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Hi, I have been through loads in my life. Marriage break up, boyfriend break ups, and been a single parent. I have been treated really bad sometimes, but i think this is all to do with life. I dont hold grudges, and have a good sence of humour. I just love all my friends and family, and have loads of support from them. So i thought i could share that with a few of you. I have asked for advice a few times. You dont always want to hear it, but there are some smart people out there.

I have now found, after a lot of searching, my soul mate. But lifes not all a bed of roses for us. But he keeps me smiling, well most of the time anyway.

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My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   6 April 2009: Glad to hear that, I'm really pleased for you honey. Take care and enjoy your new life...you certainly deserve it. XXXX... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   17 July 2008: Sarcy, its only expensive because you both made it that way. I totally understand how upset and bitter you were, but you cannot stop this man from seeing his child, no matter how you feel about it. Because its totally un-fair on your son. You are ... (read in full...)

My husband left me for his young mistress. Will they work out in the future?

Q.   i am the typical story of the wife whos husband left for the young mistress. im sick of hearing that a husband never leaves in those circumstances because im proof that they do. He was happy until she came into the equation and then he completely ...

A.   3 June 2008: Hi, I feel so desperatly sorry for you. I understand how much it hurts when your husband walks out. The thing is, I truly believe that if he felt the same way that you do, he would never have looked somewhere else. If it hadnt been this girl it woul... (read in full...)

Want to dump my boyfriend without getting fired! He's my boss and he's married.

Q.   I want to dump my boyfriend who is also my boss! and i,m worried i will lose my job. What should i do? He is a married man....

A.   2 June 2008: He cant sack you for not wanting a relationship with him. However he could make it difficult for you to work there, so my advice unless you are a strong lady, is to find a new job. I can garantee you though, he will be a lot more scared than you.... (read in full...)

Is it okay for first cousins (both male) to have sex with each other?

Q.   is it ok for 1st cousins (both male) to have sex with each other...

A.   2 June 2008: I dont think its iligal if you are the oposite sex, so I cant see why it should be different for to males. Sounds a bit icky though, and the family might get upset if they find out. Still its your life honey.... (read in full...)

Sex with a co-worker tips, please no lectures.

Q.   I want to know what is the best and easiest way to get a co-worker into bed, skip any moral lecture. How do I do this without embarrasing myself or getting into trouble at work, how could I find out what he thinks of me, without directly asking...

A.   2 June 2008: Just ask him if he fancies a shag with no complications. And ask him to keep it quite. I'm sure he will go for it, most blokes wouldnt turn down sex without feelings!! or would they?... (read in full...)

My wife doesn't know I have another child, but I'm sure knows about my cheating. She has MS and I don't want to cause her or the ex gf any more pain!

Q.   I've been married for 13 years, we have a 14yr old daughter and my wife has had Mutiple Sclrosis (MS) since 1996 and I had a 3 year affair with a woman that just ended and we have a daugther who turns 2yrs old soon. At the time of the affair, my ...

A.   2 June 2008: What can you do apart from coming clean about what you have done?. It's no good lying because sooner or later you will get found out and it will be a lot worse. Your child cannot be kept from you if you wish to see her, but you must tell your wife ... (read in full...)

Why does she treat me like dirt?

Q.   I have been seeing a woman for 6 months, there have been good times and bad times, but overall there has been progress...and that is what keeps me in this relationship. However, I am burnt out and my heart is dying, and on the two occassions I pla...

A.   28 May 2008: I am not making excuses for this woman, but could she be going through the change if she is as old as yourself. I have a close friend that is going through this and her personality has completely changed. She has gone from being a wonderfull kind ... (read in full...)

I'm furious with my boyfriend for the way he broke up with me!

Q.   I'm so hurt. So, so hurt. My boyfriend and i got back together yesterday. We had a faboulous time! He had broken up with me because of things from the past. But we got back together and spent most of the day together. Then, at night, he got up...

A.   28 May 2008: Totally agree with all the others. This guy is a waste of space honey. I will tell you how you can get back at him big time though!!! Dump him and move on.... he will remember that a lot longer than a punch in the face. That will be a punch in the ... (read in full...)

What are positive ways to get male attention?

Q.   I hate that I need it, but I've come to realize that when I'm not dating someone, I obsess about dating someone, anyone. I don't particularly want to date anyone. I don't have the time, and there isn't anyone I like. Still I find that I need male ...

A.   28 May 2008: I was tempted to say become a pole dancer..... they get loads of male attention and dont have to be with one. Anyway that was just a joke. I think you seem insecure to me, and that any attention is better than being on your own. This could stem back... (read in full...)

My best friend stopped making time for me, should I give up and ditch her for good?

Q.   My problem in a nutshell is a girl who used to be my best friend has changed and I dont know whether to cut all ties. We met seven years ago and hit it off straight away, we were the best of friends and could tell eachother everything. Five...

A.   28 May 2008: Hi Emma, Personally I think you are too over ocupied with what your mate is doing. I dont want to sound harsh but you are acting like a very jealous person, and that could be why she is reacting that way. I do understand that you think a lot of this... (read in full...)

I thought he wanted me back, but he seems to be with this married woman. What's going on?

Q.   I have been with my partner 14 years he is 44 I am 57. we lived together for 9 years then went through problems and decided to part. he got his own place and I stayed in mine. after a month or so we decided that we couldnt live with eachother or ...

A.   23 May 2008: I totally agree with the other ladies. Long and short of it is! He is no good for you, and is using you when it suit's him. Dont let this happen, be strong and get rid of him. I dont mean to scare you, but if he can do this now, what will he do in ... (read in full...)

I'm 13, is it OK for me to loose my virginity?

Q.   im 13 is it okay to loose my virginity im not sure can anybody help ?...

A.   22 May 2008: Hell No! of course its not a good idea. Why would you want to, its that, that beats me. Virginity not just some gross inconvienience (sorry if i spelt that wrong) to get rid of as soon as you can. The first time should be with a person that you ... (read in full...)

I have a crush on someone who has a GF, how do I make friends with them?

Q.   okay i am in sixth grade and i have a HEEUGE crush on this boy his name isnt this but i will call him bob he is in 8th grade and he has a gf Call her Sally well shes in 7th i really wanna be frinds with them just cuz they seem so cool but i dont ...

A.   22 May 2008: Hang on! You want to be friends with them just because you have a crush on the guy, and they are a cool couple? It sounds to me like you want to break them up, so I dont think you should bother.... (read in full...)

I'm trimming down my boy with excercise and healthy diet, however my face is not losing weight, its still chubby

Q.   I have been excercising for a while now. I noticed that my body is changing and losing weight. However my face is not losing weight, its still chubby. I don't know why. I've been eating a lot of fruits and veggies, sometimes fish, and I don't eat a ...

A.   22 May 2008: Honey that could be just the shape of your face. We dont all have the same shape you know. And anyway you dont want to look ill do you?... (read in full...)

Dating a married man for 3 years and he treats me like a queen. But I'm starting to worry. What should I do?

Q.   I've been dating a married man for 3 years. I ignored him for a year because of that reson but he pursed and treated me like a queen. He says he's leaving date after date but their's always an excuse. He's been w her since he was 12 has 2 kids and ...

A.   22 May 2008: Ok hold on!!! Firstly I did not call every woman that was married an "Evil Cow". If you could be bothered to read my answer more carefully , I actually said "For all we know she could be". Yes my ex-husband did have an affair, and begged to come... (read in full...)

I'm not in love with him anymore, but I can't bring myself to break up with him!

Q.   I'm going out with this boy but I don't know what to do, I don't love him anymore I love this other boy. Ever since me and my boyfriend met people have said that we should date so I gave it a go. He says that he loves me but lately I've met a boy wh...

A.   21 May 2008: Please take notice of what the other Aunts have said. Be honest with your boyfriend, and tell him how you feel. He will respect you for not going behind his back.... (read in full...)

Does having a child bring you closer to your partner?

Q.   if you hav a child from your partner do you become closer....

A.   21 May 2008: In a word NO........Children are a wonderfull gift, but extremely hard work. If your relationship isnt strong I would'nt advise you to have any. Its an enormous strain on both parties, even if you are close, so you can imagine what its like with a ... (read in full...)

How can I break my Father's heart by telling him that my Mom is cheating?

Q.   HI all, This question is not directly involving me, but even though I can not control it, I reap the consequences of the problem. All of my life, I have believed that I had the "perfect homelife." My parents always told my siblings and I th...

A.   20 May 2008: Hi, I'm not sure what you are hinting at about the fire. Are you saying you think she was trying to set fire to the house?. Because if you do think that, and are worried maybe you should tell your Dad. As for the text message, you shouldnt really go ... (read in full...)

I need to know how I can move on from all this and stop the cycle of bad relationships and lies.

Q.   I am totally and utterly dispairing of my own behaviour. I got married very young at age 21 and was never very happy from the outset. By age 24 I had a brief affair with a married man and immediately told my husband. He was very calm (almost not ...

A.   20 May 2008: Well! You made the first major step by admitting you have a problem. It would be nice if we could all meet the right partner straight away and never have anymore heartache, but life isnt like that. I wonder why you pick married men to have affa... (read in full...)

My 3 year old is masturbating, how should I to handle this? Is it normal?

Q.   hi i'm a mom, i have a question if a girl 3 year old she is masturbation herself is normal? if it is what can i do for that, to me is not normal cos she just too baby please somebody help me?...

A.   20 May 2008: If its any consolation, I found my daughter and the next door neighbours daughter, had been trying to sharpen pencil's in there. They really had no idea why they thought you could, and it certainly wasn't a sexual act. My next door neighbour went ... (read in full...)

He wants naked pictures of me

Q.   Ive been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 months. Its a long distance relationship. To be honest Ive never met him before yet. He is a friend of mines boyfriends brother. We enjoy talking to each other everynight for more than 4 hours. We just ...

A.   20 May 2008: Darling!! Ditch this guy now. He has no respect what-so-ever, and like the other aunts have said, You dont know where the pictures of you will end up. If I were you I would be tempted to tell your brother, so he knows what kind of mates he has.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's dad is cheating and it's becoming my problem

Q.   Well the thing is me and my bf have been together for 4 years and went to the uk when i finished school now that were back were living with his parents but his dad is cheating on his mom and they never speak to each other so u can imagine the ...

A.   20 May 2008: I totally agree with Aunt Adrey, its not your problem. If they ask for you to become part of it tell them NO. They should be sorting this out themselves, and not envolving you. Its not really fair on you is it?... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants to become a Buddhist monk. What can I do?

Q.   I have been together with my bf for 3 years. He is stable and nice guy. Few days back, he told me that he wants to become a monk when he is 55 years old and that was his goal in his life. I was totally speechless, besides tears i really dont know ...

A.   20 May 2008: Wow! thats a big problem for you isnt it?. Have you asked him where this will leave you, and your future together. Of course there is always the chance that he might change his mind over time. But if he is adamant, you need to think if there a ... (read in full...)

My husband thinks my vibrators are "dirty things" and he doesn't sleep with me

Q.   My husband and I have been together 3 years, married 8 months of those. We have 2 young children, my husband was very very keen to have a family hence why we had one so soon plus he is 10 years older than me. For the first 6 months, sex was ...

A.   20 May 2008: Normally I would never advise for a person to just give up on thier marriage. But if you have exhusted trying to get him to listen, and do something about it, I cant see that you have much option. Perhaps if you did leave for a while, he might just ... (read in full...)

I think her BF is cheating on her, and I like her. What should I do, forget her?

Q.   Hi all Got myself a bit of a pickle. Last weekend i was out with my mates and we ended up in a nightclub. I met this really really nice girl there, we ended up dancin and talkin for ages. tho she was very shy and kept smiling whenever i looke...

A.   6 May 2008: Advice is:: Dont get involved. If you tell her she will not thank you for it believe me! I know its hard when you like someone, but the fact is she is taken and didnt use your number, so that is a clear indication that she wants her boyfriend. If h... (read in full...)

Is it over or can we save this destructive relationship??

Q.   Hi I'm in a situation and I don't know what to do. I'm going out with my boyfriend nearly 3 years and we moved in together last September, things have got pretty bad since we moved in together. I'm just not happy anymore and I don't think he is ...

A.   6 May 2008: Hi! This is so weird because my son and his girlfriend are in exactly the same situation, even down to the fact they have just been on holiday together. I joined them on part of it and they seemed fine but told me they were going to split up. They... (read in full...)

Does anybody have experience of getting back after splitting-up??

Q.   My partner left me in the fall of last year and since then I've been looking after her daughter and our 5 kids and I'm coping pretty terribly. The eldest three are teenagers so they don't really need any looking after but the younger three are ...

A.   6 May 2008: Wow!! why did she leave all the kids with you?. Im a mum and no way would I leave my children. And dont say your not a good dad, you cant be that bad as you have kept the family together, with no help. So hats off to you, because I know many men ... (read in full...)

Will he expect me to sleep with him? We've been sex texting and I sent him a raunchy picture of myself...

Q.   I have been sex texting (quite explicit) a guy and sent him a raunchy picture of myself. He is taking me out for dinner next week. Do you think he will be expecting me to sleep with him as I've sent him these raunchy messages? I have already been ...

A.   2 May 2008: What do you think!!! of course he will be expecting it. You have given him the signal that you are up for it by sending him pictures and messages. If you were young and not old enough to know better, I would think you were just a bit naive. But your ... (read in full...)

I am very inexperienced with sex and relationships, and was raped 6 years ago by a bf, now I've started dating a new guy...but I need some advice!

Q.   Hi I've never posted here before, and I kind of need some advice. I'm in my late 20's, and am going out on a third date with a guy I've known for a couple of months. We get along really well and really dig each other. The thing is, I know that in ...

A.   2 May 2008: Hi, Sorry to hear that was your first experience, it must have been awfull. But you have dealt with it and got on with your life, so that is brilliant. Maybe you could just tell your partner that you dont have much experience and need to take thin... (read in full...)

I feel rejected because my ex is with a younger woman. Is he self destructing?

Q.   Hello - two months ago I broke up with my 40 year old boyfriend but I hoped it would just be a separation. I haven't contacted him and was surprised that he hadn't contacted me but now I have found out that he is seeing a 26 year old girl. I am ...

A.   2 May 2008: Honey! I was with a guy for nearly 12 years, and he made most of it misserable. Eventually I plucked up the courage and left the bugger. He then went out with an American girl who was almost 20 years younger than me. Although I didnt want him, I ... (read in full...)

I feel there are three people in this marrage: my husband, I, the wife and his ex girlfriend! Am I overreacting?

Q.   I have been married for over a year now. my husband has become distant in our relationship. I recently found a bill with calls and texts to one number on a daily basis, ranging from one up to six times a day for the last 3 months. I confronted my h...

A.   2 May 2008: No I dont! How dare he do that behind your back, then tell you that you are over-reacting. He is your husband and he should tell you everything important. If he is phoning her a few times a day, I would say thats pretty important. Sorry but his ... (read in full...)

How Do I Play Hard To Get In a 6 month Relationship?

Q.   Hello Friends, please advise me on what I should do. I met a man 6 months ago and we fell deeply in love. Or at least I fell very hard for him and told him this right away, thanks to my vodka tonic. What I liked about him was that he is extr...

A.   2 May 2008: I dont understand then! The world is your oyster, so why bother with him if he cant be bothered himself.... (read in full...)

I am driving myself insane wondering if am I a fool to think he will not repeat his past as soon as we get into problems?!?

Q.   Really need some unbiased advice. Sorry this is long, feel you need enough information as possible. I can't stop worrying about whether or not my partner will cheat on me eventually. I am finding it so hard to trust him, but I can't break up w...

A.   2 May 2008: This is a really hard one, because your partner has already proved that when the going gets tough he lines up the next girl. He has a point that you should not be with a person if they dont like your child, but I find it disturbing that he cann... (read in full...)

How can one use somebody for sex and NOT feel guilty??

Q.   How do guys (or girls) who use someone for sex, sleep at night? I mean honestly I just dont understand how they can use someone for sex and not feel guilty at all. What makes them think its OK to use someone like that? What goes on in there mind? ...

A.   2 May 2008: I have wondered this myself. But I think that its just a case of one person will get attached and the other wont. I have always thought that sex should be with a person that you love, but many of my friends would not agree, and think its fine to ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   2 May 2008: Uncle Phil is right babe!! dont hang it out anymore than you have to. Except he is gone and have a good cry, but for goodness sake dont let those solicitors have any more of your money. Even if they get him to admit he is the biggest ar**hole in the ... (read in full...)

Do you think he'll cheat? He has his cell phone off! I don't even know if it counts as cheating!

Q.   Me and my BF are kind of on a break... He went out of town and is returning on Saturday. Just before going away yesterday, we fought and he dumped me. I had seen him a few days before. he almost criend when he said he'd miss me. I gave him my...

A.   2 May 2008: Just because he has his phone off, does not mean he would cheat. You are running ahead of yourself a bit, but I dont blame you in the slightest. He should not give you mixed messages, and make you think that you are getting back together, if your ... (read in full...)

My son was accused of attacking a family member, now my husband and I are having problems. Can you please help?

Q.   A year back one of my husband's sisters-in-law saaid in front of every one that my son try to attack her. She was telling lies to proove my son wrong in front of all the family members. She is a currupt person, but still all the family members ...

A.   2 May 2008: This is more common than you think, so your not alone. My partner has hardly spoken to his brother for 15 years. All because the brothers wife said something completely stupid but very hurtfull at a family gathering. The family have all learned to ... (read in full...)

How Do I Play Hard To Get In a 6 month Relationship?

Q.   Hello Friends, please advise me on what I should do. I met a man 6 months ago and we fell deeply in love. Or at least I fell very hard for him and told him this right away, thanks to my vodka tonic. What I liked about him was that he is extr...

A.   2 May 2008: Personally I think that it rather soon to be playing games for either of you. There is obviously an atraction for both of you, but both playing hard to get? I really hope that this isnt a taste of what you have to come if you stay with this man.... (read in full...)

Went to a foreign country and slept with 3 male prostitutes. Should I tell my husband?

Q.   I had sex with 3 male prostitutes last week while visiting a foreign country with my female friend. I feel so guilty now, and I want to tell my husband. I know he will most likely leave me though and we have two children, one is just 6 weeks old and ...

A.   1 May 2008: Most people in your situation would have done the same? Sorry I dont think so!!!! Your just trying to make yourself feel better love. You acted like a complete slut, and are trying to justify it by blaming it on the size of your husbands penis. E... (read in full...)

My wife wants to be painted nude. Is this normal?

Q.   Hi my wife would like to have a nude painting done of her and is quite turned on by that fact that people will see it. is this normal or what...

A.   1 May 2008: I adore nude art, I think its wonderfull that your wife would want to do this. She must be very secure with the way she looks, and thats such a wonderfull thing to hear in this day and age. Suport her, and let her know that you are a unco... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   1 May 2008: Honey!! I cant believe that you called him. Its so obvious that he doesnt want anything to do with you, why keep hurting yourself. You know deep down that the only reason you called him was to get him to respond to you!! I dont know why you bother? ... (read in full...)

Does a relationship with a married man ever work?

Q.   I was in an unhappy marriage,ready to leave.Met this married man and fell in love.Subsequently i drifted out of my marriage.Now am together with the married man,he really loves me and helps me out alot both financially and emotionally.Will it really ...

A.   30 April 2008: My partner was married when we got together (they were unhappy though). The only advice I would give to you, is let him leave her first then you can be with him without having any mud thrown at you. Its very hard to live with the fact you broke up a ... (read in full...)

My husband left me for his young mistress. Will they work out in the future?

Q.   i am the typical story of the wife whos husband left for the young mistress. im sick of hearing that a husband never leaves in those circumstances because im proof that they do. He was happy until she came into the equation and then he completely ...

A.   24 April 2008: Then!! I wish you every happiness I really do. If my partner had wanted to go back to his wife, I would have let him go. Of course I would be upset and devastated (thats only natural if you fall in love) but I would understand. Its like I said ... (read in full...)

My husband left me for his young mistress. Will they work out in the future?

Q.   i am the typical story of the wife whos husband left for the young mistress. im sick of hearing that a husband never leaves in those circumstances because im proof that they do. He was happy until she came into the equation and then he completely ...

A.   24 April 2008: Looweez, I think that you miss the point. Are you saying that just because a man or woman no longer love thier partner, that they should stay in an unhappy relationship, just to please the other person. Also, why! wouldnt you care about a pers... (read in full...)

My husband left me for his young mistress. Will they work out in the future?

Q.   i am the typical story of the wife whos husband left for the young mistress. im sick of hearing that a husband never leaves in those circumstances because im proof that they do. He was happy until she came into the equation and then he completely ...

A.   23 April 2008: Hi, It may not be that you would want to hear from me, as I am in the same position as your husbands present partner. Although I am not younger, than my boyfriends (still) wife, the situation is the same. My boyfriend keeps close contact with his... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   14 April 2008: I kind of agree with the last poster. Solicitors will do anything to earn some more out of the poor sod going through this pain. Really it doesnt matter what you divorce him for, its not as if he will have lying cheating sh** across his head. No b... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   10 March 2008: I wish I could give you a hug, I knew you would get there in the end. Hip Hip Horah XXXXXX... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   5 March 2008: Thank God!!! you are actually staring to fight this man back. I can also tell you why he cant look you in the face, it's guilt nothing else. For whatever reason he has for his actions, does not mean you have to take it laying down. Go for what... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   1 March 2008: Hi Honey, Reading your post, I can see that you have still got extremely strong feelings for this man. I know that its hard to let go of any hope, but I think that your husband has proved over and over again that you have no option. He has move... (read in full...)

Dating a married man for 3 years and he treats me like a queen. But I'm starting to worry. What should I do?

Q.   I've been dating a married man for 3 years. I ignored him for a year because of that reson but he pursed and treated me like a queen. He says he's leaving date after date but their's always an excuse. He's been w her since he was 12 has 2 kids and ...

A.   18 February 2008: Jaazmine, that was terribly harsh. Why is it always the girls fault, would you have wanted your husband to stay with you and lived a lie. If he's had an affair, then good riddance but that doesnt make them a scum bag. Also how can you wreck a marr... (read in full...)

Dating a married man for 3 years and he treats me like a queen. But I'm starting to worry. What should I do?

Q.   I've been dating a married man for 3 years. I ignored him for a year because of that reson but he pursed and treated me like a queen. He says he's leaving date after date but their's always an excuse. He's been w her since he was 12 has 2 kids and ...

A.   15 February 2008: I just wanted to add. Although I see the point of the wife being upset by finding out that her husband is having an affair (I was one of them once). I am glad that I found out, because if it hadnt been the girl that he went off with, it would have... (read in full...)

Dating a married man for 3 years and he treats me like a queen. But I'm starting to worry. What should I do?

Q.   I've been dating a married man for 3 years. I ignored him for a year because of that reson but he pursed and treated me like a queen. He says he's leaving date after date but their's always an excuse. He's been w her since he was 12 has 2 kids and ...

A.   15 February 2008: Hi, I dated a married man (and I am not proud of that by the way) he had been unhappy with his wife for many years. He cheated on her quite a few times, but she never knew. I was his mate for years before we finally got together. So I knew exac... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   13 November 2007: Hiya! I am so pleased for you, your sounding so much better, and a hell of a lot more positive. Good for you. Its so nice when you try and help someone and they feel like there is no light at the end of the tunnel, and then they begin to see that... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   20 September 2007: Hi, I have been sitting reading what has happened to you with a lump in my throat. Its so sad when you are in love with someone who falls for someone else. I should know this has happened to me. But surely by now you can see that the only time he ... (read in full...)

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