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Archived questions from: 28 July, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

When he's sober, things are really, really good...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 66 days ago

28 July 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have known each other for about 6 years.We would get together every now and then to have a few drinks.We always ended up staying the night together then the next morning we went our seperate ways. He knew everything about my relationships. About 1 year ago... (248 words)

Does he fancy me? Am I in love with him?

This question has 55 answers - newest was posted 35 days ago

28 July 2005 (F) - Hi, I have been going to school with this lad that I fancy for quite a while. He has been going out with this girl, On and off. She dumped him as she says he is boring then asks him out again, He always says Yes. I really fancy him and can't stand him going out with this gi... (136 words)

I finally got away from my violent ex. Should I tell his new girl what I know?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 871 days ago

28 July 2005 (F) - Hello Listeners, I ended my relationsip with my ex boyfriend, unfortonately 6 1/2 years later. It took me this long because I was dead inside and couldn't find my way back to who I really was. Well I'll say he was real careful in the beginning. He played me just right. He c... (531 words)

My fiancee has asked for 3 breaks in five months. He wants freedom but he wants me, too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1017 days ago

28 July 2005 (F) - My fiancee and I have been engaged for 5 months. About 3 times now, he has asked me for a break in our relationship. I always reluctantly let him, but the day after he does this he always wants me back. He wants to marry me and live a stable life, but he also wants to be a ... (64 words)

He says he loves me... but does he mean it?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

28 July 2005 (F) - I have a boyfriend who tells me he loves me all the time in person and over the phone, etc. The problem is when he says it in person to me he never looks me in the face. What does this mean? I would think someone whould look you in the face if they ment it. So I am guessing ... (93 words)

Because of my past actions, my boyfriend has lost trust in me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1018 days ago

28 July 2005 (F) - I am a passive-aggresive person in my relationship with my boyfriend. I have difficulty telling him what hurts me, and when he does I just play it off like it didn't hurt me and laugh about the situation. Because of this I have done things and have lost his trust. How do I open ... (61 words)

I want to get married. He wants to get married. But he keeps telling me "Later"!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1018 days ago

28 July 2005 (F) - background: My boyfriend and I have dated since June 2001, when I was 16 and he was 19 years old. We've changed and grown and through it all we've managed to have our love grow and change in turn. Albeit many ups and downs, we are still wonderfully happy and in love after ov... (339 words)

We've met online and I think I'm already falling for her...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1015 days ago

28 July 2005 (M) - Hi all- Hope you can help me. The last time I was on here I asked a question about a girl I liked, a girl who I started seeing and sleeping with and a girl (aged 18) who I thought I was falling in love with. With me being such a 'softie' and for feeling that she felt the same... (270 words)

My girlfriend's getting serious with me, but I'm starting to be attracted to someone else...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1019 days ago

28 July 2005 (M) - I have been going out with a girl for 1 year and a half! She is starting to take things seriously but I feel that I am madly in love with another girl who happens to be my mate's girlfriend (not serious though)! What can I do?... (47 words)

She wants to meet my mother. Is it too soon?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1019 days ago

28 July 2005 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 & a half months. Some friction has arisen because she has yet to meet my mother. What is considered a 'normal' amount of time before introducing your partner to your parents? Thank you.... (48 words)

She's taking her ex to the wedding. Is this a red flag?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 901 days ago

28 July 2005 (M) - My girlfriend is attending a wedding with her ex boyfriend without me. She feels too uncomfortable to include me. What should I be thinking?... (24 words)

He wanted a break, so I moved out. Now, how do I ask to come home?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1015 days ago

28 July 2005 (F) - My boyfriend & I have been together for 5 years and have currently been on a break since the end of March. I moved back to my mum's and I see him at the weekend and a few nights in the week. I feel as he wanted this break I am sacrificing a lot to make him happy as I don't wa... (81 words)

I dumped my abusive ex. So why is he back, texting me how much he loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1017 days ago

28 July 2005 (F) - I split from my ex over 18 months ago. He was abusive and I couldnt take it any more. Him putting me in hospital was the final straw. Now I'm recieving email and text messages from him telling me how much he loves me and wants me back. I'm under a lot of stress as it is, so w... (78 words)

I was worried that the passion in our relationship would die. It looks like it's happening!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1018 days ago

28 July 2005 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend since February since meeting online. I moved in with him almost a month ago. Before there was so much affection and we made love regularly. Since moving in we don't make love and affection is limited, though we get on great. I know I have h... (172 words)

Both my friend and I are in relationships... so should I tell him that my romantic feelings for him are back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1018 days ago

28 July 2005 (F) - I've known this close friend for some time. Two years ago, we discovered we were highly attracted to each other but we decided not to act upon it because both of us were in a lt relationship at that time. To stop these awkward feelings from growing stronger, we even decided to ... (212 words)

How important is physical attraction in a marriage?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

28 July 2005 (M) - I have been married for just a few months. I am not attracted to my wife. We are great friends. Our personality matches. We support each other. However the physical attraction is just not there for me. It is not that she is not an attractive person but certain basic as... (190 words)

My crush lives in another part of the world, but I can't stop thinking about him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1018 days ago

28 July 2005 (F) - HI, I'm 16. I have a crush on this guy who is 17. We live in different parts of the world. I've never had a crush and I don't know what to do. I can't stop thinking about him.... (39 words)

Mad at my lover, I told his wife what was going on between us...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1018 days ago

28 July 2005 (?) - I had an affair which lasted 2 months. In this time I fell in love with this man. He was in a very unhappy marriage and had left his wife before he met me, but went back for the sake of his child. He'd phone and text me every day. And we used to met up when we could. Things... (205 words)

Am I wrong for wanting my girlfriend to get rid of old romantic keepsakes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 892 days ago

28 July 2005 (M) - I was watching my girlfriend cleaning out her closet/junk drawer and I happen to notice some things. Things like old pictures, cards, and letter from ex-boyfriends that she still keeps. I can't say I don't care but it is bothering me. The way I see it, if someone keeps "stuff" ... (78 words)

I want to trust her, but we've been apart for a few months now...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1019 days ago

28 July 2005 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been having a long distance relationship for a few months now and we speak on the phone twice a day. I'm moving to where she is very soon but I cannot help but feel insecure in that she may have done something while I have been away. I trust her ... (72 words)

I just want an apology for his standing me up on our date!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1019 days ago

28 July 2005 (F) - I have a dating problem. I know this guy who asked me out. I met him in the hospital while my father was there. So anyway he kissed me and he gave me my first kiss. He is 21 and I am 16. Anyway the day of the date he never came. I just want an apology, I don´t know what to do.... (63 words)

Everything was getting me down, but I blamed it on my boyfriend. What can I do to make it up to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1019 days ago

28 July 2005 (F) - Hi, My man and I have been together for 8 months. At the beginning it was absolutely fantastic. We had so much fun together and just simply enjoyed being with one another. We have the same interests and the same goals in life. We both see a future for us. BUT I only brok... (413 words)

My dressing up sexy for him does nothing. He tells me he's too tired for sex. Can our relationship survive this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1017 days ago

28 July 2005 (F) - Does my boyfriend lie to me that he loves me if he doesn't want to have sex with me? We`ve been together for almost 2 years. But recently we just stopped having a sexual relationship. The reason is not me. He says that he is tired and doesn't like how I turn him on. But also... (147 words)

What's your opinion of my plan to meet my online guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1020 days ago

28 July 2005 (F)

- Dear Friends, I have been talking with this guy I meet online for almost 8 months. We talk online and on the phone, it has become a habit for us to talk daily. I have very strong feelings for him and we only live about 2 hours apart. I love him, I know it's love, I have nev... (353 words)

We've been dating for almost 3 years and he still runs hot and cold, and says he can't decide how he feels...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1019 days ago

28 July 2005 (F) - I have been in a three year relationship with my boyfriend. We are both divorced. I have two children, one 25 and other 16. He has a 7 year old. In year one we dated and did not include the children, believing we needed to know each other first. In year two we began doing so... (898 words)