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Archived questions from: 21 July, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My partner says he doesn't want a relationship with his ex, but he's there to care for her any time she calls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1024 days ago

21 July 2005 (F) - It was in 2003 when I started seeing the man I love. He had a bad relationship and was going to break up. Let me just say we were friends before lovers. He told the girl it was over, she had a stroke that night and has brain damage. He moved me and my children into his hous... (250 words)

Can you fall in love with someone over the phone?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

21 July 2005 (F) - Is it possible to fall in love with someone you havent met in person yet?? I feel I have fell in love with my soulmate! We talk on the phone all the time but with our schedules not meeting up is the only thing that is keeping us apart! Not to mention we live in 2 different c... (73 words)

This person won't talk to me, so I've taken matters into my own hands...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 625 days ago

21 July 2005 (F) - For the past 5 months, my every thought has dwelled on just one person. But about 2 months ago, I stopped being able to see them. So I took matters into my own hands. I've driven past their house, waited for them after work, and followed them home many times. Just a few da... (137 words)

My fiancee has booked 4 holidays this year. I'm afraid my finances won't allow me the same liberty!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 987 days ago

21 July 2005 (M) - Hi I've been with my fiancee now for a year and a half. We are due to get married next year, the trouble is, she likes going on holidays, lots of them. She works in a college and gets 6 weeks off every summer, I however work in an office 9 to 5 with not many holidays. Thi... (262 words)

My girlfriend is jealous and clingy and she won't let me go anywhere without her...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

21 July 2005 (M) - My girlfriend is so clingy I can't do anything without her, and when I say I want to go out she cries. So I stay in cos I feel bad. She is also very very very jelous and even deletes my mates' (that are girls) mobile numbers. What do I do?... (51 words)

My 35-year-old boyfriend makes my troubles go away, but I want my old boyfriend so much!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 911 days ago

21 July 2005 (?) - Hi, I have been with a 35 yr man for 2 weeks now. I'm only 18. Before this 35yr old there was another man who is also the same age! The one I'm with now is so caring. He buys me flowers & when I'm with him all my troubles go away. But then when I get home into my room the ph... (128 words)

In the 4 months since leaving my husband, my lover found someone else. I'm devastated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1025 days ago

21 July 2005 (F) - I had a four year affair with a single man who I was desperately in love with. Eventually, 4 months ago I finished it as I could no longer cope with the double life, I broke his heart but we stayed friends. I soon realised I could not live without him and a month ago left my ... (162 words)

He starts asking me awkward questions when we're kissing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1023 days ago

21 July 2005 (F) - Ok. Here's the thing. Basically when my boyfriend and I are doing some heavy petting he starts to say/ask some things. I don't they are like normal things like "Do you like that?" and "Are you wet?" but to me they just seem kind of corny. I usually just don't answer him and ... (118 words)

Both of us had an STD and we don't know who gave it to whom!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1023 days ago

21 July 2005 (F) - My boyfriend of 9 months has just finished with me. I hadn't seen him for a few weeks as he was on a course, but we spoke to each other twice a day and werer making plans for a holiday. During his time away he had to have a medical and discovered he had an STD. He immediat... (191 words)

My partner's grandmother is so demanding that I wish she wouldn't visit so often!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1019 days ago

21 July 2005 (F) - I am expecting my third child with my partner and although everything seems to be OK, there is just one problem, his grandmother. She is in her 90's and is very demanding, insisting we have her once every week for dinner and She stays all day. I complained to my partner but ... (85 words)

How and when should I reveal my past pregnancies to my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1025 days ago

21 July 2005 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my partner for the past year and he is soon to be moving in. I know in the future that he wants children which I am in agreement with, although I don't generally have maternal feelings. However I have had 2 abortions in the past (one in my ... (189 words)

Broke up 5 years ago, but my ex and I still have phone and text sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1024 days ago

21 July 2005 (F) - My ex and I broke up 5 years ago and have both had other relationships since then. Despite our other partners we have been having text and phone sex for throughout the 5 years since we split. I know that none of my relationships since him have been very serious and his can't ... (86 words)

He's 23 and I'm 16, but I think my parents would approve. How do I get to know him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 433 days ago

21 July 2005 (F) - I am 16 years old and I have a crush on a 23 year old guy. I know my parents would agree with the relationship. He plays for my local football team and I talk to him after every game but I don't know whether I should tell him that I like him or how to find out if he's ... (65 words)

Recently, my bf has talked about getting engaged, but I have a bad experience with that...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1025 days ago

21 July 2005 (F) - hi, How I really need someone's help. I'm in a relationship and have been for some time now. Recently my b/f has mentioned getting engaged. I really want to but I'm scared I was engaged about 2 yrs ago and then my b/f turned violent. I'm scared it will happen again. I don't wa... (76 words)

Ready to move on to oral sex, but what if we want to kiss afterwards?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1024 days ago

21 July 2005 (F) - Hi...i am almost 16 and my boyfriend is 17. We have been together for almost a year now and both very happy. We got off to a very slow start because we go to different schools and didn't see each other much. We are both very happy together and now things are starting to really ... (170 words)

He still calls the girl he cheated with, but I want things to work out between us...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

21 July 2005 (F) - How can I make my boyfriend forget the girl he cheated on me with? He calls her and I know he is seeing her. He denies it. I need help. I love him so much. We live together. I try to be good with him. What can I do?... (50 words)

Three months of dating, and I already have a plan for when I eventually propose...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1025 days ago

21 July 2005 (M) - I am by no means considering proposal, and I have only been with my girlfriend for about 3 months, but any time I think of the future, it involves her. I have even thought of how I am going to ask her dad for her hand, and how I am going to propose! Is this rash?... (56 words)

My girlfriend won't make time to be with me, or show the same affection, even though she says she loves me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1025 days ago

21 July 2005 (M) - My girlfriend doesn't seem to make the effort that she used to, to talk to me or be with me I mean, and when we are together we aren't usually alone, by design or accident I don't know. On top of that she isn't as affectionate as she used to be... but she still tells me she ... (81 words)

Why does he continue to call me when he's in a new relationship now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1025 days ago

21 July 2005 (F) - About 5 years ago my boyfriend moved in with me and we have 2 children together (1&2). Aout a year and half ago we were not getting along and he said he was leaving so I locked the door behind him and didn't let him back in. He went to his sister's and kept calling me and tell... (169 words)