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Archived questions from: 19 July, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Is our love strong enough to last long distance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1027 days ago

19 July 2005 (F) - My friend, now love, is moving to another country. He has always been honest with me and says he will be back often. I want to give him time to have his fun, and me time to grow and learn about life before I go overseas to visit him. We do love each other but he seems to ... (77 words)

All I want is a clean break from him, but he just keeps begging me to take him back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1027 days ago

19 July 2005 (F) - Hi, I was in a relationship for just over 3 years which was really stressful but has recently ended. I found out that he had been seeing another lady after about 18 months & we broke up. He kept calling, sending emails & txts and eventually I gave in. He asked me to move in ... (224 words)

Everytime I even hug my girlfriend "something" comes between us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1027 days ago

19 July 2005 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have be seeing each other for 3 months. And every time I see her, it's like falling in love all over again. But I have a problem. I get hard, even if we are just hugging. She gets me excited, too excited. I need help. I want to be able to control my sexual ... (74 words)

We connect on so many levels, but she's still not over her ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1006 days ago

19 July 2005 (M) - I’ve been dating a woman for 4 months and it has been amazing and passionate. We seem to have connected on almost every level: physical, intellectual, emotional, etc. We never addressed it directly, but it seemed like we were both feeling something special. Enter the ex…she ... (355 words)

It's painful to see my friend becoming depressed. How can I persuade her to get help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1027 days ago

19 July 2005 (F)

- I have a friend who is increasingly becoming very "down on herself" which is highly unusual and I worry about her. She is a caring, fun gal (mid-40's)She's always savored life and is so positive. What is bothering is how people she comes into contact with...treat her with ... (474 words)

My boyfriend says nothing's wrong, but suddenly he's too busy to talk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1026 days ago

19 July 2005 (F) - I have boyfriend for 2 years. I'm 17. We just learn in the university. Before that, I met him about 5 day per week and phone every day. Now, when I call him he always says " I'm very busy I will call back " But he never called. I very serious. I don't know what happen. I ask ... (97 words)

Is he blaming me for the grief he feels about his wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1027 days ago

19 July 2005 (F) - I took your advice, and I am there for my boyfriend who has moved to TN. He came up for the weekend, we had a wonderful time. He invited me to come down and stay for 4 days which I booked yesterday. Last night he was very depressed. I tried to talk to him but the static o... (364 words)

We used to tell each other everything and I want things to be the way they were with my friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1027 days ago

19 July 2005 (F) - My friend and I have been getting angry for some time. We used to be best friends. I could tell her and talk to her in everything. Now I feel like something in my life has gone. I want to be the same but I'm afraid that she doesn't think like me. How can I start a conversation? ... (62 words)

I wasn't ready for a relationship with this man until he met someone new!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1027 days ago

19 July 2005 (F) - I had a relationship with a man for 3 years, ended very badly, over the phone. I was in love with him, for the wrong reasons, and could never really be myself. Since our break up 3 years ago, I met a really great guy, but we had a very casual relationship really for over a y... (174 words)

My boyfriend's sister is always prying into our relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1027 days ago

19 July 2005 (F) - My boyfriend's sister needs to know everything about us. I have a boyfriend and he has a sister. She always pay attention to our relation and need to known everything although it's was a secret, personal or something impressive that I like to keep it only with my boyfrien... (62 words)

My inability to suffer indifference is causing a rift in my marriage...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1027 days ago

19 July 2005 (F) - Bottom line I been married for eleven years now and the children are 4,7,10 years old. I have lost both confidence in my feeling for my husband and confidence in how I feel about myself in this relationship. Having had really bad experience about love from a abusive mother, ... (176 words)

How do I tell my co-worker about the special way I feel for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1027 days ago

19 July 2005 (F) - I currently work in an office and am very good friends with one of the assistant managers. I feel I can tell him anything, speak to him anytime, and take comfort and security from his presence. I have had deep feelings for him in the back of my mind for ages, but I had been ... (861 words)

Now that I'm with someone else, my ex wants to see me more than ever...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1027 days ago

19 July 2005 (F) - Hi, OK this is hard. I recently split from my boyriend of 17 months. The only problem is now I'm in a new relationship but my ex still wants to spend time with me. It's driving me mad. I still care about him but when we were together I only saw him on a night. Now he wants to... (87 words)

Four years with my partner and one night with a stranger. Who's the baby's father?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1027 days ago

19 July 2005 (F) - After breaking up with a possessive and extrememly jealous partner I found myself out on the town for the first time in 4 years. Drinking way too much and not knowing where I was at iI had a one night stand with, well a stranger. Nine weeks and a few days later I was told I w... (106 words)

My b/f and I keep arguing over why I'm not included in his activities with his friends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 876 days ago

19 July 2005 (F) - Hi all, My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. Over the past six months we keep having the same argument over and over and it isn't getting resolved. I'm looking for any ideas to help me get over this so our relationship can get past this argument. Our argument... (140 words)

I resisted him until I was sure...then he seems to have just stopped trying.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1025 days ago

19 July 2005 (F)

- I met a man about my age and we hit it off wonderfully. He lived about 2 hours away from me but we managed to get together for fun dates. He was handsome, polite, funny, charming and he treated me with utmost respect and he seemed genuine. We had s few dates and the physical ... (339 words)

Why would my boyfriend ignore my request that he not go with his friends to a strip club?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

19 July 2005 (F) - Hi, I am 19 years old and a freshman in college. I am living at home this summer and my boyfriend is also living at his home. He informed me the other day that he and a bunch of pals (some I personally deem as immature) are going to take a trip to Montreal and that they might ... (239 words)

I accidentally found something he wrote about his ex. Now I feel bad for mentioning it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1027 days ago

19 July 2005 (F) - I always assumed my boyfriend had a thing for his ex. He denied it but I couldn't shake the insecure feelings. He's o/seas for 3 weeks currently. I've recently moved into his flat and I accidentally came across something he'd written about finding his long lost ex (he wrote it... (142 words)

I thought we were more than friends, but he confessed he wants to date a girl in my class...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1027 days ago

19 July 2005 (F) - I fell in love a guy who have been my friend for 5 years. He is handsome, smart and kind to me. We are close and we are talking and laughing every day. I used to think we are more than close friends but one day he told me that he loves my friend who is in the same class wi... (112 words)

Our marriage ended because I slept with her friend. Now I wonder if I should warn my ex...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1004 days ago

19 July 2005 (M) - I have been with the same girl for 9 years. We recently got married and have been living together for over 7 years. To cut a long story I have ended up sleeping with her best friend and as a result I have ended the relationship with my wife. At first I guess I thought there wa... (203 words)

What about casual sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1027 days ago

19 July 2005 (F) - Does anyone believe in casual sex or should it only happen with someone you love and care about? Is sex an expression of love? Or can it just be fun?... (30 words)

We broke up and now he's back...sometimes. I just don't know what it means!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1025 days ago

19 July 2005 (F) - The short version I'm confused and need some advice. I'd been wiv my bloke for 9 years, known him for 22 He's 44, I'm 40 (we didn't live together). He lost his workshop (he has another job also that he doesn't like) and changed towards me getting angry at everything I di... (361 words)