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Archived questions from: 20 July, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Did I push him beyond the limit? Can I redeem myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1026 days ago

20 July 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I are now 23 years old - we have been on and off since we were 16. I have always loved him but I never felt he loved me as much. About a year ago, at the time we werent together, I moved to another city. He followed. Within two months we found our own house to... (277 words)

He "doesn't want intensity" in our relationship, but I want him to open up...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1027 days ago

20 July 2005 (F) - I am really down about my relationship of 7 months with my boyfriend and I would appreciate a male point of view. The fact is I am totally in love with him and am very confused about whether he is ever going to feel the same about me. He was the one who chased me in the firs... (292 words)

My partner is looking at porn again, only now he's lost interest in sex with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 949 days ago

20 July 2005 (?) - Hi.. I wrote a few weeks ago about my concerns about my boyfriend's interest in pornography and him saying that he just does it out of boredom. Many thanks for the very helpful replies. Things have since developed with my boyfriend and I discussing it openly. He admits he ... (247 words)

Do I have the right to give my boyfriend of 4 months an ultimatum about leaving his wife?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

20 July 2005 (F) - I am a 35 year old divorced mother of two. I have been divorced 9 years now and I have dated off and on. I am now in a relationship, only four months in mind you, but a serious one at that. He calls several times a day, I see him at least 3 times a week and we go out most... (208 words)

Once the baby was born, he realised he wasn't ready to be a father, but I want what we have to work!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1026 days ago

20 July 2005 (F) - dear cupid I was with my partner for 3 years. We just had a baby seven months ago, which was planned. Now he has left me because he was never ready to be a father. We still live together, just until my new place is sorted. I really wanna make our relationship work. Plea... (81 words)

My holiday fling turned into the Real Thing for me, so why haven't I heard from him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

20 July 2005 (F) - Hi, I just learnt about this site from a friend,. I have a problem, I just had a vacation, a well deserved one. I met someone through work, we talked for hours we conneceted. For the first time I met someone who really listened to me and made feel like I was special. He inv... (300 words)

I'd like to be a better friend to my brother...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1025 days ago

20 July 2005 (F) - Hi, I think my brother and I aren't as close as we should be. My friend has brother too, but they so close when I heard her talk about her brother I just thought "why aren't my brother and I like that?" Maybe cause we're different ages, I'm 18 and he's 14 years old. I want to ... (68 words)

How can I stop being so dependant and give my boyfriend the space he needs?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

20 July 2005 (F) - My name's Claire. I'm 16 and I have been in a realationship with this guy called Sam who's 18 for about 5-6 months. I met him on the internet about a year ago and we just got on so well and were best friends! I really do love him and we can spend 24/7 together easily but thin... (872 words)

My wife's affair is over, but she still works in the same place where it happened...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1027 days ago

20 July 2005 (M) - My wife had an affair for six months. It is now over but she has kept the love texts on her mobile and still works at the same place. She still goes out often. Should I trust her?... (38 words)

My ex broke it off, but he still calls and says he misses me. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 720 days ago

20 July 2005 (?) - I have been seeing this guy for about 7 months. Just last week we broke up because he is saying that it just did not work out. Know he just wants to be friends. I don’t think I could just be his friend because I'm still in love with him like crazy. When I try to get over him... (117 words)

My boyfriend's become distant and basically ignores me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

20 July 2005 (F) - My boyfriend hs become distant and I hardly see him. When I do see him he is only concerned about his problems at home. He's a manic depressive and self harms regularily. He won't discuss things with me and basically ignores me. Also he's told a friend of mine he doesn't like ... (113 words)

I'd love to go out with the new guy, but will I risk contracting herpes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1024 days ago

20 July 2005 (F)

- Hey there. I've been with my boyfriend, Paul* for 18 months now and he's a great guy but I've fallen for someone else. Craig* is older than me, 27 (I'm 18) but he's amazing and I want to be with him. I've decided to finish with Paul* but I'm worried about something and I wa... (192 words)

My girl's "friend" is making romantic gestures to her, and I just hate it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 971 days ago

20 July 2005 (M) - Hi My girlfriend of 6 months has a lot of male friends. She went through a pretty bad break up with her husband and has surrounded herself with a lot of male friends who have supported her and helped her out. I know all of them would love to be where i am, a couple have ... (466 words)

So many girls are interested. Do I have to pick just one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1028 days ago

20 July 2005 (F) - I have so many girlfriends. I have a serious problem that I couldn't manage my time for all of my girls. but I do love all of them very much. Do I have to choose one of them and love only one, or should I still be the same? "HAPPY BUT TIRED" Please give me some suggestions. ... (61 words)

I'm so confused because my b/f says he loves me and wants to be with me forever... but he's not sure he wants to get married!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1027 days ago

20 July 2005 (F) - Hi, I am writing to because I hope to get advice from someone outside of my life, someone who doesn’t know anything about my situation. The reason for this is that to everyone I know - I am in 'the perfect relationship' and when I try to talk to anyone they just think I... (650 words)

I feel inadequate because my ex isn't beating up on his new girlfriend like he did on me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1027 days ago

20 July 2005 (F) - I lived with a man 22 yrs my junior. He is very controlling and power driven. He became violent and I have a permanent restraining order against him. I didn't want to care for him anymore so threw him out. He has another woman now who is caring for him. Gave him a car to d... (136 words)

We broke up, but my boyfriend still wants to sleep with me "to say goodbye"...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

20 July 2005 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend and spent 3 years together...went through a miscarriage and lived together for a year. He worked overseas and after I lied to him about someone breaking into his car...he sought solace in a girl he met in his work place. Since then he came home, broke up with ... (110 words)