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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My husband left me for a girl 15 years younger!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - dear cupid my husband left me 3 months ago we were married 21 years. he has told me he does not love me any moor and now he has strong feelings for a girl 15 years younger than him he is 39. When i asked him to give it another try he said no that he is going to move away and ... (255 words)

Can I get my ex back after breaking up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - Hi I'm a teenager that recently broke up with my boyfriend that I been with for almost two months. I want him back. What should I do?... (27 words)

After the break up, he just doesn't act the same!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - We broke up and and now we are back together. He treats me differently. What do I do? I know he still loves me but I think he is thinking that we are too close or something. He just doesn't act the same. A guy came to my highschool a few weeks ago and was talking about how we a... (78 words)

She cheated and now I can't get the image of her and some other guy out of my mind!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

21 November 2006 (M) - I've been with this girl for 3 years. She cheated and I'm trying to forgive her and give her a second chance because she realized she messed up. I am having trouble getiing visions out of my head of her giving oral and having sex with this guy. What do I do? I want them out of ... (61 words)

There's an age gap. Is it going to matter? I really like him...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - I met this guy a couple months ago and he's 24. I'm only 18 but I really like him. He wants to hang out again. I've only met him once..I'm scared..and don't know what to do. ... (40 words)

I think I have clinical depression...If I go to the doctor does my Mom need to know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - I think I have clinical depression or something so I want to do something about it, and I was just wondering if I were to go to my doctor about it could she actually do something about it? Would they give me drugs, as I'm 16. Does my mum need to find out?... (53 words)

We broke up! But he now thinks he can pick me up and put me down whenever he wants! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - I have a lot of history with this guy. We were going out on and off for a year, I lost my virginity to him in July, we broke up for the last time in October, and were sex buddies for about a month after that. I really miss him and want to be with him, but don't know in what ... (212 words)

My bf is acting wierd and distant with me...what's going on with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - my boyfriend is acting all wierd around me and says hes really and when we text he answers in really short texts and i said "bye i luv u" and he didnt text back and i really love him cause hes such fun to be around. it all started really when we went out sunday and i kissed him ... (72 words)

He claimed he was too drunk to remember our night of sex..then worries whether I'm on the pill or not! Think he likes me?.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - I spent the nite with a male who has been a friend of mine for two years. We had sex and he claims he was too drunk to remember it despite the fact that the very next day he freaked out and continually asked me if I was on the pil.Do you think he liked me at all?... (58 words)

I just want to be friends with this interesting new lady. So how do I not ruin it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (M) - I've just recently made friends with a lady who happens to be the same age as myself and she's really great to get along with! So much so that I now have something to look forward to when going to work in the a.m. (as we met on public transport a few weeks ago). She's already ... (171 words)

My guy is "too busy" to see me because he's always doing work at his house!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (F)

- This bloke I've been seeing for about 8-9 weeks has recently moved into his new house and been there for about 2 weeks now. Before he moved he was perfect and always wanting to see me and take me out. Now however he says he busy all the time with his house and makes no time ... (174 words)

Are my ex and I going to be together again? Or am I kidding myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6355 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - Well this is sort of a follow up for my last question. I saw my on/off bf this weekend, we had a lovely time and he told me he was unsure that we did the right thing to "cool things off". I didn't question him any further... but now I'm all excited again and hoping things may ... (189 words)

I do all the travelling in our long-distance relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (M) - I am in a relationship with a girl and we have been dating for 5 months. My girlfriend lives 70 miles away and I have been coming to see her by train. I had a month gap of not seeing her during the summer and at the moment i'm seeing her two days a week at her house and i ... (140 words)

My bf and I have a baby but we fight and I'm not happy...do I leave and move in with my ex? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - I have a baby with my current boyfriend and have been together for 4 years... If feels likes we are going in a circle ( we are happy, then we fight, then we dont talk etc.) I am not happy, it feels too little too late... but there is an ex that wants me to move in with him he ... (82 words)

A past drunken cheat haunts me and I am feeling guilty. Do I tell my fiancee or not?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - I am getting married next year to a man who I am very much in love with and we have been together for six years. About three and half years ago I got very, very drunk, so much so that I went home with a guy and woke up the next day to discover we had slept together although I ... (181 words)

My past bugs my bf and he doesn't even know any details! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - maybe this is a common question but i need help guys,i have a wonderful relationship wth my bf,he keeps bringin up my past not always but at times and it irritates both of us,he gets completely pissed off when he even thinks abt it, i told him that i cant change my past i ... (70 words)

Is there a place where I can get free counselling...I live in London (UK).

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - I have posted a lot times on the site about my relationship insecurities and had so much help. Everyone has suggested I seek counselling to help me properly - but have no idea how to go about this!! The big problem is that I cant afford to pay much money. Is there such a ... (79 words)

He's going away for christmas and I don't want him to go! Any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - ok guys... i am so in love with this guy right?! and ive been looknig forward to spending time with him this christmas, only to find out that he is goin overseas for the holidays... i am so heart-broken... he didn't tell me but someone else told me... he claims to feel deeply ... (69 words)

I'm pregnant and I think he's having an affair! Advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - hiya, im 32 weeks pregnant and married for nearly 3 years and recently our sex life is non existant. i think my husbands gone off me!i also saw him texting some girl who i think he is having an affair with. help me please... (44 words)

Not sure if he'll say yes or no...so should I still ask him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - i like a guy but i dunno whether i should ask him out because i dont know whether he will say yes or no, he's cute but i dont know him really well i only know him slightly but i know he is really sweet... (45 words)

He ejaculates when masturbating but when we have sex...what can we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - my boyfriend can only ejaculate when masturbating but never when we have sex im scared as we would really like to have children of our own one day an we are beginning to think this may never happen can you help!!... (41 words)

Looking for fun, cheeky stories on 'revenge'..for my article. Anyone want to share?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - I'm compiling an article for a magazine about men who take revenge. Has anyone got back at an ex in a cheeky or amusing way? (Nothing abusive or straying into stalking territory). ... (38 words)

We broke up but.. we both can't afford to move out from the same place! What now??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (F)

- Hi I dont know if anyone can offer me any advice or not but here goes. I split up with my boyfriend a couple of days ago basically because of my insecurity/jealousy/mis-trust. It's bizarre but I dont actually think he has cheated on me or if he ever would but I wanted... (457 words)

I'm going through a real hard time in my life right now...I need some advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - I am going through a hard time in my life at the moment and I really need some advice - really on how to deal with everything. I am having several health problems, nothing life threatening - as far as i know anyway but i'm having to see doctors regularly for one thing and ... (243 words)

Too many bf's in my life! Everything is going wrong and I need advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - I have loads of problems with relationships at the moment. I broke up with my boyf about a month ago and then went out with this other lad who is really sweet. That didn't work out so we broke up but about a week ago this other lad at my school asked me out. I said yes to see ... (136 words)

Should I go to brother's overseas wedding?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

21 November 2006 (M) - My bro met this girl who lives in Austraila on the internet. Has been chatting online with her for 5 years He flew to AUS and spent 3 MO. with her Now they are engaged. Now my family expects me to fly over in July to see him get married. I find this to be an outragious an... (126 words)

He accidentally called my by his ex gf's name a few times. I am hurt...what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - I have been with my partner for nearly 3 years now, when we first got together he called me by the name of his ex girlfriend, this was a mistake and ok. He was with her for 4 years and she was his first real love...However we mentioned her name the other night and in bed... (124 words)

We had a perfect relationship and then suddenly-he ended it! How could this have happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - Ok my ex bf and ihad the most wonderful relationship that anyone could ever ask. There was nothing wrong with it. We broke up cuz he said that he didnt love me and that he thought that he wasnt the one for me and that he didnt want a relationship right now. I mean how c... (144 words)

I'm 15 and my best friend is 23 year old lesbian. My Mom doesn't like it..so what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

21 November 2006 (M)

- I am lboys friend and using his account to get my question answered Well it starts like this.... i am a girl who is 15 and my best mate is a 23 year old lesbian. it is a normal friendship like it would be between sum 1 of my own age. i stay over every weekend and sometimes du... (176 words)

Having some 2nd thoughts about my age gap relationship-- Any help would be appreciated!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - Im 44yrs young and im engaged to a wonderfull man who is 22 we love each other very much. we have been together for 9 mnths. other people have been nasty about the age gap. my best friend died in july and im letting these people affect my way of thinking since she died i am ... (92 words)

Afraid I'll make a fool of myself when I meet his friends...any tips to help me relax?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6230 days ago

21 November 2006 (F)

- I have been seeing this guy i met online now for 6 months and he always comes over to my place (we live in different towns). He has recently asked me to go over to his place to meet his friends and im absolutely petrified! I like this guy a lot and i want his friends to like me ... (79 words)

He told me "he's in love with me" but "he loves her"? I don't want to get hurt so what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - I've been dating this guy for 2 1/12 years he 52 years old im 35 years old. but my question is that he live with someone else, we work together for 6 years he told her about me, they been together for over 10 years. we travel together he spend times with me, but i just don't ... (106 words)

How do I tell my Mother...I am bisexual? Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (M)

- hi it'a lboy i'm an agony aunt on this site and i need your help, i'm 14 and i'm a bisexual, i really want to tell my mum because when she is around i have to act like a whole other person. my friends are supportive of my sexuallity and except me, i think that my mum would ... (76 words)

He offered to visit me while I'm in the hospital..is he just being sympathetic or is he really interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - Hello. I am a bit confused. was seeing quite a bit of a guy for couple of months, recently we haven't seen each other for few weeks, as we have both been busy. I spoke to him and told him I was going to go into hospital - he offered to come and see me which I thought was ... (262 words)

She says she can't cope without seeing me! How do I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (M) - I recently met this AMAZING girl. She is 20, i am 20 in 2 months. We have been going out for just under 3 months now. I think she is amazing, i have fallen for her and she has fallen for me. Shes quite dependant on people though and needs someone there for her all the ti... (220 words)

I keep thinking she's cheating! How do I get rid of this constant jealousy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (M) - Hello, Any help would be appreciated, I think that my better half is cheating on me. I cant help but think that my partner of one year has thought about maybe getting involved with her ex boyfriend. I know that she would not want him back in a typical long term relationshi... (121 words)

Engaged and together a year..but we've lost that spark! How do we get it back??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - I've been with my fiance for about 1 year and 3 months. We've been having some problems. I don't feel the connection we once had that mad me feel like I was walking on air. We argue a lot. I think mainly because we're together a lot but, I need to know is there a way that we ... (77 words)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - Ok, here goes....I recently got dumped by the man I felt was the love of my life,but since he broke it off (after 2 yrs) I've seen a different side of him and accepted it wasn't menat to be even though I still care greatly for him. I met another man, through a friend about 2 ... (152 words)

I'm 18..he's 43--How do I tell him "You're too old for me I'm not attracted to you, sorry!" He's really persistant!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

21 November 2006 (F)

- I wrote a question a while ago this is a sort of follow up but different... I met his guy at the club (2 months ago), he wasn't my type I'm not attracted to him but I gave him my number to be polite. Big mistake. I let him come round my house. We talked got to know eachother. ... (382 words)

My gf has cystitis..is this condition made worse when we have oral sex? Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (M) - Hi, My girlfriend got cystitis the other day. She said it wasnt THAT bad, but after performing oral sex on her, she says its got even worse. Now she says its not just cyctitis, but a painful itching/burning more higher up inside the vagina. She had to go to the doctor who g... (92 words)

He hasn't texted me today and this is unusual! Should I worry?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

21 November 2006 (F)

- hey people My bf is away at the moment and although i find that hard to cope with whats killing me at the min is that i havent heard from him today I know what your thinking One day big deal but i always usually hear from him and its tearing me up Im having panick a... (195 words)

I trust her but I don't trust her ex bf! He sends her texts so what can I do about him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (M)

- My Girlfriend 11 month's ago told me her ex boyfriend txted her saying " y don't u come to my house " she txted back " y would i? " he txt her saying " so i can f**k you " (she let me read the txt's) now i got mad at this and he was lucky i didn't know him at all. he said to ... (418 words)

What sexual enhancing tools are available to surprise her in the bedroom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

21 November 2006 (M) - My girlfriend is a kinky kind of girl and i am afraid that I might not be kinky enough for her. what are some of the steps that I can take to be a little more kinky in the bed room? What are some sexual enhancing tools that I could use to surprise her in the bed room?... (58 words)

Need advice on the best type of condom to use...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (M) - What is the best kind of condom to use in sex.... (11 words)

I need to prove to my bf that nothing happened between me and this other guy! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend on and off for a few years now and he recently moved into the same city as me. At one point in time when we were split up I started hanging out with another guy...nothing happened. However he has run into people who have told him otherwise. I don't ... (119 words)

Which is the best to use...the pill or the patch?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - im 19 and a virgin, im trying to prepare myself and i was wondering out of the pill or the pill patch which is better to use, i should let you know that i had a hell of a time trying to remember to take even vitamins. please help.... (50 words)

He can't make me orgasm and his self esteem is suffering..what can we do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - I feel frustrated, his self esteem suffering... For some reason, I can't orgasm when his fingers go south. I know the big reason is because we both aren't very experienced. Any advice? We are very comfortable with each other, so it's not that; my body's just being a traitor!... (52 words)

Torn between two girls... My 10-year lover (no sex life) and my new beauty (who I've gotten pregnant)...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (M) - I been living with someone for 10 years. the short version is that our sex life was non-existent. I complain to her to no avail. I met a young beautiful woman and was smitten right away, one thing let to another and she is now pregnant(I feel I was trapped but I own up to my ... (156 words)

I'm 16, he 's 18...is it legal for us to date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - Hey, I'm dating this eighteen-year-old guy and have been for about six months now, I'm only sixteen and wanted to know if it was legal for us to be dating or if he could get arrested for dating me or doing anything with me if it goes that far. We both love each other and have ... (119 words)

Is it possible to remain friends after love is lost?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (M) - Im having trouble letting go of my ex she keeps calling me. no matter how often I tell her I am not coming back she often finds away to call me. especially on weekends. She makes no sense. when I was with her I warned her about her losing me. She did not listen and is not ... (153 words)

His parents are ruining everything!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - Me and my guy have been togther for 6 yrs. he works offshore and makes good money. I see him 2 weeks out of a month. His mom takes care of all his bill and mank account. We are engaged to get married. I hav no say so on his money and Im not allowed the password to his account. ... (243 words)

I'm shy and I like this guy...should I just go for it? Advice, please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - Hello. I'm a 16 year old shy girl. I can't help it really. There is this dude I like (well, by what I've heard about him) who's a grade ahead of me, and sometimes, I catch him looking at me. Sure, I know people can just look at each other, but I just want to know if I should go ... (144 words)

I feel like she's having second thoughts... Is she?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

21 November 2006 (M) - My girlfriends emotions seem very flip-flopped. When she has a very bad day, it's "impossible" for her to say "I love you" to me, even if I say "I love you" first. She claims that she does, but just can't say it... it's very confusing. Many other times, it's so clear that she's ... (146 words)

CArried all my doubts and worries from the past relationship into the new one...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - Hello, My problem is more to do with myself. I was very involved with someone for three years, and had my heart broken as well as my esteem. I had let my boyfriend of three years walk all over me. I learned, however a year later I am now I'm dating someone new, and he is w... (157 words)

Should I surprise my ex with concert tickets?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (M) - Would it be too much to surprise my ex with concert tickets for Christmas? We broke up a while back and she was dating someone else for a while. They broke up, but I have reason to believe that she still has a lot of feelings for him. However, I also know that she still has ... (110 words)

I'm fourteen... and pregnant! What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - I'm 14 years old and ya I now I'm young but I lost my virginity and I'm pregnant!!I don't know watt to do. I just found out this weekend and I'm to afraid to tell my parents ''PLEAZ I NEED ADVICE. I'M SO AFRAID!!''... (44 words)

My BF is avoiding physical contact, because it might lead to sex...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (M)

- I recently found out that my bf of years has been avoiding physical contact like kissing or hugging, as it might lead to sex, which it would seem he no longer wants very often. I was gutted that he felt like this and now feel as though I can't even touch him as he wouldn't... (96 words)

He flirts with my friends, just to see my reaction!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - I met a boy and I started to like him a lot. He makes me feel like he likes me too, but at the moment when we go out in groups he likes to pretend he is flirting with my friend to see my reaction, and of course it bothers me. What should I do?... (55 words)

I think we like each other... but I want some tips to find out for sure!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6364 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - What are the subtle signs a guy likes you? Also I think this guy likes me and I like him, but I'm unsure of how to go about it. Any tips? thanks ... (42 words)

I knocked back friends-with-benefits and offered Just Friends, but now he won't even talk about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - This guy wants friends with benefits but when it finally comes down to it, he says no and leaves. Well I told him that I wanted to be friends because this is awkward and now he won't talk to me. What's up?... (42 words)