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Archived questions from: 7 July, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My mum has mood swings and I don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1032 days ago

7 July 2005 (F) - Hi I really need help! My Mum has really bad mood swings. One minute she's really sweet, the next minute she's all moody and shouts at me. I tried writing it in my diary about it but she found my diary and read it and got super mad at me. But I thought as a mum she'd r... (69 words)

We want to get engaged, but I need to know more about "engagement"...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

7 July 2005 (?) - I have been thinking very much about the question I'm about to do,before I ask I would like to give a little of more info, I'm dating a girl which is amazing, she really treats me so perfectly that I'm defintely very much in love with her. She tells me the same and does things ... (289 words)

After our romantic weekend, he said he doesn't love me any more...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1039 days ago

7 July 2005 (F) - My guy of two years broke up with me three weeks ago, he says that he does not love me anymore. Earier that same week he took me out of town and we spent an awesome romantic weekend. What should I do? I am so confused. Should I just let him go?... (55 words)

My boyfriend drools over porn photos, then needs Viagra to get an erection... Is it me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 841 days ago

7 July 2005 (F)

- I need some input into this question. My boyfriend has erection problems and he uses viagara. Now I know men lose their erections for a variety of reasons. But he's a very healthy man so I am wondering if his problems are psychological even going so far as thinking he just ... (201 words)

Somehow, it seems like my feelings over his cheating behaviour is my fault!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1039 days ago

7 July 2005 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years and at the weekend he did something with another girl. I mean to give credit he didnt try to hide it from me at all which I do appreciate but does that make it OK to have done what he did? When I looked at him I couldnt help but... (173 words)

We fight over when to get married. Is he looking for someone better than me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1039 days ago

7 July 2005 (F) - Me and my fiance are fighting a lot. I think it may be because I am ready to get married and get my life started and I feel he is not. Is he holding out because he thinks he can find better? Does this mean hes not in love with me or does he just need time? ... (59 words)

I'm getting the cold shoulder from my fiance ever since we had that threesome...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 307 days ago

7 July 2005 (F) - Hi. I had a threesome with my fiance and his friend. He stayed with me and now he's giving me the cold shoulder big time. I love him to death and I don't want our relationship to end but I have no clue how to say I am sorry or how to make it up to him. He says he feels li... (76 words)

The boy I like seems to like me, but he's always chatting to my friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1039 days ago

7 July 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, There's a boy I like and he likes me. I found out he's going to ask me to go steady with him but I'm not sure he actually fancies me because he always chats to my friend on text and on msn but not at school. Does he fancy me or my friend? I'm really confused!... (66 words)

My friend and I have known each other for 20 years and I don't understand her juvenile jealousy...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1039 days ago

7 July 2005 (F)

- I have a girlfriend with whom I have been friends for 20 years now. She and I were both stay at home Moms when our children were small. Our children played together, we both volunteered, we both confided our problems to each other. Generally, it was a close friendship. Afte... (562 words)

My sister's boyfriend asked me out. I told her, but she just thinks I'm jealous of her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

7 July 2005 (F) - My sister has a boyfriend and everyone (including me) thinks they are the best couple. They’ve never had an argument, not once. But yesterday, her crush told me that he’s tired of his girlfriend and asked me to go out with him. Of course, I’ll never betray my sister. When I... (83 words)

He knows I don't want to marry him, but he's already bought our tickets back to his country!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1039 days ago

7 July 2005 (F) - I am female 27 yrs old and English, I have been in a relationship with an Albanian Guy for nearly four years. He has been back home to his country and came back to see me Feb this year. Now he wants to get married and I don't. I told him I would marry him, but I know it's ... (223 words)

My ex is free again, after his breakup, but he only wants to be "friends"...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1039 days ago

7 July 2005 (F) - Me and my ex have become friends. He just broke up with his year long girlfriend we talk every day but he still just wants to be my friend. but I'm still in love with him. What should I do?... (40 words)

I'm afraid that asking for help about my possessive partner might have been a mistake...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

7 July 2005 (?) - I am in a relationship with a man who is very possessive and obsesssive over everything. This behavior is affecting my life, my mental stability, and my ability to be a good parent. I just e-mailed my ex to ask for help. If my boyfriend found this out he would kill me. I t... (124 words)

Every night my husband sneaks out of bed to look at porn...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1039 days ago

7 July 2005 (F) - I really didn't know if I should write but for three weeks I have caught my husband staying up late to look at porno on the TV. I would turn over and just go to sleep. One night he gets in the bed, waits for me to go to sleep and then he gets up and goes on the computer... (100 words)

My husband won't help with the kids, and he gets moody because I'm working part time...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1039 days ago

7 July 2005 (?) - Hi, Not sure where to start. I have been with my husband for 4 years and married for 2 with a little girl of 1 and 2 children with my ex. The last few months, things have been bad with my husband and all we do is row. He don't help me out round the house or with the children... (191 words)

My girl has been with someone else for 4 years, even though she says she loves me best!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1034 days ago

7 July 2005 (M) - I am in love with a girl, who is in a relationship with another guy. Our relationship started in a strange way a year back. We were very good friends and then we realized that we have other feelings towards each other... After that, we have had so many intimate moments... (455 words)

I'd like to move from friendship to something more, but I don't want to risk what we have!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1038 days ago

7 July 2005 (F) - Recently I have felt feelings for a guy which are more than friendship. I have known him for 13 years and would like to be more to him than a friend but how can I tell him? I don't want it to ruin our friendship if it doesnt work out. Please help... (52 words)

My ex-girlfriend and I share the same friends, and things are awkward...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1039 days ago

7 July 2005 (M) - I've recently broke up with my ex-girlfriend of three years. But she's still always around being we have the same mutual friends. We're trying to stay friends, but it's hard considering the situation. How can I avoid the awkwardness without avoiding her or them?... (48 words)

I want to be a part of his life, but he scolded me for calling him...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 911 days ago

7 July 2005 (F) - I love a guy who is 1 year older than me for 5 years. We were students at that time. Now I am still studying and he is working. Recently he faced a very big financial problem. He does not want to communicate with me. He said no meeting or love till he attains success in his l... (93 words)

She cheated on me and I forgave her. Now we fight because she thinks I'LL cheat...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1039 days ago

7 July 2005 (M) - Hi, I've been going out with this girl for close to 8 months, I love her dearly with all my heart. We were really close friends for a very very long time before this. About 3 months into our relationship, which is 5 months back, she cheated on me and did some stuff with ... (176 words)

We're long-distance and I'm trying to understand why she won't talk about sex any more!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1039 days ago

7 July 2005 (F) - I am deeply in love with a younger woman, and we're trying our best at a long distance thing. We were sort of friends and then one day things got a bit intimate( ph sex) so I took it to mean she wanted more which I did too. So upon discussing it we decided we wanted to try a... (266 words)

When my ex and I meet for our trip away, how can I show her that I've changed for the better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1039 days ago

7 July 2005 (?) - Me and my ex broke up about 6 weeks ago on good terms. We still talk a lot but we are in different countries for the next 4 weeks. She says she feels we have drifted apart but we arranged to go away together about 2 months ago and still are. When I see here I want to show her... (120 words)

I was sex-texting a guy on the side and I got caught, but I've learned my lesson...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1039 days ago

7 July 2005 (F) - Hi. i am in a bit of a predicament. i have been with my fiance for almost 18months now and for the past few months, i have been sending "text sex" sms messages with someone else. We never actually physically touched, or saw each other during the time we were messaging. And... (234 words)

I want to come out to the oldies...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1039 days ago

7 July 2005 (M) - What is the least shocking way to tell your parents that you're gay?... (13 words)

How can I send him a friendly greeting, but not go over the top?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1037 days ago

7 July 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, My crush's fifteenth birthday is coming up,and I have been planning on e-mailing him for the occasion. This seemed like a pretty good idea until I realized that I have absolutely no clue what to say to him. I mean,I kind of want to say something a little more mea... (136 words)

Question about sex and pregnancy...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1039 days ago

7 July 2005 (?) - I want to know something that's been in my head recently after reading a few question her on this great site! ... It's been said that pregnancy is very likely to happen through clothes, oral, by rubbing each other, etc.. all sort of things... but I have a question in which I ... (136 words)

Feels like it's time to break up, but I can't bear to hurt my girlfriend's feelings...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 94 days ago

7 July 2005 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for about 2 years and lately I have wanted to break up with her because I think it is just time. I really want to know which is the best way to do this without hurting her. I can't bear to see her hurt... please help... (52 words)

This will be my first time having sex and I'm worried I won't know what to do!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 63 days ago

7 July 2005 (F) - It's my first time having sex and I don't really know what to do. If I'm having sex in the missionary position do I just lie still or should I move with the bloke? It seems a silly question but I'm nervous I won't know what to do.... (48 words)

I want to marry my 50-year-old boyfriend, but Mum thinks I should find a boy my own age!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

7 July 2005 (F) - I'M 18 and love my 50-year-old boyfriend very much. We met five years ago at a family barbecue. He loves me and has asked me to marry him, so we've set a date this time next year. The problem is I don't always understand him and this has caused many arguments between u... (167 words)