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Archived questions from: 6 July, 2005 (see latest questions)

(More questions from July, 2005)

Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I start off hard, then go soft. What's wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1017 days ago

6 July 2005 (M) - When i am making love to my girlfriend, (in the beginning) I always have a hard erection. but, as we go on, my penis begins to go soft which makes us stop having sex. I was wondering if you had any tips on what I should do without taking pills to maintain a strong erection. ... (57 words)

I thought we hated each other...we've fought in class for years. So why would he sing love songs to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1038 days ago

6 July 2005 (F) - Ever since the first year of high school, I always thought I hated this guy in my year, and he hated me. We always used to disrupt the class by having full-blown arguments with each other, and we used to insult each other too. I once told him that he needed to sort his life ... (114 words)

Am I a fool to take back my cheating boyfriend?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

6 July 2005 (F) - What to do? I recently discovered my boyfriend has cheated on me. We have been together six months and I love him dearly. The problem is I never trusted him and was not surprised when I found out! The problem is my mother very recently died and I feel I just can't cope with ... (117 words)

The girl I like acts very silly around me, and I think it's because we're both afraid...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1040 days ago

6 July 2005 (M) - I think I like this girl. We act really silly around each other. She avoids having a one on one conversation with me. I think she is afraid because I do the same thing. I am afraid of being hurt. What must I do? Should I try to talk to her and avoid not letting her know how... (64 words)

He made a decision to end it between us, because I "do his head in"...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1039 days ago

6 July 2005 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 and a half years finished me on Saturday. He said he's sick of me, can't stand me and that I do his head in. He said that we'll be friends though n we'll see each other all the time, but now I see him more now we're 'mates' than when we were going out. Why ... (154 words)

My husband lied about his financial status and it's driving a big wedge between us!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

6 July 2005 (F) - My husband and I have been married since June 2004. We dated for two and half years before that. Financially he is ruined and never told me before we wed. In his defense, he said he had money issues, but I see that as needing to pay a credit card late. I have foun... (341 words)

Girls know me as smart and academic, but I'm pretty much at a loss when asking them out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1039 days ago

6 July 2005 (M) - During high school I was pretty much known as a pretty smart person that cared more about academics than being incredibly social. I suppose girls just assumed I wasn't interested in a relationship. I do believe that most high school relationships are trivial and too dramatic, ... (136 words)

I want to talk to the girl I like and I don't know how to start...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

6 July 2005 (M) - I have some problem. Please give me some advice. I like some girl but I don't know how to talk with her. She studies in the same class with me but I don't know how to start a relationship with her. I hope I will get the great answer soon. Thanks for coming to answer me.... (56 words)

In 7 months, he's never taken me out or called on a weekend. Is he already in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1010 days ago

6 July 2005 (F) - HI, I'm 24 and have been going out with my boyfriend that is 17 yrs older than myself for 7 months. The thing is in all this time he has never taken me out or called after work or indeed on a weekend. I have asked him many times if he is married or got a girlfriend but he swear... (92 words)

What can I do about my issues with friendships and relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1040 days ago

6 July 2005 (M) - I have some serious issues with relationships. I manage to win friends but can't hold on to them, meaning I either get scared by their possessiveness or too much intimacy as things start getting taken for granted. I sometimes feel I myself allowpeople to take control of me an... (74 words)

Only engaged for a month, but I feel I'm being taken for granted already!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 752 days ago

6 July 2005 (F) - Ever since we got engaged -1 month ago - my finacee seems to be taking me for granted by us having quickie sex (ie: no forplay or romance) and the flowers and hugs and kisses have all but stopped. What should I do?... (44 words)

My longtime boyfriend is so busy that I felt lonely... and found someone else!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 90 days ago

6 July 2005 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years. We share our time together. I love him very much. But now he is very busy. So I feel very lonely. One month ago I was found a really nice guy. He takes care of me and he always been there for me. He was everythi... (101 words)

Our good relationship is being spoiled by my eldest child!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1040 days ago

6 July 2005 (F) - I have 2 children and I am divorced. I am in a relationship with a man and my eldest child has created so much trouble that he has decided to end it. Is there any advice on how I can try and save us? We are deeply in love but it's my child who is coming between us. Help ple... (72 words)

Now that my g/f is ready for sex, I can hardly keep up! How can I make it better for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1040 days ago

6 July 2005 (M) - My girlfriend and me have been dating for almost 2 years, and we just really got into sex recently, we didn't do anything for over a year, I didn't pressure her because I really like her and all of a sudden she just came around and I can hardly keep up! I have 2 problems... (166 words)

What can I do to get my friend to forgive me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

6 July 2005 (M) - I argued with my best friend. I tried to call to say sorry but he always rejects my call.What should I do?... (22 words)

My ex is seeing a friend and I feel stupid for not realising it was going on...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 837 days ago

6 July 2005 (F) - A few days ago I discovered that my ex is seeing a friend of his, I have always been jealous of this friendship, and always felt slightly inadequate to her. We were together for nearly 3 years and was deeply in love with him. Now I feel sick that he has liked her all that time ... (133 words)