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Archived questions from: 12 July, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My long-distance bf broke his promise to me. We care for each other deeply, but can I trust him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 996 days ago

12 July 2005 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship for over two years with a smart, funny, loving, thoughtful, and generous man. The problem is this: A year ago he held me down, bruising me. Upon my demand, he went to a doctor, was evaluated for depression and engaged in counseli... (233 words)

We break up over and over. How many times should I take him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1033 days ago

12 July 2005 (?) - He keeps (5) breaking up with me then calls me, telling me that he miss me. The longest we have ever stayed away with out talking is 3 days! Being that he has not called me do you think that I should call me or just let it be? The reason that we broke up was because he misse... (141 words)

Have I done the right thing, shielding my son from my judgemental extended family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 902 days ago

12 July 2005 (F)

- Somedays, I feel so despondent about my extended family. (my mother, sister and aunts) I grew up with very judgemental, opinionated, gossipy family members. As a child I recall being criticized and feeling humiliated with cruel words, on a daily basis. As a result, I was a ... (394 words)

Nothing can happen between me and the teacher, so why can't I get over it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 792 days ago

12 July 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm a 12 year old lass and I'm in year 7. I really like this teacher who is in his 20's - 30's and it hurts because he doesn't know who I am. Even though I know it is never going to happen I nearly cry myself to sleep knowing that. I really want to get over this but I d... (88 words)

I want to know what experiences people have with age-gap relationships...

This question has 75 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

12 July 2005 (?) - I don't really have a problem..(well i do, but thats a dif. story..lol) Anywho, I just want to know if there is anyone out there that is dating or married to someone with an age difference of over 15 years,and if so what makes it work and what dosent work, just basically ... (88 words)

My boyfriend think he's the smart one, I'm the dumb one, and only his opinion counts...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 903 days ago

12 July 2005 (?) - How do I stand up for myself? My boyfriend thinks it is all me, I am the dumb one, he is the smart one. He thinks I need straightening up. Yes, I do, but some of his problems are what is causing my problems, but he refuses to believe that and just shuts me down whenever I tr... (148 words)

My ex seems way too close to her gay friend. Is she using him to get back at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1029 days ago

12 July 2005 (?) - Hi all, I'm in desperate need of help here as its really affecting my everyday life! To keep things short, my girlfriend and I broke up a month and a half ago. The reason for the break up was because we were arguing too much(it was basically her idea to call it off). Right, a... (445 words)

The age difference isn't a problem, but I can't stop thinking about his kids and his career...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1034 days ago

12 July 2005 (F) - I met this guy one day who surprisingly approached me and wanted my number. I gave it to him and we ended up going out on a date (my first one). I am 26 years old. Come to find out, he is 34. Not a problem because I'm an old soul for my age and was very mature from a young ... (206 words)

No one thinks our relationship can work, but I accept his faults and he accepts mine...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1033 days ago

12 July 2005 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years on and off, but some people are saying it won't work and I'm wasting my time. What do you think? My b/f is 23, I am 43, and we love each other very much. When we have split, we can't leave each other alone, we're addicted... (328 words)

Something went wrong, and now my girlfriend is pregnant. We don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1025 days ago

12 July 2005 (M) - Hie all of you. I do hope you can help. I have a girlfriend and we had sex and something went wrong and now she's pregnant. I can't marry her coz I'm afraid of my parents and what they'll say. They surely wont approve and neither will her parents approve of it. They might throw ... (87 words)

She won't go out with my "in case she hurts me". What's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 303 days ago

12 July 2005 (M) - I'm in love with this girl, but she's seeing an older man. Since she's been seeing him stuff has happened between me and her, but she said she loves me more than she does him, but she cant have a relationship with me, in case she hurts me. What do I do?... (52 words)

We like each other, but he's my friend's boyfriend...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

12 July 2005 (F) - I'm a freshy in the university. I've met many new friends. One day I met my friend's boyfriend, I think he quite likes me and I feel that too. We exchaged our phone number and went out together. But the trouble is he's my friend's boyfriend. Please someone tell me what sho... (56 words)

My fiance left me alone to deal with my personal trauma. What am I letting myself in for?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1033 days ago

12 July 2005 (F) - Dear All, I am having problems talking to my boyfriend. We are getting married in 3 weeks and I have had some terrible news 2 weeks ago when my brother suddenly passed away. I am hurt and have no one else I can really talk to other than my boyfriend. My family ar... (309 words)

Our overseas relationship was only going to make one of us unhappy... so I broke it off...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1034 days ago

12 July 2005 (M) - I'm 16 years old and i live in England. Last summer while on holiday in the Carribean I met a beautiful American girl. We both liked each other but were too shy to say it to each other so we exchanged e-mail addresses and when we got home we started emailing eachother. After ... (577 words)

I'd like to try some new things - even sex! - with my boyfriend, but he couldn't care less!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1020 days ago

12 July 2005 (F) - I am 21 and I don't have the most experience. I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and the most we have ever done is some heavy petting. I don't know for sure but I think he might be a virgin (he's 27). We have a great relationship but I am ready to try s... (132 words)

On again, off again with my boyfriend because he doesn't have the same goals and ambition...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1034 days ago

12 July 2005 (F) - I've been on & off again a few times with my b/f for 5 yrs. We've been really serious and we are each other's best friends. However, I feel as though he isn't going anywhere with his life. I'm about to graduate college, and he is just going back. He is not taking his classes ... (154 words)

He doesn't feel about me, like I do about him...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1034 days ago

12 July 2005 (F) - Should I stay with a guy who doesn't have the same feelings towards me that I have for him? ... (19 words)

Not sure if this guy is really serious. He just brushes me off about our future...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1034 days ago

12 July 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm 16 years old and ever since me and my boyfriend broke up a year ago from a 4 year relationship it's been hard for me to meet someone that I can get serious with. I've been seeing someone now for about 5 months and I feel that he could be the one but I'm not sure if ... (94 words)

Finally told him that I was interested in him, and the feeling doesn't seem to be mutual... What now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1035 days ago

12 July 2005 (F) - About 7 years ago as a college freshman, I had a crush on this football player. I managed to inform him of this when I was drunk one night. And coincidentally, we share the same birthday. So along with a few other players whose birthdays fell along that week, every year we ... (283 words)