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Archived questions from: 31 July, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

We had one date that seemed to go OK, but now he won't even make eye contact with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

31 July 2005 (F) - I'm a 16 year old girl, and I work every day. Next door to the shop there is a groceries, and a boy who is 18. He asked me out for a coffee, and we hit it off. He goes to the college I am starting in September. He kept texting me things, one example was on my birthday at midni... (169 words)

We were having problems and he accepted a date from a client...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1008 days ago

31 July 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going through lots of problems in the last month. We have been together almost 7 months now. In the last 4 days everything have improved immensley. He has started to act like himself again ie. wanting sex, giving me affection, talking long term ... (437 words)

I can't believe that my ex would say awful things about me behind my back...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1008 days ago

31 July 2005 (F)

- I'm a 16 year old girl and I have a really big problem. A year ago I met this really amazing guy *James. We started going out with in a few days of meeting each other. We fell in love with each other and he worked so hard to make me see that he really was in love with me but w... (215 words)

I love him, but he wants to explore other options while he's at college...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1014 days ago

31 July 2005 (F) - I met the fella of my dreams. He is 18 and I am 24. He starts college on August 1st and now decides he wants to go and be free while he is school to do whatever he wants. He wants us to just be friends and let our relationship grow. I don't have a problem with that at all but ... (131 words)

My long-distance guy is worried that if we step back it'll destroy what we have. Thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1016 days ago

31 July 2005 (?) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years long distance, and he is coming here soon so we will finally be in the same city. Recently I've had some doubts as to whether things are going to work out, and really, I've had these doubts before but we've either talked through ... (293 words)

My partner and I have 5 years of history, but his wife is still in the picture...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1016 days ago

31 July 2005 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 5 years now. I am divorced, my partner is still married but not living with his wife. We both have children but not together. There is no sign that he is going to divorce his wife, his usual reason is money and threat to his family business. ... (193 words)

I told the girl how I feel, but she said she wouldn't go out with me 'cause I'm too much of a mate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1014 days ago

31 July 2005 (M) - I'm friends with this girl. Recently I have told her that I fancy her and that I would like to go out with her. The thing is she is still trying to get over a break up with her boyfriend but he treated her so badly. When I told her how I felt she was suprised. I'm a open min... (118 words)

Is it unfair of me to feel upset that she's going camping with a male friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1015 days ago

31 July 2005 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for the last 16 months. We don't live together and only see each other at weekends. We chat on the phone mid week. She recently told me that she will be spending a night away camping with a male friend that she met whilst on holiday in Austr... (130 words)

Rumour is that my boyfriend has cheated, and he likes to be alone when he goes clubbing. Should I be concerned?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1016 days ago

31 July 2005 (F) - Hi, I have been going out with my boyfriend Dave for about a year. I have known him for four years and i have felt that i have always loved him. It was love at first sight for me, and he eventually first asked me out when I was fourteen. He was seventeen at the time and I wa... (452 words)

My boyfriend wants to try oral sex, but I can't get past my revulsion...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 809 days ago

31 July 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and only in the last week or so, he's voiced his desire to attempt oral sex. The act has no appeal to me whatsoever and I am highly reluctant to attempt it. He says that whatever I decide will not change how he feels ab... (183 words)

Not sure where my ex and I stand. Should I wait around or go with someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1014 days ago

31 July 2005 (?) - hey, Me and my boyfriend split up, yet we maintained 'everything' you get in a relationship. This has been kinda painful. He hints that he likes me but I dont know if we would ever get back together. The person who I have been confiding in recently turned round and said the... (83 words)

My girlfriend enjoys it when I want to do something sexual, but she doesn't respond in kind!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1015 days ago

31 July 2005 (M) - Hi, my girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 months now and our love for each other is as strong as ever. But when it comes to sexual actions she seems hesitant. She lets me do things to her and she enjoys it, but then she doesn't do anything back. I feel a bit used and empt... (96 words)

I'm shy and I'd like to learn to be more outgoing...

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

31 July 2005 (F) - I find it very hard to make conversation with guys. I talk to them, just not that long. People like to kid around with me because I'm so shy, but I don't want to be shy. How can I break the habit? ... (42 words)

He flew me from Miami to Boston and we had an intense time. Now what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 962 days ago

31 July 2005 (F) - I was on vacation in Miami (from London) and I met a guy who I instantly took a strong liking to. After only a couple of hours, we slept together (I couldn't resist) We got along really well and had a lot in common and seemingly a lot of chemistry. He was also on vacation... (1246 words)