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Archived questions from: 22 July, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

We use lube, but I still get sore! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1023 days ago

22 July 2005 (F) - Me and my boyfriend started having sex a few months ago. At the start it was uncomfortable but we decided to use some lubrication. Now however after sex finally getting good and enjoyable, it's starting to get sore when ever we do it (with the lube). I'm not sure what it is or... (66 words)

When my marriage was in trouble, I had a brief affair. Now I just feel used...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

22 July 2005 (F) - hi, I had a brief affair because of some problems in my marriage. The affair is now over. Instead of feeling better, I feel used by the other man who promised to be there for me no matter what. My husband does not know of the affair, but he really wants to make our marriag... (119 words)

I love my fiancee and I don't want to lose him, so why did I sleep with another man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 882 days ago

22 July 2005 (F) - I've been with my Boyfriend for 2 1/2 yrs and we are supposed to be getting married next year. A couple of days ago I slept with another man! I now dont know how I feel and I can't bring myself to look at him. My b/f knows I met up with this guy but he doesn't know anyt... (232 words)

My wife takes the reins of every project and I feel left out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1023 days ago

22 July 2005 (M) - Hello everybody My wife of 6+ years is a tomboy to the extent that she wants to do almost everything around the house. From painting the house to electric stuff. My problem is that I don't feel good about myself because I feel that I should be doing projects. She takes ... (169 words)

Ten years ago, I split with my ex, but I still have strong feelings for him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1004 days ago

22 July 2005 (F) - Hi, I have been having dreams about my ex from college. He was my 1st proper boyfriend at the age of 16-18. I loved him so much, and the only reason we split up was because he moved away to study. I didn't want to hold him back. He is 3 years older. I'm now 27. I haven't... (186 words)

My ex's friend is interfering and I worry she could affect our reconciliation...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1023 days ago

22 July 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I've just moved out of our home that I shared with my girlfriend of 3 years and her teenage son. Because of constant conflict between myself and the teenager I agreed to move out of our home so that we could work thru our issues. That was 2 months ago, since then ... (118 words)

She's thrown me out, but I always cave in and go back to her. Now I want to guarantee we stay together...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1021 days ago

22 July 2005 (M) - Can anyone help me? I have been seeing my g/f on and off 4 3 and half years. I love her more than anything, but my relationship is causing so much tension. We have a very passionate relationship, and in the past, my g/f has thrown me out of the house (its her house) after we'... (379 words)

We're engaged to be married, but he seems to believe that it's just so we can have kids!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1024 days ago

22 July 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for the last 3 years. We are due to be married in Sept this year. The problem is we keep having arguments about a baby. I am 32 and my partner is 34. I have a daughter of 13, from a prev relationship, but have never been married. My partner ... (179 words)

Why would my boyfriend rather spend time with his guy friends, when I'm right there on his street?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1022 days ago

22 July 2005 (F) - Hi I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months, which I think isn't very long. We live in the same street but yet he never has time for me. Sometimes I think he's gay because he never leaves his guy friends. When I complain about it all he does is apologize but then keeps on ... (64 words)

Part II: He says I'm everything he wants in a woman, but he just isn't happy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1024 days ago

22 July 2005 (F) - Hi. I asked a question on 18 July 2005 and got some great advice. Basically to make it short me and my man have been dating for 6 months. He started a new job working long hours and I have been stressed with work so things haven't been good. He said that he is happy BU... (355 words)

I don't think I can stand my partner's drinking binges and disappearances any more.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1020 days ago

22 July 2005 (F) - High School Sweethearts. I came in the military and decided that my boyfriend, at the time, was my one and only. Once in the military, we kept a long distance relationship, and after school got engaged. Drinking became a problem, better yet, an addiction. Things were thr... (389 words)

I love my girlfriend and the sex is great, but I just can't stop thinking about her previous lovers!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

22 July 2005 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for almost a year now and am very much in love. Our relationship is great on every level. However she is 8 years my senior and far more sexually experinced than me. She has had at least 4 times as many lovers as me, some of whom I know, and was ... (126 words)

Not sure if my girlfriend is a virgin...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

22 July 2005 (M) - I just had sex with my girl for the first time. It wasn't too good, just like I expected, but because no blood came out I'm not sure that she is not a virgin any more ? I know that some girls do not bleed when they have sex for the first time but is it possible that she is ... (79 words)