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writes: hi, im 27 years old, female, loved my guy truly, long distance relationship for 4 n 1/2 yrs, broke up recently, no emails, calls, sms or anything..simply put forward, i still do luv abt and care abt him, but i cannot forgive him just yet , all these years he made me wait , only to cut me off in the end without telling me honestly. anyway, i am trying to move on, spending time with the people who luv n care abt me ( my family n friends, doing things which i enjoy n all, why then does he have to send me an email stating he is out of office for two weeks??? i dont understand why wud he even bother to tell me when he doesnt really luv me...or care abt me now...? can someone plse help me figure this out...
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2006): hi again, im the original writer of this, many thanks for the answer, somewhere deep down i care for him, people say its not easy to forget the first luv etc etc,n i went to this place where we both used to spend quality time together, i know i shouldnt have but i still sent a sms..saying only hi...to which he replied, that he was thinking abt me...( to add to this, he misspelt the words, n through previous times, i know he only does that when he is pissed drunk...wat is with him...i felt he didnt luv me hence i moved away. i tried talking to him n all, but till date he has never told me so. i believe that in order to be honest in any relationship , one has got to be true to their own selves. im so confused, i dont want to force anyone to luv me, but this guy is ?????? why is he doing this?
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reader, luvaofsoul +, writes (9 November 2006):
Hi
I know it's difficult to see this message from your ex.
I think he is worried about you and just wants you to know he cares.
Don't confuse this for, he wants to get back together but have solace that he cares about your feelings.
He may be feeling very guilty on how he treated you after so many years, and this is his way of letting you know that.
They say time heals all wounds, and it really does.
Take care
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