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Archived questions from: 17 July, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

An old email has made my girlfriend think I don't want her as much as I do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1029 days ago

17 July 2005 (M) - My GF is great. She is the mother of my daughter and she also has one son. She was recently looking through my computer and found an e-mail that was sent to me by someone. It was very detailed and romantic. I no longer have anything to do with that person, but she doesn't ... (97 words)

He's a mate and we're very flirty... but I want to know if he likes me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1030 days ago

17 July 2005 (F) - Please help! I fancy this lad, and hes really really flirty with me on msn messenger. I've seen him and met him, we are mates. He's always really nice and very flirty, but I'm not sure if he really likes me. How do I find out? Im shy, so I couldn't ask him.... (53 words)

My feelings went kind of strange when I learned she'd had an abortion...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 900 days ago

17 July 2005 (M) - Hi I have liked a girl for a while, and we went on a date and things went great, and then I found out shd'd had an abortion 7 or so months ago and it's made me feel a bit strange about it all. Do you have any advice?... (49 words)

We agreed at the start that it was just for fun, but now I can't help that I love him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1030 days ago

17 July 2005 (M) - I am a gay male, who is not out to anyone, other than a guy I have been seing for about 6 months now. He has a boyfriend but he lives miles away so they don't see each other much. We have been just like a couple, going out, having sex, etc - he says he loves me and conciders me ... (170 words)

So, I know I want her to be my girlfriend, but how do I ask her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

17 July 2005 (M) - How and When to ask someone to be your GIRLfriend? I went out with this girl on short dates(dinners, small chats). I still don't know her well but I have this feeling that I really LIKE LIKE her. Same feeling as the feeling that you miss your love ones when you don't get to... (176 words)

We just can't have sex. It's too painful for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1030 days ago

17 July 2005 (F) - I am virgin and my bf is not. Recently, we have had several attempts for sex. The first time, it seemed that he could put it in about half way. I didn't bleed at all. Since then, all the times we attempted to have sex, I feel pain . We were not able to have sex since then. ... (82 words)

My boyfriend says nothing is happening with his ex, but I'm sure it is!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1030 days ago

17 July 2005 (F) - My live in boyfriend is cheating with his ex. He says he's not cheating. Everything that I say is wrong and it turns into an arguement. Please I need help. I love him but it is hard to even think he is with her. How do I prove to him that I am right so I can have peace mind?... (63 words)

Why would he protect someone else, at the expense of our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1028 days ago

17 July 2005 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for 7 months and he recently informed me he went snooping in my past and asked people at work who all I dated from there. He promised this other person he would not tell me who told. I feel betrayed because he has broken more than one prom... (182 words)

My partner changed his mind about marrying me and I couldn't face a holiday with him. Now I'm the bad guy...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1030 days ago

17 July 2005 (?) - I am 45, my partner 53. We have been together off and on for 8 years (he would not commit). I got tired of waiting and met someone else. He begged me to go back to him and move in, which I did. He also asked me to marry him. I have always got on with his two daughters, 17&18, s... (228 words)

She wants to quit having sex and just be friends, but I want it to continue...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1030 days ago

17 July 2005 (M) - I am going out with a girl for 3yrs. We have a full relationship. She is my senior in medical college and now she wants to stop the relation as she says that since we are not getting married we should just stay as friends and all sexual relations should stop. But I want to ... (100 words)

How can I show that I recognise my mistakes and want my girlfriend back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1023 days ago

17 July 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm bisexual and my girlfriend and I took a break. Our break happened because I was being bossy with her boyfriend, only because I don't want her to get hurt from a man again. How can I show her that I care and I need her?... (47 words)

This "friend" has already moved in on my social crowd, now she's texting my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1029 days ago

17 July 2005 (F) - I used to hang round with a guy through whom I met a girl. We got to be very close mates. Her boyfriend and mine were mates and I decided to introduce her to everybody I knew, invite her into the crowd, you know how it is. Anyway she has now started going to my local with my ... (153 words)

My friend is a tomboy and I think she should change that...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 895 days ago

17 July 2005 (F) - My best friend is a tomboy. I really want to change her to be more girly because we're in university now. What can I do to change her? ... (28 words)

My best friend stopped speaking to me and I don't know why!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1030 days ago

17 July 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm 18 years old and now studying in university. I have problem with my close friend who I have known for 4 years when we in grade 9. Now we are in different faculty. At first we still keep in touch, but recently when I met him at university he always walks away from ... (97 words)

It feels like she just doesn't love me any more...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1030 days ago

17 July 2005 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 5 1/2 years, we are both heavily involved with each other and have been through a lot. We are now living together and things have become "comfortable". The problem is that she never shows any affection towards me, we hardly ever have sex and ... (104 words)

My friend's mother doesn't approve of the 8-years difference...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1030 days ago

17 July 2005 (F) - My Friend is falling in love with an older woman. She is older than my friend by 8 years. But when his mother found out, she told my friend to break up. But he tell everyone this is a true love. What should he do with this problem?... (48 words)

My boyfriend takes "exclusivity" very literally!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1028 days ago

17 July 2005 (F) - The man I love doesn't want to be with me unless he can be with me literally for 24 hrs a day. Wwhat is your advice?... (26 words)

I was afraid people would gossip about us, but now even our friendship is gone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1025 days ago

17 July 2005 (F) - Hi. I just felt terrible now. My close friend is a boy and I'm a girl so when we went together, many other friends will think that we're more than friends. Moreover, They gossiped us as a hot topic. I couldn't stand this. Then I told my friend I would go together with him less ... (124 words)

My ex rang me a month after our break-up to tell me she was dating someone else...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1029 days ago

17 July 2005 (M) - My girlfriend of seven years and I have recently broke up. She initiated the break up by saying that we were just too different. In the beginning she said we had so much in common. A month after the break up she called and told me she was dating someone and things were goi... (147 words)

Even though he's an ex, we're still friends. What does it mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1030 days ago

17 July 2005 (F) - I'm a sixteen year old girl and there is this guy that I am best friends with. However we have dated off and on again. It's now been 10 months since our last 'relationship'. He's also had other relationships since then. Most people can't still be friends with their ex, so w... (117 words)

Things were looking up, then she backed away fast. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1030 days ago

17 July 2005 (M) - I have been talking to this girl for a couple of weeks on the phone. Recently we talk for several hours over the phone and really enjoy it. The only problem was that she said she had been hurt a lot recently by guys and wasn't really sure what she wanted out of it. We dec... (223 words)

Should I let him stay in jail?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1030 days ago

17 July 2005 (F) - My, friend is in trouble with some people he "works" for.....last night a lot of stuff happened....now he's in jail for something I know he didn't do, I need to make $250 to get him out, my parents say he's safer in there, should i bail him out or let him stay there for a few ... (57 words)

My past history is coming back to haunt me. Now my boyfriend won't trust me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1030 days ago

17 July 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months now and he still does not trust me. The summer before I met my boyfriend was pretty crazy and I did a lot of stupid things and he knows about it all. He says the stuff I did in the past are his reasons for not trusting me. But I ... (104 words)