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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Readers...Just out of curiousity, what is your perfect mate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

11 November 2006 (F) - To any reader, Just out of curiousity, what is your perfect mate? or, what qualities do you look for when it comes to looking for someone? personality, humor. -- other than those. -Curious cat... (44 words)

It seems everyone, is a cheater!! Is there anyone out there who still has any morals?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 539 days ago

11 November 2006 (M) - posted 11-11-2006 10:13 PM -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- My life has been full of shocks lately. I've litterally just found out that an older lady friend of mine went to a hen night. The stripper there g... (181 words)

She has a real bad guy for a bf! She deserves someone better..what can I do as I really like her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 547 days ago

11 November 2006 (?) - I was recently introduced to a beautiful girl who is also really nice although we haven't spoke too much we hit it off pretty well. However she has an on/off boyfriend who is a bad guy he even aggressively grabbed her at one point. What should i do i have strong feelings for ... (62 words)

My parents found out I had sex with my ex bf and now..they won't let me see him! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 491 days ago

11 November 2006 (F) - I am 15 and my parents found out I had sex with my ex-boyfriend and now they won't let me see him or even talk to him, I am so upset and so hurt but they don't realise that by pushing me away from him only makes me need and want to see him more. I am head over heels in love ... (124 words)

I don't trust my pretty gf as I think she's going to cheat on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

11 November 2006 (M) - i have a girlfreind who's really pretty and she fancys other people as well as me and i dont trust her because i keep thinking that she is going to cheat on me with one of them... (37 words)

My friend likes this boy but he likes me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

11 November 2006 (F) - my friend liked this boy but the boy now likes me and i dont no what to do.... (18 words)

I told her how I felt about her...I think she hates me, now! How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

11 November 2006 (M) - hi im a 19 year old guy who feels really guilt ridden about liking a girl and admitting he liked her as the results of this haunt him to this very day. I liked this girl for a really long time and finally decided to let her know how I feel, I felt pressured to tell her (pe... (132 words)

We are friends but had sex last weekend! Can our friendship survive this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 537 days ago

11 November 2006 (F) - i have been friends with a boy for two years last weekend we got drunk i ended up stayin at his house and we had sex. can our relationship go back to the way it was?... (36 words)

I thought our first meeting was a bit awkward but it went well..he doesn't think so! So what should I do, now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

11 November 2006 (F)

- Been talking to this guy online. We are both 14. We met today at the shops there were a few akward quiet moments but i think it went ok for a first meeting. However when i spoke to him after online i said was 2day ok? and he said we dont get on very well do we all we did was ... (97 words)

We aren't compatible..we have different goals in life..so why do I wnat him so bad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 547 days ago

11 November 2006 (F) - I recently ended a two year relationship. I few weeks ago, I slept with one of my ex's friends. I know that this man and myself are not that compatible. I can't figure out why I want him so much when we clearly are not a very good match. We have different religions and opposite ... (147 words)

Broke up with this guy based on little things that didn't add up...did I do the right thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

11 November 2006 (F) - Okay, i've been seeing this great guy for about a month now. I just got out of a 2 year relationship about 3 months ago. I'm not sure if i'm not ready to date or not but I just ended things with the new guy based on little things that "added up".I think he's amazing and we got ... (92 words)

Scared she'll reject me if I approach her for a date!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

11 November 2006 (M) - I'm a second-year student in college, and I'm finding myself becoming very attracted to a girl in my physics class. The problem is... I really don't know if she has any feelings towards me! It's very hard to figure out... She's very fun to be around and to talk to, but I d... (276 words)

He treats me badly! But I don't think I can love another guy...please help me understand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

11 November 2006 (F)

- Hi! Am really having a hard time...the thing is after all what I've been through I realized that I choose wrong and eventually it turns against me and I get to be the 1 tht suffers! Anyways 2 cut it short, I've had a bf since Febr. and we've been going out everyday, we got... (838 words)

Broke my finger when I punched a wall! How am I going to make the volleyball team, now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

11 November 2006 (F) - hi my b/f and i got into it really bad and i punched the wall and broke my finger volleyball is coming up and if i dont make the team he will break up with me and my mom will be mad at me . what do i do?? ... (51 words)

She dumps all her problems on me and I'm sick of it! Any tips on what I should do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

11 November 2006 (F) - Hey guys. I have a 'friend' that rings me everynight telling me her problems. The thing is, it takes up my whole night and I don't want to tell her because how can I say that to someone who has rang me for advice. I'd introduce her to dearcupid but she doesn't have the... (280 words)

Do women act oddly when they find out their bf is a virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

11 November 2006 (M)

- do women act oddly if their partner tells them they're a virgin like in my case - me?... (18 words)

I always think my bf is thinking of other girls! What should I do to get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

11 November 2006 (F) - Help!!! i always think my bf is checking out other girls and when he sees girls he's had a past with, i always think he's thinking about what they did together. even when it's just me and him i sometimes think he's thinking about other girls HELP!!!... (47 words)

How do you know if a girl is leading you on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

11 November 2006 (M)

- How do you know if a girl is using you (e.g. she's leading you on)?... (15 words)

I have this problem..I want to snog every guy I lay eyes on. What is wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 547 days ago

11 November 2006 (F) - hi, im 15 and i have a massive problem! i want to snog every guy i see, i dont no why but when i see a girl kissing a guy ( even if i dont no them ) i automatically feel jealous and want to push the girl of him and kiss him myself. Once my guy mate came round my house and as ... (108 words)

Coping with grief at the loss of my Dad. Any advice to help me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

11 November 2006 (F) - i'm only 13, and lost my father in a very very hurtful way, he was the first coxwain on the lifeboat and habour master, he saved so many lifes, he was my hero, i lost him on april 5th 2004, him and his best friend drowned saving lifes, but his body wasnt found untill the 6th, i ... (291 words)

Should I shave 'down there' before my bf and I take things further?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

11 November 2006 (F) - okay, so this is my question. my boyfriend and i have been at second base, but were not going further than that right now. and i was just wondering, should i shave *down there* or not, or how much or something. please help. 3 ... (44 words)

Is it possible...for nerds to date the attractive girls?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

11 November 2006 (M)

- I'm 19, I'm at university and I'm a nerd. I've never kissed a girl (proper kiss) in my life, let alone have sex with a girl, and when I go out with friends at night to clubs, I have very little chance of getting a date with a girl as I can't dance at all. My question - is it ... (84 words)

This on/off situation with is screwing with my head! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

11 November 2006 (F) - I'm 16 years old and I've found the guy I want to spend the rest of my life with. We had an amazing relationship and a deep understanding of eachother. Unfortunately neither of us are mature enough to keep an adult relationship going for longer than 4 months (we've been on and ... (216 words)

I don't know if I can take being dumped again. Should I take him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

11 November 2006 (F) - my ex bf dumped me 3 months ago. for 2 months ive been begging asking him to come back, promising him i'll change. i'll stop being demanding and controlling if he comes back.(reasons he dumpd me). but slowly ive moved on. btw im 17 he's 18. this month ive stopped chasing ... (249 words)

He thinks I am always lying and he's paranoid! Should I break up with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

11 November 2006 (F) - I live with my boyfriend, I love him, but I can't be with him anymore. Lately he's been acting crazy. Accussing me of doning terrible things. Whether it's having orgies when he's not home to doing hard drugs with our friends. I can't handel his paranoia anymore. No matter what ... (162 words)

My past was wild but I have changed. My bf wants to know all about it..do I tell him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 545 days ago

11 November 2006 (F) - Hi ! I am having some troubles in paradise....;) I have a very deep and meaningful relationship with my bf. We are thinking of getting married soon. The thing is, recenlty I told him about how, about 6-7 years ago I was a completely different person, dating a lot of guys etc. ... (157 words)

I allowed my family to demean my wife in the past! How do I show my wife I am sorry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

11 November 2006 (M) - my wife and i are going through a bad patch. she found out two yrs ago that i have slagged her off and allowed her to be slagged off on numerous occasions by my mother and sister who have never liked her or accepted her from when we met. i dont know why i have given my family ... (161 words)

We dont talk and sex is getting rare! How can we get this back on track ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

11 November 2006 (F) - Me and my fiance have been together for over 2 years now and been living together for 1 year and a half. We were friends for about 2 years in other relationships prior to getting together. Now, we own a house, car, dog, cat.... and I lost my job in june. Financially I'm ... (296 words)

I ejaculate and remaib hard, is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

11 November 2006 (M) - Hi Im 19 years old, I have a problem, i don't know what to call it, the problem is that no matter how much i ejaculate my pennis will still be hard... but the problem is that I ejaculate in aproximately 5 to 7 minutes and I can ejaculate from 15 to 20 times..I want to... (82 words)

In a relationship, but really like someone else, I cant dump my girlfriend she will be devastated!!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 173 days ago

11 November 2006 (M) - In a relationship, but I really like someone else. I have a girlfriend of almost 3yrs and I like another girl at work, call her Alexa. I have gone out to lunch with Alexa a few times we definitely flirt and tease each other all the time. I really want to take her out on ... (109 words)

We agreed to contact, but he keeps texting me. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

11 November 2006 (F) - , Need some advise please. I have a guy in my life. we live in 2 separate cities. Weve been texting, talking and e-mailing everyday. I started to feel that he was backing of, especially after i asked him what was happening with us. He continued to text every day, but... (272 words)

We have been together 5 years and our sex life has gone totally downhill!! Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 547 days ago

11 November 2006 (F) - I am sexually frustrated. My boyfriend and i have been together for almst 5 years. I must admitt that our sex life wasnt anything to really brag about but now we have no sx life at all. It started to go don hill when i had to initiate having sex. Now he just tells me no or ... (202 words)

What do I give my rich boyfriend for his birthday?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

11 November 2006 (F) - heyy my boyfriends birthday is in a few days and i have know idea what to get him we've been oen out 6 months but he has a lot of money and i know his gifts going to be really good for my birthday whats some sweet ideas for his birthday that arnt too expensive he's 15 and he is ... (75 words)

Am I wasting time waiting to find out if guy fancies me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

11 November 2006 (F) - I met a guy at a friend's wedding. He was really nice and easy to talk to; at the end of the dinner, he asked for my Email so we exchanged addresses. The thing is, he lives in another city around 5 hours where I live, but his parents are here, so he comes around twice a month. ... (308 words)

What do I do when hes not cheating, but is lying about things I ask him not to do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

11 November 2006 (F) - what do i do when he is not cheating, but when he is lying about things i ask him not to do.... (22 words)

She was part of his life for years after he and I met..What other things has he lied about? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 545 days ago

11 November 2006 (F) - Hi, I've been in a relationship for the past 15 going on 16 years . The gentleman and I have an 8 year old son and we both had 1 child each when we originally got together. Recently we have been having a lot of problems in the relationship. It started when a woman called h... (282 words)

My friend has no self esteem, others jibe but he takes it to heart, I want to make sure he doesnt get depressed over it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 547 days ago

11 November 2006 (F) - my friend has no self esteen! and i dont know what to do about it. my friends like to tease him alot, because hes an easy target, but no one actiualy trys to be mean! we all tease each other alot! and some of it gets mean, but hes the only one to takes it like super serio... (248 words)

Im 18, just found out she's 15, is this gap too much ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 527 days ago

11 November 2006 (M) - I just turned 18 on monday 6th november and i just met a girl at a gig on Friday who looked like she was at least 17 only to find out she is 15 (16 in janurary) seem to get along fine and everything got her number and stuff, i really like her personality, attractive and amazing ... (133 words)

My parents are overprotective, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

11 November 2006 (F) - help i am nearly 18 and i have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now and and my parents are still overly protective. they wont let me sleep at his or him sleep at mine and tehy wont let us go on a little overnight stay away from home. i am starting to feel really agitated and ... (131 words)

Our relationship isn't what it used to be, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 548 days ago

11 November 2006 (F) - Well... me and my boyfriend have been dating for 9 months... this is the longest relationship iv'e ever been in. We have been "taking breaks" thoughout this relaionship though. For the last couple weeks i have been feeling different about him. I feel like we arent talking ... (131 words)

I have doubts she is my biological daughter..can this teen girl refuse DNA testing even when the courts order her to have it done?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

11 November 2006 (M) - in the past 18 months i have real strong reason to believe one of my children is not mine i have paid csa or allowance for 12 years. Lots of issues have arose, but also i have blue eyes my x has blue eyes and the girl has dark brown eyes.A geneticist says this is impossible. ... (100 words)

Do the breast enlargement tablets really work ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 544 days ago

11 November 2006 (F) - I just want to find out if anyone has taken these breast enhancement tablets that are available just to see if they actually do work and if there are any catches with them? Also have many people who are on the contraceptive pill noticed their breasts getting any bigger?... (49 words)

We've been together for 1 year and only kissed, what's next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 548 days ago

11 November 2006 (F) - i have been going out with my boyfriend for about a year and we only got as far as kissing and want to know what i should do next?... (29 words)