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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What do couples do other than have sex??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 November 2006 (F)

- i havent seen my boyfrind in a few weeks and its still quite new, hes in the navy and is away alot so time together isnt much. i need ideas as to what we can do. first off we seem to be nervous and it take a while to relax into each others company, and we waste what little t... (77 words)

Is he trying to break if off or get me to do it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6362 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - Is he trying to break if off gently? After three years and much talk of a future together including marriage; my BF has gone to live abroad for work reasons ; for the past six months he has been very detached sexually and emotionally ; never wanting to kiss or cuddle; never wa... (212 words)

I'm in love with my teacher but this is different!!

This question has 46 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - hey , i know there are lots of questions on here about people being in 'love' with teachers. But ive been mad over a teacher for 3 years now and i know so much about him that he has grown to be an obsession n im truely head over heels over him...plz dont say its a crush...i ... (445 words)

He's flirting but what about his girlfriend??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6362 days ago

23 November 2006 (F)

- Ok So Theres This Guy At School Which I Think Is REALLY Cute But He Has A GF But The Thing Is Sometimes On MSN He Say "Your Fit" or "Buff Thing" Etc.. And Then Goes Offline. Is He doing This As A Joke Coz Hes Really Popular And Im More Of A Quiet Girl But I Do Have Alot Of ... (125 words)

He always has a problem with my friends, is he a lost cause?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6362 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - Things are a bit rocky with my boyfriend. Since March we've split up twice but always got back together after a few weeks. When we are together we get on really well and i love him to bits but we always argue about the same thing - he always puts my friends down. Either ... (168 words)

She has turned into a nightmare, it's driving me insane!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

23 November 2006 (M) - My fiance and I have a little boy aged 5 months. He's a lovely little lad and I love him to bits........ Trouble is the fiance - she has turned into a nightmare. I find myself treading on eggshells round her she freaks about the tiniest little things and its driving me round th... (153 words)

We're from two different worlds, is it worth another go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6362 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - After several years of dating the player type of man, and getting severely hurt...I finally started dating someone who was serious about me. However, we are from different cultures, and I can't help but feel he is less of a person than I (we are the same age, but he has done ... (394 words)

I am a teen and I am very moody Is it because of hormones?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6362 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - hi im 16 and u know teenagers have 'loads of hormones running through their bodies' and stuff. well i dont really understand what this means. i mean, does it mean that if you fancy someone then u will fancy them more cos u have a lot of hormones or something? i really dont ... (110 words)

I'm 16 and I am 5 ft 6 inches. Do you think I will have another growth spurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 November 2006 (M) - Hi, my birthday is in May, and Im 16 at college. Im about 5ft 5- 6 and my parents were shorter I want to know if I will still have a growth spurt? I feel like I have only had one. Other people have really shot up. Younger than me too. I havent had any growing pains after that - ... (107 words)

Lately, she hasn't wanted to have sex with me! Is she still attracted to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

23 November 2006 (M) - Hi there, im 18 and my girlfriend is 17 (both over the age of consent in great britain) we have been going out for 3 months and have been seeing eachother on a daily basis for 2 to 3 hours a day after school. we have had sex, lately i have noticed that she no long... (187 words)

I love him so much I have considered 'stalking' him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - im so in love with this bloke i have consided stalking him! is this back im still considering it?... (20 words)

I need to get over him, I dont want to, but i have to! Its proving impossible..help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6362 days ago

23 November 2006 (?)

- hey im 17, i seriously need to get over my ex! when we went out everything was perfect, and i fell in love with him. he told me he loved me too and that there was no other girl out there he could see himself with, but it wasnt long untill everything fell apart, like we didnt ... (305 words)

I like this guy from my badminton club..but I've run out of things to say to him! Help me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - hi, im friends wiv this boy and he goes to my school. he also goes to my badminton club and i have known him for about 6 years! we r both 16 and when ever i see him all i can think of to say is ru going to the badminton club tonight. i have run out of things to say to him co... (174 words)

I'm in love with her but should I try it on with her cousin instead?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

23 November 2006 (M) - hi im in love with one girl, but i dont believe i will ever be with her. Its just i dont think she feels the same and never will, no matter how hard i try but i like her cousin and she loves me is it wrong to try things with her cousin when im still in love with her? what shall ... (81 words)

18 months into our relationship and I feel like a kept secret!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - i have been dating a guy for 18 months, i have never met any of his family, even while doing a car boot sale his parents were there talking to him and he never introduced me when i asked if they knew who i was he said no sure they have never seen you before. I have told him ... (168 words)

The doc took blood tests but I have been smoking pot - will they still take me seriously if they find out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - I'm ill at the moment and the doctors have taken blood tests to try and work out what's wrong with me. I think It's to do with depression as I've never felt this low before, and as a result I have been smoking weed occassionally. Will this show up in a blood test? Will they ... (62 words)

Saw my ex, gave him a blow job, and he still wants to talk - does he want me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - Me and my ex are friends, but he called me to meet up yesterday, and it turned out he'd split with his girlfriend. After a lot of flirting he ended up kissing me and from there it went to nipple licking etc. He asked for a blow job, which I gave him. He told me that he missed ... (218 words)

He cheated on me twice then asked his friend to tell me, it was over! I still feel for him though and I want to know why he did this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - About a month ago, I was 'dumped' by my 1 year boyfriend. He has told his friends he has cheated on me twice, and his friends told me. I am absolutely appauled. Even so, I still feel something for him. He has not spoken to me since the break-up, and I have not been out publ... (168 words)

I've asked her out twice but she keeps saying no, but i really want her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 November 2006 (M) - there is a girl at my school and i want to go out with her, ive fancied her for a while now and ive asked her out twice both ending with the bad word no. i want to show my love for her but if i do and she says no i dont know what to do.... (57 words)

I have no desire for my wife whom I love dearly! I don't know what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6362 days ago

23 November 2006 (M) - I'm a married 26 years man and I don't have desire for sex sometimes for weeks knowing that i love my wife so much. and when i sleep with her i reach orgasim fast and i don't know what to do.... (42 words)

If my wife leaves the marital home do I have to let her back in?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 November 2006 (M) - I have 2 children, if my wife leaves the marital home do i have to let her back in.... (19 words)

We had problems, he used to do drugs, I cheated on him but he still wants me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - we have been on this relation for a 6yrs now.because of this we get delayed to get married.but he loves me very much.but 2 yrs back he has an affair that he told me,and have a kid also.beacuse of this our relation had gone apart for sometime.at this time he used to take ... (170 words)

He thinks our relationship is make-believe

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now. We are very close. We use to talk about marriage and having kids, not seriously, but just in a sentimental kind of way. Then one day, he tells me that realistically he thinks we have no future. He said he doesn't ... (248 words)

Everytime I talk to her she takes it the wrong way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - I just want to try this out before I register. I am having a problem and I am not really sure what to put it under. I will try to explain it as best I can. I have a "friend", well I am trying all I can to be friends with her. Without saying more, I just want to say, I have ... (260 words)

Should I meet with my ex again even though she is now married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 November 2006 (M) - I've just recently met up with an ex of mine a short time ago. It's been awhile since we were together and i still have feelings for her. The problem is that she is married with 2 children. She wants to meet up again in the near future. I had a great time with her and i ... (81 words)

How do I get my erection back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

23 November 2006 (M) - I am 29 and married before two months. Every thing went well for two months. First my wife was not so interested in sex due to pain at the time of intercourse but I helped her to recover from that problem and we had complete sex up to 7 times .But during an occasion I faced ... (134 words)

Does she fancy me back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6213 days ago

23 November 2006 (M)

- I am in abit of a difficult situation with a girl from work, in the way that i am absolutely crazy about her. i am 30 and she is 20 and we flirt all the time, we have been for about 4 months now. We are always sharing long glances from across the office, we have secret sayings ... (257 words)

He got his ex pregnant and I just found out, is he a rat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - i have been dating a guy for 3 months, he does not talk about his past but always willing to answer any questions i put to him. someone told me that there is a rumour going aroung that he has got his ex pregnant, the baby is due in Jan/Feb. i phoned him and asked him, he sa... (102 words)

I have a crush on a 12 year old boy---am I a pervert?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

23 November 2006 (F)

- hey i really need some advice im 16 and i have a huge crush on a 12 year old and im worried that if i did end up with him i would be a pervert... also im worried that im giving him mixed messages because i know he likes me but i also know that he has a gf and im not trying to ... (86 words)

My bf sent me this odd message...does anyone know what the heck it meant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - My boyriend sent me a text message one night at 2am instead of his mate. It read "Where r u?? I'm way beyond clear chicks" Any idea what this could mean?? He said he was drunk and didnt remember sending it.... (44 words)

Iquickly kissed my fiancee's workmate...should I tell my fiancee or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - Should I tell my fiance or not? Last night my partners work mate came over so I could keep him company, as he has recently split from his girlfriend. I was very tipsy, and a sympathy hug ended in a kiss on the lips, it was very quick and it was only once, as I pulled away. ... (71 words)

He's a player...should I sleep with his mate to get back at him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - should i sleep with his m8 to get back at him. ok i think the agony aunts right hes a player but how do i act round him what should i say, should i let him know what hes missing? or should i shy away into a corner and neva speek to him or his m8s again. which is what i often ... (63 words)

I don't want to be his sex buddy...it's all or nothing for me! Is he a lost cause?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - 6 years ago I started a relationship with this guy, I was his first, and due to my insecurities regarding our age, im 9 years older , I eventually broke up with him, to put it bluntly I hurt him a lot, mainly because of my feelings for him and what I thought society would say ... (826 words)

My gf seems to be eyeing up my brother...am I stupid or she trying to flirt with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6362 days ago

23 November 2006 (M)

- My Girlfriend Look's At My Brother does it mean anything? what does it mean when a girl look's at a lad? i noticed in the past few day's my girl will be watching tv and than turn her eyes to look at my younger brother (he's hotter than me) and than look at me when i look at h... (537 words)

I love long, hot kisses and he doesn't! He says it's boring..is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid I have been with my current boyfriend for 10 months, we used to work together, and our relationship is pretty strong. Unfortunately, I have one major issue and that is kissing. He does not like kissing ( and with that I mean the lingering ones... ) he gets bored ... (112 words)

I am very attracted to this guy...I need some good tips on how to make a move!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6362 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - I’m asian, pretty and I’m attracted to this white guy. I see this guy once a week at the university student union (bar). At first, I smiled at him and noticed me. As the weeks went by we were both looking at each other but he didn’t make a move on me! I then decided not to ... (184 words)

I Iike this guy who is my best friend's ex...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - dear cupid x i have a problem i've fancied this boy who is 15 years old but i don't know what to do. he doesn't notice me and i've only known him for a while. he's my best friends ex and i want to know how to resolve the problem please help x... (61 words)

He kept an affair a secret for 2 years..I may never trust him again! Should I stay or go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - well my boyfriend and i have been on and off for 7 years now ive cheated and told him not long after it happened i felt guilty so i understood y it was hard to trust me but a couple of weeks ago i had heard from friends of mine that he doesnt know that he had a baby with ... (198 words)

Sex is getting boring with my gf...any tips on how to spice it up with new positions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 November 2006 (M)

- My Girl only want's to give missionary position all the time is there any way i can get her out if this position? we i first got my girl doggy, Cowgirl style was all we did all the time now 13 month's later she only a fan of missionary position the other night i said " d... (222 words)

How do I give a good blow-job?

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - ok guys i need help. please dont think im stupid for asking but i need to how to give what guys would call a good blowjob. any tips would be great. thankyou.... (33 words)

Is it ok for me to have sex with him but not blow him (or future guys or husband)?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - hi. my boyfriend and i have been going out for 8 months. hes 17 and im turning 16 in two weeks. we have been naked together and such, and are very comfortable together. i want to have sex with him, but i dont want to give him a blowjob. i dont feel that its dirty, i just dont ... (114 words)

He keeps following me and phoning! I am fearful for my safety..what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - dear cupid.i would appreciate some valued advice.long story short.i had a baby with my ex over fifteen yrs ago.seperated after birth.i picked piece up.always looking over my shoulder.fear of taking baby.but alway got mysterious phone calls at work and home.moved hse + got on ... (136 words)

I thought everything was well with us but now I'm wondering--Does he still love me as before?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6362 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - Does he still love me as before? I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. I thought all was well between us until last week when he started this conversation.....can we manage to last to be together until we are old? We have a problem, we have to find out. Which he then pro... (99 words)

I love my best friend... Can I get my best friend to fall in love with me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

23 November 2006 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have a major problem, first it started out as a small inside joke then i started to feel different about it but now i'm in love with my best friend. I've told them how i feel about them and they keep saying that they don't want to be nothing more then just bes... (164 words)

If a guy is crazy in love with you and you just want to be friends... Would that work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

23 November 2006 (F)

- Can you be friends with a guy who's crazy in love with you or just tell you cant be anything to him ... (22 words)

He got in trouble with the police before-if we date and have sex..could it happen again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - I'm 14 and i live in California I am dating a 18 year old. Well my parents met him and they really like him! But they think he's 17..... I thought so too he barely told me the truth about him being 18, 3 days ago and we've been together for over month now. Things are moving at ... (193 words)

Don't know what to do about christmas? Who do I go and spend it with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6357 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - Hi I need some advice.... plz!!! sorry to be long but...... I live away from my mum and dad, my brother lives in ireland and me in england and my mum and dad in scotland, i dont know what to do for christmas. I moved to england with my boyf last year (his dad was movi... (429 words)

I like my best guy friend and things were good and then my ex bf came back! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - im so confused i dont know what to do. In August my best friend/first love, of 4 yrs, broke it off with me to be with someone else. I like one of my best friends. We get on so well and our humour is alike. We know we both like each other but it hasn't been said aloud, only... (157 words)

Is this guy just playing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6362 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - Hi this guy IV been madly in love with for ova 5 years, he’s a bit of a player and all the girls love him. We joke about allot txting and flirting. But I am scared of letting him know I like him incase he doesn’t like me in the same way. He keeps sending me mixed messages and I ... (130 words)