... (97 words)

It seems no-one really sees me for who I really am

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (F)

- I'm 23, I broke up with my boyfriend a year ago now. I have been single and getting along with my life fine up until a few months ago. It feels like my confidence had deflated into nothing. I'm not sure of myself and the decisions I make. I feel lost and lonely but anytime I ... (170 words)

He complains that I'm quiet

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - I'm 17 (18 in May), and my boyfriend I recently started having sex. Now, he complains that I'm quiet and I don't do anything. What can I do to show him I enjoy it, or to get more involved?... (39 words)

We're not able to "fit together"

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27 November 2006 (M) - alright, here is a question: My new partner and I recently tried to have intercourse. However, she is a small girl and I am well endowed. We simply were not able to "fit together" I have had only one sexual partner before this, and had no problem what so ever, what can we d... (56 words)

She thinks i still don't trust her, it might be over between us because i can't trust her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (M) - I'm in a long distance relationship with a girl ... I've known her for about 3 years. Our actual relationship didn't start till about a year ago. But, I think I have some trust issues with her because of an incident that came up. One time, I logged into her e-mail account ... (398 words)

The lipstick on his collar looked suspicious...what do you all think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - With my b/f for a year. One night we were lying together on the couch and the lower collar of his white t-shirt i see a straight line thats about half an inch. To me, it looked like lipstick that wasn't mine. (It wasn't bright red or anything so its hard to describe on the ... (558 words)

He drinks and hurts me so we broke up! But he calls all the time--what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

27 November 2006 (F)

- I need help I broke off the relationship with this guy after a year of dating because he starts drinking an tries to hurt me bad and it happen like 3 time and I told him I cant take it any more I no he loves me but he dont no how to handle his drinking and I dont want him to ... (175 words)