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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

He's my ex and his Mother keeps telling me all about his gf! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 552 days ago

4 November 2006 (F) - A mths ago I split up with my b/f of 4 mths. I had known him for 14mth before we got together. At first we hated 1 another, and even though his mam knew this she still threw us together. Then she kept dropping hints that he hated girls and would never have a relation... (430 words)

He smokes weed a lot..should I just forget about him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

4 November 2006 (F) - i like this guy alot..but he smokes weed ALOT! should i just forget about him?... (15 words)

I'm very self-concious..any tips to getting over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 554 days ago

4 November 2006 (F) - whats your advice to a girl who is seriously self conscious about everything?... (13 words)

Is a size 16...too fat?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 404 days ago

4 November 2006 (F) - whats your opinion..is uk size 16 to big/fat?... (8 words)

My Mother is nice but she drags me down, at times. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 553 days ago

4 November 2006 (F)

- My mother is so lovely and nice but sometimes when I talk with her about friends or how I deal with certain situations she keeps asking me the exact words I said or how did I do it when talking with someone and then passes critics on me supposing it will help me next time, when ... (153 words)

I want to tell him how I feel but I'm going away for 6 months! Is this fair to do this to him now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 553 days ago

4 November 2006 (F)

- I need your advice. I met a guy at work a year ago and we got on like a house on fire. We have been meeting up 3 or 4 times a week for a chat and I have fallen for him. I can't be sure, but I think he feels similarly. The problem is that I'm about to take a 6 month holi... (142 words)

He and his parents have big issues...should he keep seeing them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 553 days ago

4 November 2006 (F)

- Hello.. I've been with my fiancee Shaun for almost 3 years. We've had a very rocky relationship, but things have been good for the past year. When he first moved in with me he would visit his parents every sunday. When he returned he was different...angry...I used to go with ... (286 words)

We broke up and I want to get back together! I fear he'll meet someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 554 days ago

4 November 2006 (F) - heya, me and my boyfriend of 3 years have recently split up over a silly argument, we have decided to be friends, but at the same time he tells me there is a chance we may get back together, but he needs to work out how he feels. i have met up with him a few times and i can ... (154 words)

I'm 17 and pregnant! Can I legally move out and be with my bf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 553 days ago

4 November 2006 (F) - can a pregnant 17 year old legally move out with her 20 year old boyfriend... (15 words)

How do I start talking to my friends again when I havent spoken to them for months?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 554 days ago

4 November 2006 (F)

- How do I start talking to my friends again when I havent spoken to them for months? Ive been working so hard over the past few months and only saw my closest friends at the weekends. Then the other day I was going through my phonebook and realised that there were some people... (101 words)

Trying hard to avoid a crush at work as I'm married with kids! Any advice ?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

4 November 2006 (M) - Hi there. I'm A happily married man. I dearly love my wife and we have 2 beautiful children. We are together since we were 16 and have never had any other partners. However I have got this wee crush on another Woman in work. I know its a non runner.. and I am now avoiding her... (111 words)

Is there any way to lose weight off my big butt?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

4 November 2006 (F)

- I have a big butt. I'm 5 foot have 32 C cup and am really skinny other than my butt and my boobs. I was wondering if there was anyway just to lose weight in your butt... without making it bigger I'm not complaining or anything i just would like to be able to wear a pair of j... (78 words)

he's with another woman now..and I've suddenly realized I want him back! Why am I doing this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 553 days ago

4 November 2006 (F) - i broke up with my partner in august we had been together for 10 years but things were a bit sour. we have also 2 children together. i heard a month ago he may be seeing someone else and i felt ok then, now i have had a massive change of heart and realise i still love him to ... (81 words)

Does she really care about me or is she just 'playing' with my feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 554 days ago

4 November 2006 (F) - please help! i can't tell if the person i love, loves me. she says she doesn't,but she always comes up with work related reasons to spend time with me. we work, but there is a lot of conversation and long periods of no work and just talking and being together. many ... (138 words)

He's well endowed! How do I have sex with being hurt ? Any tips?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 553 days ago

4 November 2006 (F)

- Dear Cupids, I am 21 years old and have only had 2 sexual partners in my life and to be honest i didn't have a lot of sex with either of them. the first was when i was 18 and was only with the guy for 3 months, the second was a male friend earlier this year. they were both kin... (155 words)

We broke up after 5 years! Now I'm finding things out about him that make me feel cheap and used!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 551 days ago

4 November 2006 (F) - I have recently split up from my partner of 5 1/2 years. I feel that it was going to happen at some point, but it was a great shock when it actually did happen. I was absolutly devestated. I think mainly because he instigated the break up. We have been split up just over a w... (383 words)

I completely besotted with him, but he likes another girl! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 553 days ago

4 November 2006 (F) - I'm a 16 year old girl and I am completely besotted with a guy. He is in my English class at college and recently we have begun chatting on msn, I'm fallin really badly for him and I dont know what to do about it, it keeps killing me inside everytime i see him. He says he likes ... (76 words)

If my friends finds out what I did with her bf..then I am in trouble. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 554 days ago

4 November 2006 (F) - Did I do something TOTALLY WRONG? A friend of mine broke up with her boyfriend yesterday and me and him are really tight. and always hang out, soo me and my bestfriend went over to his house like a normal friday night. but this wasnt a normal friday night, me and him ... (101 words)

This married guy has hurt me worse than I have ever known! How can I have allowed that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

4 November 2006 (F) - I,very foolishly, had a relationship with a married man. This all started well over a year ago, with him flirting madly with me and making it quite clear he doesnt want to be with his wife. I resisted for 8 months, telling him no, that I'm not that stupid, that it would only ... (897 words)

Sex with my bf doesn't give me pleasure. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 554 days ago

4 November 2006 (F)

- I have sex with my partner, but i never get any pleasure from it. What can i do to sort this problem out,.Its weird cause i still say my partner is good in bed and i have very strong feelings about him. My boyfriend dont like toys cause it makes him feel bad, but this is the ... (87 words)

The boys tell me I am ugly! What can I do to make myself pretty?

This question has 41 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

4 November 2006 (F) - dear cupid i am 14 years old and quite shy all the boys say im ugly and take the mik out of me because of what i look like it really upsets me i dont know what to do to make myself pretty im not as ugly as they say but i cant get a boyfriend all my friends have one but im too ... (73 words)

How do I find out if he likes me without asking him directly or having others do it for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 554 days ago

4 November 2006 (F) - A few weeks ago I had started work. Sinse my first day I had layed my eyes on a man there. My problem is that I was recently told by work collegues he likes me too but they could have been joking because they are like that. No one knows that I like him and I don't want anyone ... (164 words)

Has anyone met someone online and had things work out great?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 523 days ago

4 November 2006 (F) - i just wondered wether anyone has met someone online and it worked out alright? Or even met there current gf/bf online? ... (21 words)

My dad doesn't like my 'bad boy' bf! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 554 days ago

4 November 2006 (F) - please help me! i have this new boyfriend, and he's kindda, different,.. i mean he's like the bad boy type but he's not really a bad boy,... he just look like one and my father dont like him,.. how can i convinced him that he is not what he thinks..... please help me, i love t... (68 words)

This new man has got me all confused and I need your advice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 534 days ago

4 November 2006 (M) - Hi about a month ago I was working away for a week when I met this amazing guy, who also working away for my company, but from a branch close to me. We seemed to hit it off and I spent three nights with him in his hotel room. We never exchanged numbers, but after a wk I went ... (230 words)

Shall I trick him into having a child?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 495 days ago

4 November 2006 (F)

- i have been with my parnter for about two years, and i really want a baby with him and he wants to wait another two years before trying and i want one NOW, i have thought about telling him i am still taking the pill when i wouldnt be, but then when it finally happens i would ... (96 words)

Help me I'm becoming so paranoid!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 553 days ago

4 November 2006 (F) - hi, Im 22 and ive been with my boyfriend 26 for a year and a half. Recently he has decided that he wants to go travelling for a year and he says if he likes it he might stay longer. We have a really good relationship but I think this has made me really insecure recently. He ... (273 words)

My periods have changed now that I had sex and I'm scared!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 548 days ago

4 November 2006 (F) - I've recently lost my virginity at the age of 14 although turning 15 in a few days, I've been with my bf for a 1 year and 8 months so I'm pretty sure this relationship will stay stable, although I came on my period a few days after and then it stopped within 4 days when it is ... (81 words)

Sex before marriage? Opinions please....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

4 November 2006 (F) - Someone once told me that it would be better if I slept with a few guys before finding the one to marry. They told me that way I would really get to know men before I settle and get out of the lust stage. I'm almost 19 and I haven't slept with anyone yet. I have fooled around, ... (129 words)

I love her but she's spoken for.. what are these signals she's sending me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 554 days ago

4 November 2006 (M) - (names are not real) I met Sarah as a trainee (I was training her) and after the second training session I became really fond of her. As time progressed my feelings grew and grew, then disaster, discovered she has been dating Dave for a number of years. This didn't stop my l... (139 words)

In our break I met somebody else. Now I don't know what I want!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 554 days ago

4 November 2006 (F) - Hello i hope someone can help me make sense of what i am going through just now, i have so many mixed emothions and feel really confused. I will try to keep this as short as i can. Well the thing is I was with my fiance for 4 years, i am 28, he is 33 and i also have a 9 year ... (489 words)

My boyfriend wants to "take a break"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 312 days ago

4 November 2006 (F) - my boyfriend of four years wants to "take a break"..he says that he feels like he his holding me back from something in life and he just doesent want a relationship right now....he still says he loves me but he says not as much as he used to.....im devastated and i dont ... (110 words)

We have this wonderful relationship, but there's no sex! Should I plan a future with this man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 555 days ago

4 November 2006 (F) - Can a man (after 3 and half yrs) love you, want to live rest of his life with you (as he does) but not necessarily want too much sex? If you love someone, doesnt sex and intimacy follow? We can cuddle in bed. Not too much out of bed tho. Not much kissing. No spontaneous sex. ... (182 words)

I love him but he doesn't really like kids...and I have three children from my past marriage. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 555 days ago

4 November 2006 (F) - Hi I'v been dating my bf for 2 yrs now and i love him very very much. we get along great we share all our deepest thoughts and dreams. we go out all the time for meals and meet up with friends after for a drink, we often just stay in and enjoy each others company.we have so ... (441 words)