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Archived questions from: 11 July, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My husband would rather use porn to satisfy himself than be with me...

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

11 July 2005 (F) - I have been married for eight years.Mmy husband and i haven't had sex in two and a half years. He is addicted to porn, and would rather satisfy himself then be with me. I feel like I am dead inside. I have gained thirty pounds and just don't care anymore. help ... (53 words)

Met an online lover, but he was sprung by his wife. Now he won't talk to me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1031 days ago

11 July 2005 (F) - My husband doesn't have sex with me. About three months ago I took a lover, who is also married. We met online and his wife recently found out about the affair and has requested a divorce. I am very distraught because I am very emotionally attached to this man and do not wish ... (139 words)

I detect a spark with a co-worker, but I'm about to change workplaces!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1034 days ago

11 July 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm 23yr old woman who is very intelligent and good looking, and believe me I appreciate these gifts. The problem is social, most people are scared of me! Men assume I must be going out with someone. Because I'm seen as a genius most people find it intimidating tal... (479 words)

He feels guilty that he's moving on after being widowed. I just want him to know what he feels is OK!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

11 July 2005 (F) - I met my boyfriend 9 months ago online. He was recently widowed and I recently came out of a bad relationship. After about 3 months, we were inseperable. We have had a very intense relationship, but I feel very healthy. We have discussed his deceased wife many times, I... (202 words)

Split with my ex and I'm free to choose, but now I can't decide which boy I like better!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1035 days ago

11 July 2005 (F) - Hi, Right. I am 14! I went out with a boy my age some time ago now. We ended but at the same time I liked this other boy that really really liked me and after me and my ex split he still liked me loads. I told him I didn't like him in that way. Now I think I really like him,... (163 words)

Now that Miss X wants me back, I'm engaged to Miss Y. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1033 days ago

11 July 2005 (M) - It's a mad situation... I was with a fantastic young lady called Miss X (now 35) for three years, we got on brilliantly, I (now aged 43) bought a house so we could be together, it was just great. There was a problem though, I didn't get on with her son (aged 7)and this cau... (177 words)

I think my gf lies to me to protect herself... but it's hard on our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1035 days ago

11 July 2005 (?) - My girlfriend is always hiding things and lying to me. We have a great relationship and I love her very much but how do I get it across to her she needs to be honest with me? She always tells me that there's nothing wrong or nothing on her mind and I know she is lying to me. ... (79 words)

How can I help my friend get over her disappointment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1035 days ago

11 July 2005 (F) - I have a friend. We study at the same school. Before she does the Entrance Examination, she hopes to study in the faculty of Dentistry. She's concentrate on her books. She reads the books and do the exercise too much. She spends her time to read read and read. After ... (136 words)

My friend is pregnant and she feels she can't tell her parents...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1029 days ago

11 July 2005 (F) - I'm 18 years old girl. My problem is about my close friend. Last week she found that she was pregnant with her boyfriend! We don't know what to do. I told her to tell her mom but she said she can't because her mom will not accept and it'll make things worse, So I think maybe I ... (68 words)

In an arranged marriage, but I can't help thinking that my wife should look and act differently!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1034 days ago

11 July 2005 (M) - Hi.. I am a 27 years guy from India. I am an Engineer working with a US based MNC. I got married 5 months ago and mine was an arranged married. I am not convinced by the way my wife looks and does not carry her like the way I anticipated. This is bringing in a lot of demotiv... (204 words)

Attracted to a lifelong friend and not my wife... Unfortunately, we both have partners and children!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 999 days ago

11 July 2005 (M) - I am married with a child. I have a loving wife but I feel sexually attracted to a lifelong friend whom I have known for over 15 years. We are very close and she has a child as well. Our kids play together and she and my wife hang out a lot. She knows I have feelings for her.... (241 words)

Our child's energetic nature annoys my wife, we argue a lot and she never initiates sex. In short, I'm unhappy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1034 days ago

11 July 2005 (M) - Hi I have been married for 2 years now. I have known my wife for 4 years before getting married. Thing is, we were so happy before we got married and everything was good. Yes we had our ups and downs. Now that we married and have a 2 year old kid we tend to fight a lot. I h... (208 words)

I'd like to spend all my time with my boyfriend, and it hurts that he doesn't feel the same!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

11 July 2005 (F) - I find myself wanting to spend every free second of my day with my live in boyfriend, even though we have been together for a while now. He makes me so happy that I really think I could never get tired of being around him. It hurts my feelings that he doesn't want to spend that ... (97 words)

My boyfriend is 19 and I'm 14. He says he loves me, but why won't he have a relationship with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 489 days ago

11 July 2005 (F) - I'm 14 years old, my friend is 19. We do everything together. We have even had sex. I'm the only pperson he has ever said "I love you" to, but he will not be in a real relationship with me. I know it's illegal, but age doesnt matter to him. Why won't he be with me?... (56 words)

Should I just ask her outright if she already has a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1035 days ago

11 July 2005 (M) - I got a crush on someone in my group. How should I begin? I'm really nervous that she already got a boyfriend. Should I ask her directly?... (27 words)

My friend and I are pursuing the same woman!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1035 days ago

11 July 2005 (M) - What should I do ? If my friend and I like the same woman. My friend and I liked the same woman . My friend is the best friend but we liked the same woman . We studied in same faculty but the woman studied different faculty . When I know he liked woman that I like . I ... (209 words)

Mum gives my sister comfort and support, but she won't do the same for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1035 days ago

11 July 2005 (F) - I have a problam with my family. The cause is I have one older sister. She is a kind of perfect girl. My mom very pround of her. She talk to everyone about her. My sister seem to be success in everything she want to do. Sometime when she did a mistake, my mom just said "Don't ... (123 words)

If he's not a cross-dresser, why does my boyfriend want to wear my bikinis?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1034 days ago

11 July 2005 (F) - I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 23. He wears my bikinis all the time, and even says he wants to wear them in public. I know he isn't a transvestite, and he doesn't get a sexual thrill out of it, so I don't understand why he does this. What should I do?? Help me.... (61 words)

Want to ask out one of the sisters, but I feel "vertically challenged"...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1027 days ago

11 July 2005 (M) - Hi there, im a 15 year old boy. Round my "hood" there is two sisters who do paper rounds. The thing is I fancy one of them but cause I'm smaller than they are I'm scared to ask her out. I really would like to, I think she is lovely and think she has given me a flirty look ... (74 words)