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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My mums friend was helping me through a rough time, she said I contacted her too much, now she won't let me apologise!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - Ok im 16 and i met this woman( 30) my mum works with. We became friends and i started looking up like a sort of a role model. She knew i looked up to her and seemed to like that i did. My parents broke up and i need someone to talk to so i sorta talked to her, she said it ws ... (169 words)

I might be pregnant and am getting so used to the idea I don't want to do a test incase it says I'm not!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 486 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - I think i might be pregnant i have most early symptoms. I could be anything up to 2 months. I've always used protection but I still got pregnant. I dont agree with abortions or adoption and ive got used to the idea i am pregnant and have started to want it so badly. Now i dont ... (88 words)

My bf is asking a woman for inappropriate picture...should I leave this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 551 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - Ok.. here goes. My boyfriend and i have been together for a year. We do reside in the same house. I have a couple issues I am battling with: First, he has not told me he loves me back when I have said I love you. what does this mean? Second, he is with me all the time so I have ... (105 words)

I wanted to fix things, not get dumped!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 551 days ago

6 November 2006 (M) - My g/f has just dumped me. Last week i said she didn't make me happy as she has acted uninterested in me, always out with friends and family and nothing happening in bedroom. She was shocked and said that she was happy and unaware we had problems. Two days later she called... (228 words)

Bad hair days for me! Does anyone know of good websites that show good hairstyles? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 551 days ago

6 November 2006 (M)

- I'm 18 so I'm going out with my friends tomorrow. I think I look ok facially and physically but I have one problem - my hair. Even when I gel it after a haircut, it looks terrible and I try and copy how the hairdressers did it in the salon. Even then I don't know how to ask f... (109 words)

How do I show him...I'm not like her? Any tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - I like this guy in college. he has recently split up with his girlfriend - a month ago - and he said back then he didnt want a relationship ever again because she treated him so bad. I went through a bad breakup a year ago and said the same thing then, but now i've come through ... (216 words)

There is sexual tension between me and my crush..but I love my bf! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - I'm 21 and have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. I am happy with my relationship. But then there is this guy - I have known him from back at school when I had a serious crush on him. We have kept in touch over the 3 years and we see each other like once a ... (287 words)

What's best? Distancing myself to see if he misses me or talking to him everyday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - Hi there. My boyfriend and I broke up about 3 months ago. We were seeing each other for 2 years. It was a long distance relationship, I live in Pa and he lives in MA. There is also a big age difference, Im 28 he's 21. We broke up because we were fighting a lot, he said we were ... (359 words)

Sometimes he just doesn't want sex - is it me or am I reading too much into it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 551 days ago

6 November 2006 (M) - I've been dating this guy for about a month now and been officially his boyfriend for a week. We had sex on the second date and have had it a few occasions since. The problem is sometimes he just doesn't want to sleep with me for some reason...for example he will say he's ... (111 words)

Is it the porn or my low self-esteem that he turned him off sex with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 551 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - My fiance seems to have lost interest in me sexually, and it's breaking my heart. We have been together a year and a half, and for the first year our sex life was absolutely amazing. We both have high sex drives, we were having sex 2-3 times a week, and it was the best ever ... (745 words)

I'm on birth control but is it safe enough from pregnancy if we don't use condoms as well?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend just had a baby in August. We both have tested negative. We dont use condoms and we only mess with each other. Im on birth control pills. Will I get pregnant if we dont use a condom?... (44 words)

Why is he behaving this way? Do you think he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 550 days ago

6 November 2006 (F)

- hey all cupids, there is this lad i like he is a mte of my brothers hes 13 and im 15 i don't no whether he likes me cuz he keeps been nasty to me sometimes then nice to me the next time and he keeps finding ways to touch me and he lets me sit on his bike and stuff (we spend ... (110 words)

I'm really lazy and I need to tone up super fast! Any tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (F)

- im so lazy, but i need to tone up fast!! i want to be at my best so i can win the guy i want with complete confidence.. any tip on how to firm myself up? im a size 12, but im not fat, just want a firmer body... i love my curves though.. could someone help me out here? I'm ... (84 words)

I'm upset that he's spending more time with friends and other girls - help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - well me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 months. I have been feeling depressed recently because I feel he doesnt pay much interest in me anymore. he tells me he loves me but he met new friends at school and wants to hang around with them a lot. And he hangs around ... (125 words)

I'm afraid my husband might hit me! What should I do?

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6 November 2006 (F) - I am having a lot of arguments with my husband and I don't know what to do anymore, I am afraid he might hit me one of these times, what should I do?... (33 words)

I want to wish my first love the best in her marriage - would it upset her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (M)

- Nothing matches the thrill of my first real love I met a girl in the first year of my university course 13 years ago. She was friendly and popular and had a socially prominent group of friends, whereas I was quiet and reserved but passionate. Soon every time we met wa... (475 words)

I think she's having an affair! Was I right to question her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (M) - I have been seeing my girlfriend for just under a year. She changed jobs a few months ago, and now works long late hours in a golfclub bar, mostly at weekends when I am off work. She is very outgoing attractive and enjoys men's attention, but tells me she is faithfull. A few ... (303 words)

I'm in the army and sleeping with my married sergeant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 535 days ago

6 November 2006 (F)

- im 19,single,woman,im in my final year in school and i am also in the army but i have been sleeping with my sargent(36yrs old,married with 2 young sons) for the last 4months we meet up every weekend and have the best sex ever i think i am falling in love with him i cant ... (132 words)

She's pregnant and I don't love her! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (M) - im 24 and much younger than the woman who i have been having descreet encounters with. the lady is a friend of me and my family. after 10 weeks of nothing happening between ourselves by my choice, she has today told me that she is pregnant and going to have my child.please ... (133 words)

She is uncomfortable getting intimate - What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (M) - My girlfreind has had someone attempt to force themselves upon her in the recent past before i met her, shes a virgin of 19 years old and shes amazing in every way. How can i get her to even to commit to a kiss when i see in her eyes that shes unconfortable !! But she says she ... (73 words)

My faceparty guy is starting to ignore me! What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 401 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - ive recently met someone on faceparty.com, in the begining it was great we talked for hours on MSN and really got on well, also he would text me 5-7 times a day and say he really liked me. Now he never texts me, never says he likes me, and doesn't even say goodbye when he ... (61 words)

I am too shy to tell him I love him - Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (F)

- Im in love but i don't know how to tell him! Im too shy to say anything! Im in his form, and we sometimes talk in music, but thats parctically it! Its practicly breaking my apart because im too shy to tell him i love him and too shy to talk to him! Please help me! xxxxxxx... (60 words)

I like her and need advice on what to do next

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 551 days ago

6 November 2006 (M) - i got off with a girl and i havent spoken to her since its been two days sinced it happened and neither of us were drunk i see her in skool but i didnt see her today, i like her but i dont know whether she likes me , i need advice on what to do next... (57 words)

My boyfriend is 30 and a virgin!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - Ive just started seeing a guy, hes in his early 30s and has never had sex before. I guess I want to know, when we have sex for the first time, should I take charge? Or would that make him feel foolish (Im 22)? Should I be the one to initiate it or should I wait till he says hes ... (61 words)

He dumped me... will he ever come back?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 32 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - my boyfriend of 4 yrs just broke up with me almost a week ago he said it was because I kept on accussing him and he was tired of always going to sleep mad I tried to get him back and I started crying and he said he was not going to call me anymore because it was unhealthy to ... (145 words)

My ex wants to have a relationship again! Should I take him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - my ex-bf of 2 months is getting back together with me. i don't know if he's sincere or is it just because i won't have sex with him if we don't have a relationship. or because he doesn't have a girl, and he needs a girl like me to hold. he's the one who dumped me in the... (253 words)

My boyfriend has lots of "girl friends" who text him and message him on facebook... My problem, or his?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - Ive been dating my boyfriend for about 9 years now. We are so great together and I love him very much. He says he loves me too and we have made plans to get engaged and married in the future. The only thing thats gets me upset is how is talks to so many girls. He says that they ... (235 words)

I can't controll my jealousy!

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6 November 2006 (F) - I don't know how long this has been going on for but I know it's been a while. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. For the past couple of months I feel like I've been crazy. I can't control my jealousy. I fear that he looks at other females and think that they are ... (105 words)

Turns out he got a bootcall while he was lying next to me!

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6 November 2006 (F)

- I have Something bothering me lately.It happened a year ago and i dont no why its just startin to bother me again! I was lyin in bed wiyh my bf, when a girl rang him up,beside me! She asked him y he didnt come round hers, that he said he would, and he casually replied "ive been ... (197 words)

His engagement to another is on and off! So do I keep flirting and wait to see what happens?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - I have recently fallen for one of my male friends ... I met him about a year ago and at the time he had a girlfriend and was flirting with me big time at a party. He then chatted to me on messenger saying how if he didnt have a girlfriend that he'd want me in the physical sense ... (225 words)

He loves to hunt and fish...but I hate it when he leaves town to do this! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - my boyfriend loves to hunt and fish. he knows that i don't mind if it is local. i don't like for him to go away for 2 or 3 nights. i sometimes think that he wants to do this more because he knows that i don't really care for this. how do i take the fire out of his wanting ... (153 words)

The relationship is fizzling...how do I stop this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - I am seeing a guy. How does a girl stop the relationship from fizzling out after the initial honeymoon period wears off?... (25 words)

How long should a guy last, when having sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 42 days ago

6 November 2006 (M) - How long should guys last for when having sex? ... (9 words)

He's afraid to commit! Will I ever be number one, in his life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - Hi where do i start. Well i have known this bloke now for 2 and a bit months and i really like him but more then just a mate. We see each other nearly every weekend when he does not have his son. I really him and i want it to be more then mates tho. But he has said to me before ... (182 words)

My bf takes his anger out on me and wHen I take it to heart he calls me mental! Advice please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - My partner yells at me and calls me names like, idiot and stupid and it doesnt matter what form of employment i am in he calls me a failure. I often wake up feeling worthless and feel too tired to get out of bed as though i havent slept. He apoligizes for the yelling and ... (205 words)

We broke up for the 4th time - I love him so much but should I take him back again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - I know this question is a book and a half, but please I need your advice you can e-mail me directly and not post my question if it is to long.please. I’m 21 years of age and have been in a well, serious relationship for the last two and a half years. I can honestly say I ... (374 words)

I moved too fast with him and I scared him away! What can be done?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - Hi, I think I may have put a guy I have been seeing off me due to me trying to move things too fast. We have been seeing each other just over a couple of months. What is the best way to try and get his attention back?... (51 words)

I've fallen for my sex buddy! Is this a waste of time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - ok, so where do i start??? so i met a guy about 2 and a half years ago. i did the wrong thing and slept with him after our 1st date! since then we have become shag buddies but i have fallen for him big time!! i heard he has had a g/f since we met but he has never admitted it to ... (164 words)

I'm worried because I did bad things as an adolescent!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (M) - i am 19 year old and some wrong work in adolscence life and i am very worried. if you do not understand my problem then i explain later. ... (30 words)

I'm confused about my feelings towards my ex - Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - Hey, my partner and I spilt up about 2 weeks ago after being together for 1.5 years. It was very difficult at first as i was scared of being alone, but now i am coming to terms with this. He broke up with me and made it clear that he only wants to be friends. I have thought ... (243 words)

I asked him about us and he became distant. Should I give him space now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - Hello. I have been seeing a guy a couple of months and he is now acting a bit strange. I asked the status of our relationship when we were drunk a few weeks back and it has all kind of gone down hill since. :( As he thought it was too soon to discuss it. We don't know ea... (193 words)

I crave sex with everyone but my gf! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (M) - why do i find that i always go off sex with my girlfreind but crave it with every other person.can any one help?... (23 words)

I love them both - what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - I am in a relationship for 11 years but fancy a man who no longer lives in the same country I visit him and he seems keen to meet me but he does not contact me on a regular basis I am the only that calls him if I email him he replys with one liners he knows my partner we are ... (139 words)

He's giving me mixed signals about our future! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year. The 1 moment he will take me to the shops to look for engagement rings and painting our future together - being husband and wife, and the next he will say (between the lines) that he is not sure if I am the right person. He is ... (78 words)

My bf wants to take a break and move out to sort his feelings! Is this really a good idea?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - Hi, 2 weeks ago my bf of 3+yrs told me that few a months he hasn't felt the same about our relationship. That he loves me lots, but doesn't know or understanding how he's feeling or why things have changed. He said he's been trying to sort it in his head but it's confus... (509 words)

I'm a virgin and know nothing about contraception. Too scared to ask mom!

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6 November 2006 (F) - im a virgin and have no idea what kind of protection is best for me and im a little scared to ask my mom! please help?... (26 words)

Two deaths in my family and now I get panic attacks when my bf works away! Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (F)

- Hi everyone Im not really sure where to start with my problem as I dont really know whats wrong with me I lost two members of immidate very close family a couple of months ago My friends think this is where my problem stems from I have a lovely bf who works away an... (354 words)

I don't know if I am ready. Am I ready?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 551 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - hi im 19 and im still a virgin ive been seeing this guy for 3 months now and i know he wants to have sex but im just not sure, i really like him though! but i just dont know if im ready! help please?... (46 words)

My boyfriends finished after 1 - 2 minutes. Why so quick?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - why does my bf cum so quick while having sex? It is about 1 to 2 minutes.... (17 words)

He always chooses to be with his friends rather than me. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - He used to spend alot of time with me, but now he wants to spend all of his time with his friends when he is off work. Why ... (28 words)

Porning husband or a "true" gentlemen. Is the grass greener?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 544 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - porning husband or true gentleman?? I have been married 10yrs. My husband reads porn and ogles other women when we are out. Even though I have told him it hurts me he has toned it down but seems to have trouble stopping. I also have a male friend. This is someone I have k... (174 words)

He asked someone else out - what is he trying to tell me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 552 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - so there's this one guy that i like and he was interested in me as well. we've known each other for like 3 months now and we weren't going out but we hooked up.. well i thought he was gonna make his move and ask me out from there but it didn't happen... we still hang out on the ... (133 words)

A year on and we argue every day. I think it's become unhealthy - should I act?

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6 November 2006 (F) - Hey Dear Cupid Agony Aunts, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend a little over a year now, and things have always been really shaky with us. We argue everyday and sometimes the arguing gets on a "near breakup" level Although neither of us will let it happen. We see ... (102 words)

Our sex life has changed - is this a red flag that he is cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 553 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - I always kind of wondered about this...they say a sign of cheating is a low desire to be with you sexually or a big decrease in it. What in specific does that mean..does that mean--you dont sleep with them at all for one week? is that when you should see a red flag? Or is a ... (193 words)

My GF of 2 years told me sure has never really felt much for me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 553 days ago

6 November 2006 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years. She broke up with me two days before my 17th birthday and told me that she wants to go do the things that i would never approve of such as doing drugs, smoking weed, and getting drunk at parties with people she doesnt know. She said ... (512 words)

My BF of 2 years brought up all these issues last night that I didn't know we had...help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 549 days ago

6 November 2006 (M)

- I am feeling devastated. My bf of two years all of a sudden yesterday went into this massive low and then revealed he thinks he doesn't make me happy (which couldn't be further from the truth), and that he has from time to time worried about things not working out between us in ... (435 words)

He dresses in womans clothing when we have sex!

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6 November 2006 (F) - I met this guy 5 months ago and everything was great he told me he loved me after the 3rd day of knowing me . I thought that was scary but i was lonely and decided to start a relationship with him. He seemed so perfect always treating me to nice things and taking me and my baby ... (113 words)

My unaffectionate husband doesn't support me in my bid to get healthier!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 553 days ago

6 November 2006 (F)

- Hi everyone, I'm a bit confused at the moment, I'm not sure whats going on with me at the moment. I really love my husband but I dont get the same feelings back, he reassures me that he does love me very much but he doesnt really show it. We dont have a lot of money so I dont... (396 words)

There is not any construction work going on that I know of like he said - is that enough to think he is up to no good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 551 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - Hi--i don't know if i am being paranoid. My b/f has his own place but usually stays at his mom's so she is not alone. He had to go pay his rent though and got there at like 9pm--he called me a few times but i was unable to pick up. I call him back at 10pm and he says he was a... (269 words)