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Archived questions from: 5 July, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

A sexual assault has left me feeling dirty and horrible...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1024 days ago

5 July 2005 (F) - I was raped and contracted herpes. It only came up once but now I am paranoid and scared that I will pass it to my husband and children. My husband knows about it but now I just feel dirty and horrible. He claims that he still loves me and still finds me attractive but I think ... (89 words)

Broke up with my boyfriend, but I now realise that I'm still madly in love with him!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 590 days ago

5 July 2005 (F) - I bet you're all thinking 14 year old girl saying she's in love is all wrong, but I'm being deadly serious. I went out with this guy (the same age as me) about a year ago an when we finished after being together for about 3 months I realised that I'm still madly in love wit... (116 words)

What's the best way for woman-on-top?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1041 days ago

5 July 2005 (F) - I am in a long-term relationship and I have already had sex. We used the missionary position however I would like to go on top but I am nervous and I need some more information. Do I kneel or sit sraight up? Which is easier?... (45 words)

Why is it so hard to deal with my partner's 10-year-old-son?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1037 days ago

5 July 2005 (M) - How can I deal with my partner's child? I'm really struggling to cope with my partner's 10 year old son and I don't know why. This girl is the girl of my dreams; I've been attrached to her ever since we were at school and was so happy when we got together earlier this yea... (142 words)

He read my email without even consulting me! I've got nothing to hide, but don't I deserve my privacy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1040 days ago

5 July 2005 (F)

- The other day, I was writing an e-mail to my girlfriend. She had told me some very personal information and I was replying to some concerns she had about her upcoming divorce. When I left the computer to answer the phone, my boyfriend had came to my computer. When I came back ... (226 words)

Time to break up with my married guy. Can we stay friends?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 80 days ago

5 July 2005 (F) - I am in love with a married man. I have been seeing him for 3 years. It seem like I make all the effort. How can I tell him I can't do this anymore and still be friends?... (38 words)

My new friend at university went from kind to cold. What happened?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1040 days ago

5 July 2005 (F) - Today is the first day in University, I can't get along with others. I'm so worried about that but good luck to me I have one new friend. She is friendly and very kind with everyone. After couple days, She has many friends everyone want to be her friends including me. But now ... (131 words)

My boyfriend recently told me that he isn't sure he loves me any more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1040 days ago

5 July 2005 (F) - I need help. I love my boyfriend with all my heart but recently he said that he wasn't sure that he loved me anymore. I have been going out with him for 3 and a half years and for a large amount of that this relationship has been long distance. However from my point of view ... (185 words)

No longer attracted to my wife. Not sure about moving in with the other woman. Help!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

5 July 2005 (M) - Very Confused. I have been married for 5 1/2 years and have also been seeing another woman whom I fell in love with. I have sex with her, but not with my wife. My wife is a wonderful caring person. She gained weight and I no longer find her attractive. She is native american ... (204 words)

My husband came back after moving out, but he hasn't given up his girl-on-the-side!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1040 days ago

5 July 2005 (F) - My husband told me three months ago that he no longer loved me, although he still cared for me. He also told me he had started a relationship with a work colleague whom he left to live with a fortnight later. After two days he realised that he missed me more than he ever bel... (146 words)

My 28-year-old-husband left me for a 64-year-old woman...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 999 days ago

5 July 2005 (F) - I feel disgusted after finding out that my husband has left me for a 64-year-old woman. Apparently someone has told me that everytime he says he's working late, he actually is sneaking off for sex sessions with this woman. I am 25 and my husband is 28. I feel so depress... (127 words)

When is a good time to discuss the "having kids" issue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1040 days ago

5 July 2005 (F) - I have started dating a guy about two months ago and we are quickly becoming coming very close. I have never met someone that I clkick with so well. We have more in common than any other person I have ever dated. We are both recovering alcoholics and we understand each other ... (182 words)

My neighbour borrows money and doesn't return it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1040 days ago

5 July 2005 (M) - My neighbour always borrows my money and he never returns to me. If I say something bad to him, I will lose my neighbour's friendship. I have known him for about 4 years. He never borrows me since his wife died. I know that money is important to him but I want to use money too. ... (63 words)

Not interested in sex with my cousin any more. It makes me sick, but how do I stop?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 602 days ago

5 July 2005 (M) - Hi, I have been living with my cousin's family for 3 years. She is older than me. I've been having sex with her for past 2 years. Although I kind of like her but don't know, it feels sick after every time we have sex. I know I want to get out of this. that's for sure. But do... (84 words)

I think that JB and I were always meant to be...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1040 days ago

5 July 2005 (F) - i am a 31 year old Pisces who has never had a real relationship with a man. I have had 'boyfriends' but none of them even becomes close to being "the one". I met JB (currently a 33 year old Aquarius) when i was 16 and we became the best of friends. We were always hanging out ... (401 words)

She said that we're soulmates, but she couldn't be with me if I couldn't give her a baby...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1040 days ago

5 July 2005 (M) - Hi there, my gf has left me 3 weeks ago. It's a bit complicated, but basically she has mild depression and thinks very lowly of herself. I love her to bits. The problem being she wants a child and I can't give her one. I am 39 she is 33. She said to me when she left she love... (233 words)

Two guys seem interested. How do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1040 days ago

5 July 2005 (F) - I have a problem about who I should go out with and that man will never leave me. I am 18 years old and studying in a university. I have a man who I talk to and most likely to be my boyfriend in the future. He’s a type of person I like, but sometimes he makes me confused ... (174 words)

One of my friends is selfish, and I don't want to be around her any more...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

5 July 2005 (F) - I'm 18 years old, studying in the famous university. My group has 6 people. We always stay together. One day , I found that one of my friends, Susy, is so selfish. I really don't like her. And when I asked the others, I discover that they also don't like Susy too. We tell Susy ... (112 words)

I never developed breasts and I don't feel like I could ever really satisfy a man's needs.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

5 July 2005 (F)

- I'm a twenty four year old female with sex issues. I find it hard to enjoy sex because of my physical shortcomings - I have never developed breasts. I don't mean that I have small breasts, I have literally NO breasts at all, just nipples. My stomach sticks out further than my ... (156 words)

How can I get my wife to initiate sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1040 days ago

5 July 2005 (M) - How can I get my wife to instigate sex for once, instead of me doing all the foreplay and the romantic stuff?... (22 words)

My boyfriend has a different idea about having sex... and he wants it that way all the time!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

5 July 2005 (F) - Hello pls pls I need some advice. My b/f of 9 yrs has a strange idea of how you make love to a WOMAN if you know what I'm trying to say, without being crude. It's happened all the way through our relationship and I cant stand it any more. I wonder if he has other tendenci... (165 words)

Could I be in love with two guys at the same time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1040 days ago

5 July 2005 (F) - Is it possible to be in love with two people at once? I have a boyfriend of two years and I love him very much, he will do anything for me and have a great future with him. But I've always had feelings for another man (who is friends with my boyfriend). He also has feeling... (149 words)

I want my first sex with my girlfriend to be great for both of us...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1040 days ago

5 July 2005 (M) - My girlfriend and I are both virgins and I love her more than anything! We've been seeing each other for about 4months now and she has told me that she wants me to be her first time. The thing is I want to make sure she is comfortable and feels safe as well as loved and happy. ... (125 words)

I don't want to lose my girlfriend, but I can't deny my attraction for a guy from work!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1041 days ago

5 July 2005 (M) - O.K., here it goes. I am a bisexual male, and I have been with my girlfriend for over 3 years. I have only had two contacts with a man in the past. I recently started hanging out with a guy from work that I believe I am falling deeply in love with, and him with me. I have tol... (115 words)

His friends seem more important to him than our time together...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1041 days ago

5 July 2005 (F) - I have been dating my now boyfriend for a little over a month. We were long-distance friends for over a year until he moved back into the area. I am having a problem with his friends taking priority over me. He works nights so the time we get to see each other is very important ... (120 words)

How can I make new friends at university?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1037 days ago

5 July 2005 (F) - I'm in university so it's a new social world. I don't have a friend so I want advice to help me to make new friends and social contacts. ... (28 words)

It's not just the distance between us... he also has an issue with my weight. Could it still work out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1041 days ago

5 July 2005 (F) - I am 24 years old. One year ago, I met a guy online who lives in another part of the country. We got along very well from the beginning, both of us have been very honest and open about ourselves. This carried on for months as friends, but there was sexual tension between us ... (415 words)

I need help with my questions about contraception...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 175 days ago

5 July 2005 (?) - I have a very strong thought about this and we ( My girlfriend and I did it twice in a month ) are pretty unsecure. First of all, we have had sex , very much unprotected and I'm very much aware about it that is wrong, not the fact of having intercourse but the protection. ... (351 words)

Right now, our relationship is great! So why do I worry that I might lose him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1041 days ago

5 July 2005 (F) - Hello, Bev, your advice would be much appreciated on this and anyone else who would care to help. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now & i love him so much & he loves me back. He tells me all the time & says he would love it if we could live together & marry... (271 words)